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I miss her too

dont let any one drive you out we all have times when we or our loved ones are attacked , your tougher than that we need you on here br , i dont always agree with what you say buddy but i do know what you say is what you mean and i really like that :-4

OK what happened why is she leaving.. :-3

Ok, Im not in the loop here, I'm checking that out to,cause BR made me feel welcomed when I first came.

I miss her being here too...

she's a tough cookie, with a big heart....:-4

BR does her own thing . What i've always loved about her is the fact that she speaks her mind and stands up for what she believes in . I miss her here :-1 . Its funny how more and more people are being chased away .

pantsonfire321@aol.com;545941 wrote: BR does her own thing . What i've always loved about her is the fact that she speaks her mind and stands up for what she believes in . I miss her here :-1 . Its funny how more and more people are being chased away .




Is this true for all people who speak their mind ?

pantsonfire321@aol.com;545941 wrote: BR does her own thing . What i've always loved about her is the fact that she speaks her mind and stands up for what she believes in . I miss her here :-1 . Its funny how more and more people are being chased away .


Who chased her away? I didn't see that.

In order to be chased one must run. I've never known her to run from anyone.

Nomad;545956 wrote: Is this true for all people who speak their mind ?


Never you! :wah:

Nomad;545956 wrote: Is this true for all people who speak their mind ?


I would of said, why don't you ask them - but seeing as their not here anymore i think that speaks for itself .

911;546223 wrote: Who chased her away? I didn't see that.

In order to be chased one must run. I've never known her to run from anyone.


Check out the thread ; anyone know how Br is doing .

BR doesn't need anone to defend her but...

I didn't see anyone helping her out that time.

Now everyone misses her.

I think it would have been better to come to her side even if you didn't agree with her stance. You know there was some bravado mixed in there. Plus passion. Yet all I saw were people shocked at what she said, standing by and watching while some jerk tore her down. I didn't like that.

And that had to be said.

RedGlitter;546424 wrote: BR doesn't need anone to defend her but...

I didn't see anyone helping her out that time.

Now everyone misses her.

I think it would have been better to come to her side even if you didn't agree with her stance. You know there was some bravado mixed in there. Plus passion. Yet all I saw were people shocked at what she said, standing by and watching while some jerk tore her down. I didn't like that.

And that had to be said.


The only problem is RG, is that if everyone done that like i've seen on other threads it becomes a free for all, everyone bringing up old crap and it really does become like a bullying gang. Heck Jim had it done to him and for his sake I had to keep my mouth shut, which was a lot harder than saying something. It is a natural reaction to want to protect our friends and the ones we love, i've seen you defend someone whose words were questioned, for this person to then confirm their beliefs in black and white, everything you said in their defence went straight out the window. I for one a glad you are my friend and i believe you to be a person of good heart, but I just think sometimes people have to take a step back and let these people dig a bigger hole, which they normally do.

Thanks Suzy, that was a nice thing for you to say.

I suppose that's a way of looking at it. I know I only said one thing about it and then I stepped back. I was just surprised that in "lesser" threads people have jumped in left and right and then when it was BR...where were they? But I see your point, and I've seen it happen. I know it's true.

jimbo;545421 wrote: dont let any one drive you out 4


It's not anything like that. Read the thread from the relevant time, and you'll see.

to be honest red , i feel like i let her down , i should of said something , but sometimes if its a 1 on 1 then some one else buts in then it gets into a free for all and gets much worse then the flying monkeys come in , it gets outa hand , br come back , i'm sure we can just get along just fine , there are people that really hate me on f g , i was going to leave once but i want those people that dont like me to see my ugly mug every day and be annoyed , i cant annoy them if i'm not here can i :wah: :wah: :wah:

Bill Sikes;546456 wrote: It's not anything like that. Read the thread from the relevant time, and you'll see.


Don't think he meant literally Bill, the thread has been removed.

RedGlitter;546424 wrote: BR doesn't need anone to defend her but...

I didn't see anyone helping her out that time.

Now everyone misses her.

I think it would have been better to come to her side even if you didn't agree with her stance. You know there was some bravado mixed in there. Plus passion. Yet all I saw were people shocked at what she said, standing by and watching while some jerk tore her down. I didn't like that.

And that had to be said.


I was on her side and she knows it. I'm still "on her side".



I think there are just times when it's better to stay out, especially

with people you know you won't ever get anywhere with and it's a

waste of your energy and ups your stress level. There was a very long

history there that most of you don't know about. Going up against

a person like that gets you nowhere and only delights them in the

trouble they are causing.



I not too many moons ago came to DG's side, you saw how that ended

up.



I was missing BR long before that thread.



:-1

Hehe...flying monkeys. All that's true, Jimbo. About the free for all, that is. I remember the past. Besides like Suzy said, let them dig a bigger hole. I know I saw someone's true colors there and I didn't like them. Okay...I'm seeing the picture. It doesn't look like BR is interetsed in returning anyway which is a shame but it's her call. I just had to say what's been on my mind about it.

SuzyB;546463 wrote: Don't think he meant literally Bill, the thread has been removed.


I can't remember the title - can you?

Bill Sikes;546468 wrote: I can't remember the title - can you?


Yep, not only do I have the body of an elephant I have the memory too!!!:D

SuzyB;546472 wrote: Yep, not only do I have the body of an elephant I have the memory too!!!:D


I didn't mean that entirely literally, as in "yes" or "no", I'd hoped for the actual

title!

Bill Sikes;546468 wrote: I can't remember the title - can you?


Bill Sikes;546521 wrote: I didn't mean that entirely literally, as in "yes" or "no", I'd hoped for the actual

title!


Sorry Bill, your first question didn't say that :p

911;546223 wrote: Who chased her away? I didn't see that.



In order to be chased one must run. I've never known her to run from anyone.






I didnt chase her away but shes very very afraid of me. You can take that to the bank. Everytime I speak she piddles. :wah: :-4

SuzyB;546532 wrote: Sorry Bill, your first question didn't say that p


So, SuzyB, you said that you can remember the thread title. What was it?

Bill Sikes;546543 wrote: So, SuzyB, you said that you can remember the thread title. What was it?


I said I can remember it, not that I was going to share it Seriously, not trying to be a pain, the thread has been pulled and it's all done and dusted.

SuzyB;546545 wrote: I said I can remember it, not that I was going to share it Seriously, not trying to be a pain, the thread has been pulled and it's all done and dusted.


That's the point - there are other places apart from Google and FG where

information is stored. The fact that the "thread has been pulled" is *most*

unsatisfactory. Anyone can now make accusations either way, without

others being able to inspect the original material, and make up their own

minds - you see my point? With the thread title, or a string of words (possibly

a few strings of words) from posts in that thread, it would be possible to

review the thread.

Bill Sikes;546554 wrote: That's the point - there are other places apart from Google and FG where

information is stored.

The fact that the "thread has been pulled" is *most*

unsatisfactory.

Says who??

Anyone can now make accusations either way, without

others being able to inspect the original material, and make up their own

minds -

you see my point?

Not really

With the thread title, or a string of words (possibly

a few strings of words) from posts in that thread, it would be possible to

review the thread.


I'm sure that as much as BR would value your opinion on the 5hit on that thread, she'll survive without it

Nomad;546537 wrote: I didnt chase her away but shes very very afraid of me. You can take that to the bank. Everytime I speak she piddles. :wah: :-4


Sure, you can say that now Nomie, now that's She's gone, & won't see your bravado statement! :wah: