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Its hard when people bully you for whatever reason but at least you can get to the saddo but what about online bullying. Another chat site we were on had these people on bullying on the threads and yes we know its only a screen and we know theres people out there that get their kicks that way but what about the people who come here for the company and cant handle this . Some of us tried to complain to the site but got totally ignored and the bullies were left to carry on.............in everyday life you wouldnt take it .......so why online????

Its such a shame and so dissapointing to find supposedly grown up adults behaving like spoilt little brats sometimes.. but unforunately they are out there!

Somthings obviously lacking in their lives.

An Intresting subject i have been bullied online before but i don't really feelanything i've been called nearly all the names in the book so i'm used to it

Don't take it and don't run either, Carolly. Online bullies should be confronted and exposed, every time.

Musiclover89;587853 wrote: An Intresting subject i have been bullied online before but i don't really feelanything i've been called nearly all the names in the book so i'm used to it Music i had a thread with over 10000 messages on it and the spiteful gits started until it was gone and left the people of this lovely thread devostated. Bullys that hide behind a screen are real life losers I guess.

kazalala;587852 wrote: Its such a shame and so dissapointing to find supposedly grown up adults behaving like spoilt little brats sometimes.. but unforunately they are out there!

Somthings obviously lacking in their lives. Kaz you have seen these saddos at work and youve also seen the hurt it can bring love. x

spot;587854 wrote: Don't take it and don't run either, Carolly. Online bullies should be confronted and exposed, every time.Spot sometimes you have to run as the hurt it is causing is just to painful. The power of the Interent is great but sometimes you pay the price for this.

Online bullying doesn't bother me. Now in line bullying can be a problem, They just keep on coming right at you.

Carolly;587863 wrote: Music i had a thread with over 10000 messages on it and the spiteful gits started until it was gone and left the people of this lovely thread devostated. Bullys that hide behind a screen are real life losers I guess.



life is full of bullies, stand up to them and stand proud .:-6

YZGI;587890 wrote: Online bullying doesn't bother me. Now in line bullying can be a problem, They just keep on coming right at you.er ok........................I think lol

too right problem is some are better writers than other

but what are they like in real life

pantsonfire321@aol.com;587891 wrote:



life is full of bullies, stand up to them and stand proud .:-6 Sometimes your not in a place with your real life problems to do this hun.

Carolly;587896 wrote: Sometimes your not in a place with your real life problems to do this hun.


I hope things get better for you ... can we help .

bornbad;587893 wrote: too right problem is some are better writers than other

but what are they like in real life I agree 100% love

pantsonfire321@aol.com;587898 wrote: I hope things get better for you ... can we help .


No babe but thanks, but as the saying goes.....what goes around comes around..................

Carolly;587905 wrote: No babe but thanks, but as the saying goes.....what goes around comes around..................


Very true .

Hey any time you need to vent, you know where we are . Take care. :-6

pantsonfire321@aol.com;587908 wrote: Very true .

Hey any time you need to vent, you know where we are . Take care. :-6 Appreciated x

I think what makes it so hard is the fact you just cant get yer hands on the scumbags that do this.

WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO HAVE AN ENJOYABLE CHAT WITH SOME ONE AND AN IDIOT COMES ON WITH REMARKS LIKE "PATHETIC" "BORING" ADDING SNEERING COMMENTS AND PERSONAL REMARKS. THEN COMES BACK A BIT LATER AND DOES THE SAME. THEN COMES IN THE FOLLOWING DAY ETC ETC, IT GETS VERY WEARING. PEOPLE CAN TAKE SO MUCH, THEN THEY JUST CAN'T TAKE ANY MORE AND EITHER LEAVE THE SITE OR RETALIATE - EITHER WAY THE IDIOT HAS WON.

IT MATTERS NOT THAT YOU COMPLAIN TO THE "CONTACT US" BECAUSE THEY SEEM INCAPABLE OF DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT.

IT IS SO CRUEL, ALL THIS BULLYING, BECAUSE THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO FIND USING THE THREAD FACILITY A GREAT COMFORT, GREAT COMPANY, AND SOMETIMES EVEN A LIFELINE.

