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Saying what you think or sugar coating the pill in order to not hurt somebodys feelings - you all know what i think

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460184 wrote: Saying what you think or sugar coating the pill in order to not hurt somebodys feelings - you all know what i think
Yeah you ole sugar coater.:wah:

I usually say whats on my mind. Or nothing at all.

Depending on the situation - but I'm a bottom liner - don't ask if you don't want to know. NO SUGAR - if the dress looks like hell - then it looks like hell (if asked).

I wouldn't go out of my way to say that dress looks like hell, it's not on me.

When asked I'm honest - on all subjects.. No Sugar

Patsy

YZGI;460191 wrote: Yeah you ole sugar coater.:wah:

I usually say whats on my mind. Or nothing at all.


I really don't see the point in hiding something from somebody unless its somebody i really care about then i would try to sugar coat it .

a bit of both I guess depending on the situation. :-6

Pinky;460205 wrote: I think everyone knows I'm a trappy old bag and say what I think, usually before I think about it.


Would you agree theres a difference in being spiteful and saying what needs to be said .

I say sugar coat it and play it safe. YOU NEVER KNOW WHO MIGHT GET OFFENDED.

i say tell it as it is but only tell the truth and when your wrong have the guts and decency to say sorry

24Hours;460210 wrote: I say sugar coat it and play it safe. YOU NEVER KNOW WHO MIGHT GET OFFENDED.
Stay with this theme. I think its starting to work.:wah:

jimbo;460212 wrote: i say tell it as it is but only tell the truth and when your wrong have the guts and decency to say sorry


Very true . How do feel about lies .How should people who lie be treated .

Can anybody say. HERE WE GO AGAIN...:-3

Ok you know somebodys having an affair ..do you tell or keep quite

YZGI;460221 wrote: Can anybody say. HERE WE GO AGAIN...:-3


Yeah, no kidding. We can also say "transparent" too!



How do you feel about people who start trouble?

zinky pees himself and flaps away in terror:eek:

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460223 wrote: Ok you know somebodys having an affair ..do you tell or keep quite
Someone elses affair is no affair of mine and if it were an affair of mine I would prefer it was not released to the affairer or affaireee.:-2

Ok you think somebody is being abused but your not sure ..do you speak up or keep quite

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460234 wrote: Ok you think somebody is being abused but your not sure ..do you speak up or keep quite
If its a woman--say something if its a dude tell everyone else.

YZGI;460237 wrote: If its a woman--say something if its a dude tell everyone else.


What if it was a child

Abuse for a women and child I would report it - I would jump in

Affair - none of my business - usually the signs are there - some wish to ignore them and life/relationship goes on..

Patsy

pantsonfire321@aol.com;460238 wrote: What if it was a child
Depends on the severity. At times in certain situations I see parents doing the unthinkable. Now the beating of a child I will go to all lenghts to report.

Straight up is always the best way.Which is why I don't got alotta Friends.Sometimes people can't handle the truth.So You need judge your honesty.Words can hurt.

My one exception is children,You have too bite your tongue and nurture them so they become good people.You can hurt them at any cost,they are the keepers of our future.And even the smallest jab or action can scar for life.

Don't hurt the children,or we will come for you.:yh_ghost

i say tell the truth. be honest. and apologize when you mes up.

Depends. I try not to hurt peoples feelings..but will not hide the truth so their feelings won't get bruised, either. That is not real life.

I do it on a situational basis. Chosing the right words makes all the difference.

what if a friend asks you if their spouse is having an affair, and you know they are. how do you answer? do you lie or tell them.......

If a friend asked about a affair & I did know - I would ask the friend Why they suspect a affair - I would want to hear them first.

If I knew I would tell them what I knew - facts only the facts that I knew, not hear say second hand info. If a friend is asking they already know - I think their looking for confirmation. If my friends ask me, they know I will tell them the truth.

Patsy

Well, bless your heart...............

I would have to tell the truth too. i could not look them in the eye and lie about it. .......