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My hubby has been really sick and I am taking such a selfish feeling here. I HATE BEING ALONE. He went to the doc and it was fine until today........I feel like he thinks I don't care..............BULLSHIT

I don't understand - why would he think you wouldn't care?

Patsy

Wow, that's a tough spot to be in. My father was sick for many years. My mother got to the point at times she couldn't feel anymore. She wanted to and dad knew that. He always felt like he was the selfish one. It was when they didn't tell each other how they were feeling that things became difficult. They went through those spells, then one would break the ice and things would get better.

I'll keep you in my prayers.

Nvalley

Depending on how sick he is - selfish is only one of many emotions/stages you will experience.

Patsy

Men turn in to babies when they get sick. Of course they won't admit this, but we women know better. They want mommy and homemade chicken soup. :wah: If we don't buy in to it, they feel we don't care.

But let US get sick huh?? Then it's... Buck Up! Where's dinner?! Where's my clean shirts?! Why don't you clean up around here?! You're not that sick!! :-5



Ooops, do you mean VERY sick?? Not just a cold? Sorry if my words offended. Just meaning to lighten things up

BTS gets mad when I dote and gets mad when I do not.

Rain

That cracked me up :wah:

Patsy

Rain;544771 wrote: Men turn in to babies when they get sick. Of course they won't admit this, but we women know better. They want mommy and homemade chicken soup. :wah: If we don't buy in to it, they feel we don't care.

But let US get sick huh?? Then it's... Buck Up! Where's dinner?! Where's my clean shirts?! Why don't you clean up around here?! You're not that sick!! :-5

Ooo, sounding a little bitter tonight Rain???? Yup!

Ooops, do you mean VERY sick?? Not just a cold? Sorry if my words offended. Just meaning to lighten things up


Yeppers.........I get sick and I am just sick........it doesn't mean I shouldn't do the house stuff. Maybe thats why he retreated to the bedroom while I did what was necessary on the home front...like I did with a 103 fever and chills .

Nvalley

For serious advise - how sick are we talking about?

Or is this just venting - and thats cool, I can bit-- about both

Patsy

Patsy Warnick;544777 wrote: Nvalley

For serious advise - how sick are we talking about?

Or is this just venting - and thats cool, I can bit-- about both

Patsy


Strep confirmed.... but not in the tonsils......in the esophagus...........fever of 102 every day. He is just not getting better. He's been on penicillion(sp) for 3 days now and is still sick with fever.

Rain;544771 wrote: Men turn in to babies when they get sick. Of course they won't admit this, but we women know better. They want mommy and homemade chicken soup. :wah: If we don't buy in to it, they feel we don't care.



But let US get sick huh?? Then it's... Buck Up! Where's dinner?! Where's my clean shirts?! Why don't you clean up around here?! You're not that sick!! :-5





Ooops, do you mean VERY sick?? Not just a cold? Sorry if my words offended. Just meaning to lighten things up






I think sympathy is highly underrated.

LOL ^

Nvalleyvee. Yes, strep is a bear to have. I'm sorry he has it, but really, what more can you do for him? Men! Hmph :rolleyes:

I got the point about you doing housework with a fever. Men certainly wouldn't do that. Women Rule!!