AS I SAY THESE IDIOTS HAVE NO HEARTS, THEY ARE CRUELLY CHILDISH, VINDICTIVE, ANTAGONISTIC, NASTY, AND UNFORTUNATELY THEY AND THEIR SUCCESSORS ARE HERE TO STAY, UNLESS THE SITE AUTHORITIES FIND A WAY TO MINIMISE THIS PROBLEM.

Gill

G#Gill;587961 wrote: WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO HAVE AN ENJOYABLE CHAT WITH SOME ONE AND AN IDIOT COMES ON WITH REMARKS LIKE "PATHETIC" "BORING" ADDING SNEERING COMMENTS AND PERSONAL REMARKS. THEN COMES BACK A BIT LATER AND DOES THE SAME. THEN COMES IN THE FOLLOWING DAY ETC ETC, IT GETS VERY WEARING. PEOPLE CAN TAKE SO MUCH, THEN THEY JUST CAN'T TAKE ANY MORE AND EITHER LEAVE THE SITE OR RETALIATE - EITHER WAY THE IDIOT HAS WON.

IT MATTERS NOT THAT YOU COMPLAIN TO THE "CONTACT US" BECAUSE THEY SEEM INCAPABLE OF DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT.

IT IS SO CRUEL, ALL THIS BULLYING, BECAUSE THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO FIND USING THE THREAD FACILITY A GREAT COMFORT, GREAT COMPANY, AND SOMETIMES EVEN A LIFELINE.

AS I SAY THESE IDIOTS HAVE NO HEARTS, THEY ARE CRUELLY CHILDISH, VINDICTIVE, ANTAGONISTIC, NASTY, AND UNFORTUNATELY THEY AND THEIR SUCCESSORS ARE HERE TO STAY, UNLESS THE SITE AUTHORITIES FIND A WAY TO MINIMISE THIS PROBLEM.

GillGill very wise words mate....................very.

Bullying is indicitive of personality problems. Ignore them, if you can. Stand up to them, if your in the mood. But dont let them get to you. They are just angry, sad human beings.

Carolly;588004 wrote: Gill very wise words mate....................very.


:guitarist Hi Carol ! Thanks for that !

Hi Pantsonfire, I'm sure you aren't what your name suggests you are !!!!:wah:

Weeder - Yes, we do try to ignore them - but it still needles us, and as I say everybody has a patience limit, and of course the bullies know this, and just keep on and keep on. What an odd way to get your entertainment ! To be pitied really !

It's Easter, and the sun is shining over England, and this evening the air will be filled with the smell of Bar-B-Qs ! So I for one will cast the Saddos from my mind

for the moment and enjoy chillin' out !:-6

G#Gill;588132 wrote: :guitarist Hi Carol ! Thanks for that !

Hi Pantsonfire, I'm sure you aren't what your name suggests you are !!!!

Weeder - Yes, we do try to ignore them - but it still needles us, and as I say everybody has a patience limit, and of course the bullies know this, and just keep on and keep on. What an odd way to get your entertainment ! To be pitied really !

It's Easter, and the sun is shining over England, and this evening the air will be filled with the smell of Bar-B-Qs ! So I for one will cast the Saddos from my mind

for the moment and enjoy chillin' out !


Hey the internet is a very odd place . I'm a relative newcomer but the one thing i have learned is that bullys lurk everywhere and come from all walks of life and not everybody is genuine, just ignore the arseholes their really not worth it .:-6

weeder;588060 wrote: Bullying is indicitive of personality problems. Ignore them, if you can. Stand up to them, if your in the mood. But dont let them get to you. They are just angry, sad human beings.
More true words, but the sad part is the hurt they bring.

G#Gill;588132 wrote: :guitarist Hi Carol ! Thanks for that !

Hi Pantsonfire, I'm sure you aren't what your name suggests you are !!!!:wah:

Weeder - Yes, we do try to ignore them - but it still needles us, and as I say everybody has a patience limit, and of course the bullies know this, and just keep on and keep on. What an odd way to get your entertainment ! To be pitied really !

