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Indian Princess;544584 wrote: Any suggestions:


Cellotape:-3 Time and loving yourself more than anyone else can :-4

Time helps, and hanging out with your friends will help it pass faster.

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Indian Princess;544584 wrote: Any suggestions:


Go out and get laid...................just kidding................wait at least a week. :sneaky:

Chonsi is right.........time spent with friends is better than being alone.

Cry, rant, rave, whatever, let the feelings go, don't bottle them up. :yh_hugs

I was with him almost seven years and engaged for 3, there a clue!!!!

He has been married twice, he is 57 I am 39 I loved him, its been six months we work together which isnt hard, I get asked out and if he knows he hurts and I feel so guilty I dont go.

Indian Princess;544627 wrote: I was with him almost seven years and engaged for 3, there a clue!!!!

He has been married twice, he is 57 I am 39 I loved him, its been six months we work together which isnt hard, I get asked out and if he knows he hurts and I feel so guilty I dont go.


Sweetie.........go spend time with friends. There is no guilt in that. Over is over even in a long term relationship. Don't stay home and worry about his feelings. There must have been reason for the break-up.

I wish someone could've told me a few years back. I live alone now by choice, because I don't want to ever feel so vulnerable again......I've done all the things the others have said, and they work, up to a point. Only time takes the edge off the feelings, I looked for a short cut, couldn't find one.

I agree with dubs.

Time. Only time.

Indian Princess;544627 wrote: I get asked out and if he knows he hurts and I feel so guilty I dont go.


ACK!! Don't let him stop you from moving forward with your life. Move on and be the best person you can be.

Girlfriends are a God-send at times like this. You go out, and enjoy. Hugging!

Indian Princess;544627 wrote: I was with him almost seven years and engaged for 3, there a clue!!!!

He has been married twice, he is 57 I am 39 I loved him, its been six months we work together which isnt hard, I get asked out and if he knows he hurts and I feel so guilty I dont go.


hmmm...so he's failed at marriage twice - now there's a clue!

and if he hurts...you feel guilty and don't go out! Darlin' he has you twisted round his little finger! You're 20 years younger - still plenty young enough to have LOTS of fun in your life! He's stuck in his ways and wants you stuck in them too! He doesn't want you any more - but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either! A classic example of a control freak! You get your butt out there hunny and have fun with ALL your mates - girls AND guys! And when he pulls that sad little 'I'm hurt' face just giggle, shrug and dance away - even if it hurts like hell! He's used and abused your love - it's time to show him that whats good for the goose is good for the gander! And have fun!

I am feeling better this evening really, thanks guys, normally I can do great, however, my best friend died and thats hard.

The reason for the split up are ya ready!!!!! and I quote" You and Travis no longer fit the fantasy of my life" We were sitting at the picnic table to set the date his brother was in from New York. No clue what so ever this was to happen. Said and I quote again "I need to find myself and what I want from life" "I need to explore and dont want to be responsible for anyone but myself" He laughed when I cried.

Ditto Rapunzel and Far Rider. Move forward girl. Leave this bump on a log behind and go kick up your heels.

I'm sorry you lost your best friend. Hugging!

57 and he needs to find what he wants from life?



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Consider yourself lucky IP

There's a book out there called "He's just not that in to you". He definitely fits that mold. Consider yourself the winner. I'll buy your 1st drink, what're ya having?? Let's party :yh_party

There's nothing like getting on top of someone for a while, in order to get over someone else. Know what I mean. :rolleyes:

You guys keep me laughing, I've know who I was I swear since birth, some people are just like that, to bad we all dont live in the same town. Thanks guys.

Oh and maybe hit him a dig in the face for old times sake as well, its immature, but hey, he sounds like a prat so why not? You'll enjoy it anyway. :guitarist

Pinky;545052 wrote: My way of doing things is to get your foxiest gear on, go out and party until you drop! Laugh, dance, flirt and cause chaos!!

Some ass-kicking tunes help too!:guitarist


Wow Pinky. Lets go out:D