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Have you ever said something and instantly realized you said it outloud by the silence and stares in the room?





-Ip takes a deep breath a chagrined look upon her face, your goinga think I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooo low.



-we have a person at work that all they do is complain everyday for 7 years I swear it has been the same thing, I have tried to counsel her give her options, told her see a doctor, but she is such a tattletale and so depressing, it just seems to be an act.



We were so swamped stress level up to the ceiling and beyond like Charlie and The Chocolate Factorys glass elevator: 10 phone lines ringing 4 people shouting my name, people demanding there prescriptions, total chaos, and here she comes, all I could say was Stephanie dont start today if you were really that miserable after seven years you would do something about it! I dont want to hear it anymore.

I did apologize late but I also told her I dont want to hear it anymore until she helps herself

how is that out of line? maybe a good wake up call for steph...i had a counsler tell me the same thing....dont come back untill you seperate...then i will help you.....when you are ready to help yourself....pissed me off at the time......but he was right....

Thanks, because I really think it was necessary, I dont like people who only want sympathy you dont like something work to change it, it wont happen overnight, but by goodness doooooooooooooooooooo something.

could you pass the tarter sauce please????????:D