It's Easter, and the sun is shining over England, and this evening the air will be filled with the smell of Bar-B-Qs ! So I for one will cast the Saddos from my mind

for the moment and enjoy chillin' out !:-6 Sounds good to me mate lolx

totally ignore nasty moaning meanies have fun with your friends make new friends and unless they get personall ignore the idiot ,thats what i do ,its great to be able to have a laugh and joke with friends ,its a shame that some people would rather go online just to wind people up and be nasty ,and keep moaning rather than have a laugh ,shame i really feel very sorry for people like that :wah: :wah:



after all they can only be nasty and moan as they have nothing funny or interesting to say ,and if they were not being nasty people would totally ignore them altogether ,thats what we all should do :wah::wah:

jimbo;588238 wrote: totally ignore nasty moaning meanies have fun with your friends make new friends and unless they get personall ignore the idiot ,thats what i do ,its great to be able to have a laugh and joke with friends ,its a shame that some people would rather go online just to wind people up and be nasty ,and keep moaning rather than have a laugh ,shame i really feel very sorry for people like that



after all they can only be nasty and moan as they have nothing funny or interesting to say ,and if they were not being nasty people would totally ignore them altogether ,thats what we all should do :wah::wah:


Aww, I see I have been missed. :p

crazygal;588240 wrote: Aww, I see I have been missed. :p




:wah: :wah: yup like toothache :p

jimbo;588244 wrote: :wah: :wah: yup like toothache :p


Aww well at least you don't get it with your dentures. :wah:

crazygal;588247 wrote: Aww well at least you don't get it with your dentures. :wah:




you little monster ,you are so funny at times :wah:



















not :p :p

jimbo;588250 wrote: you little monster, you are so funny at times :wah:



















not :p :p


At least you're still here, seems most have disappeared. I wasn't about for ages and there weren't that many posts.

jimbo;588238 wrote: totally ignore nasty moaning meanies have fun with your friends make new friends and unless they get personall ignore the idiot ,thats what i do ,its great to be able to have a laugh and joke with friends ,its a shame that some people would rather go online just to wind people up and be nasty ,and keep moaning rather than have a laugh ,shame i really feel very sorry for people like that :wah: :wah:



after all they can only be nasty and moan as they have nothing funny or interesting to say ,and if they were not being nasty people would totally ignore them altogether ,thats what we all should do :wah::wah:
Hi Jim, dont get me wrong I agree with every word you say but yes at times they do get personal and then what?You cant do sweet f a about it Jim as half the time the site these people are on causing the grief just dont want to know and leave their posts on even though many complain. These people are the lowest of the lowest we know that but what the hell can you do about them at the end of the day?

I really wish I hadn't read that in my email rather than on here.

hi mate got on here at last !!:-5

helen52@supanet.com;588272 wrote: hi mate got on here at last !!:-5
Oh gawd Helen I think you better get yer name sorted hun!!!!

Hi Helen

What's your email addy so I can send you some spam? :wah:

crazygal;588330 wrote: Hi Helen

What's your email addy so I can send you some spam? :wah:
Now thats a hard question????

LMFAO :wah:

crazygal;588375 wrote: LMFAO :wah:Now behave this is serious fgs!!!!pmsl :driving: :-5 :-3

Carolly;588260 wrote: Hi Jim, dont get me wrong I agree with every word you say but yes at times they do get personal and then what?You cant do sweet f a about it Jim as half the time the site these people are on causing the grief just dont want to know and leave their posts on even though many complain. These people are the lowest of the lowest we know that but what the hell can you do about them at the end of the day?


