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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 8:24 am
by Peg
Hi KayKay and welcome to the garden. Sorry to hear about your situation. How is it abusive? Do any of them live with you?
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 8:39 am
by greydeadhead
Welcome Kay...
There are some very knowledgable folks here.. I am sure they will be happy to help ya out.. have a great holiday season.. be well....
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 10:05 am
by Paula
Hi, KayKay, I know some-one named KK? Welcome to the garden. I am sure you will get some good anwers, maybe?
Every one has problems, its life! With children as older, you need to be equal to all?
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 10:45 pm
by CARLA
KayKay,
WELCOME !!
My biggest problem, (and it just gets bigger and seems out of control now) is my relationship with some of my adult daughters (I have four). Any problems they have tend to be my fault and everything I do, if it is not for them, tends to annoy them. It has become an abusive situation and I will probably seek therapy for it soon. :-5
I'm a mother of one adult daughter..!! I can relate to your problem. I have been going through the same problems your having, have been for several years now. I for one understand your situation.. !! Seems I can do nothing right, and do everything wrong.. :-2 I wonder daily when is it my time.. I have given just about all I have to give.. !! Thinking about running away from home..!!
ANY WAY..IF YOU NEED SOME SUPPORT I'M HERE FOR YOU..!! WE MOM'S HAVE TO STICK TOGETHER..!!
HOPE YOU HAVE A HAPPY HOLIDAY...!!
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Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2004 5:55 am
by Suresh Gupta
Dear Kaykay, welcome to FG.
Read about your problem. You are trying to have a positive attitude and that is the best thing you are doing.
All mothers have such problems. Children are never satisfied. Some times they become unreasonable.
Be clear about your duties and responsibilities for your daughters. You have been doing your best for them. They are mature and now they should take care of their own lives.
Do your duty and leave the rest to God.