i usually just ignore them but if its personal i have a go back ,as a rule there is some idiot that always has a go at me i let her have 5 digs then i have a go back ,just try and stay talking to the nice people ,most of the funny people have a laugh together ,most of the clever people talk about clever stuff ,and most of the nice people talk about nice stuff with the nice people that belong to each group ,if you some one just keep popping up out of the blue with no friends just moaning and having a nasty dig at who ever she can beware , and if that person post no photo's no real life stuff eg name town and such beware twice as much if people are hiding and dont want to be found ,they are hiding for a reason ,maybe they have been so horrible to so many people there would be a lynch mob going round their house if they knew where to get hold of that person :wah: :wah:

jimbo;588400 wrote: i usually just ignore them but if its personal i have a go back ,as a rule there is some idiot that always has a go at me i let her have 5 digs then i have a go back ,just try and stay talking to the nice people ,most of the funny people have a laugh together ,most of the clever people talk about clever stuff ,and most of the nice people talk about nice stuff with the nice people that belong to each group ,if you some one just keep popping up out of the blue with no friends just moaning and having a nasty dig at who ever she can beware , and if that person post no photo's no real life stuff eg name town and such beware twice as much if people are hiding and dont want to be found ,they are hiding for a reason ,maybe they have been so horrible to so many people there would be a lynch mob going round their house if they knew where to get hold of that person :wah: :wah:






SHE Jimbo?



*thinking - ouch it hurts*

jimbo;588400 wrote: i usually just ignore them but if its personal i have a go back ,as a rule there is some idiot that always has a go at me i let her have 5 digs then i have a go back ,just try and stay talking to the nice people ,most of the funny people have a laugh together ,most of the clever people talk about clever stuff ,and most of the nice people talk about nice stuff with the nice people that belong to each group ,if you some one just keep popping up out of the blue with no friends just moaning and having a nasty dig at who ever she can beware , and if that person post no photo's no real life stuff eg name town and such beware twice as much if people are hiding and dont want to be found ,they are hiding for a reason ,maybe they have been so horrible to so many people there would be a lynch mob going round their house if they knew where to get hold of that person :wah: :wah: HOW BLOODY TRUE MATE!!!!!:-5

Imladris;588422 wrote: SHE Jimbo?



*thinking - ouch it hurts*




not you immy :-6 :-6

Carolly;588217 wrote: More true words, but the sad part is the hurt they bring.


Carolly , what site is it your talking about . Have you tryed talking to the admins or are they part of the problem . Is there a reason why their picking on you .

A lot of people **** stirr and pick on others because they have no other life other than the people they talk to online , it's sad really .

jimbo;588400 wrote: i usually just ignore them but if its personal i have a go back ,as a rule there is some idiot that always has a go at me i let her have 5 digs then i have a go back ,just try and stay talking to the nice people ,most of the funny people have a laugh together ,most of the clever people talk about clever stuff ,and most of the nice people talk about nice stuff with the nice people that belong to each group ,if you some one just keep popping up out of the blue with no friends just moaning and having a nasty dig at who ever she can beware , and if that person post no photo's no real life stuff eg name town and such beware twice as much if people are hiding and dont want to be found ,they are hiding for a reason ,maybe they have been so horrible to so many people there would be a lynch mob going round their house if they knew where to get hold of that person :wah: :wah:



Another example of online bullying, Now if that was aimed at me i'd be the first one to report it to the police .

pantsonfire321@aol.com;588616 wrote:





Another example of online bullying, Now if that was aimed at me i'd be the first one to report it to the police .




you must feel that you have been so horrible to so many people that there would really be a lynch mob after you ,come now abbypants ,what is your problem with being nice to people ,your always being nasty to jimbo telling horrible lies ,calling me horrible names now what have i ever done to you?? , oh by the way there number is 999 ,i'll contact my lawyer :rolleyes: :wah:

Joannee;588620 wrote: Carol put it all behind you now, remember better the devil you know than the devil you think you know.

Now is the time to realise who your real friends are, I have been around a lot longer than many of our friends and have witnessed so many times the hurt and trauma that comes from bullying both verbally and physically.

If anyone stands up to them they usually back off which proves them to be the cowards they are having to hide behind false names and a screen.




good post good advice , i am a bit of a thicko it is the same carol that used to be a singer and once posted a photo of her in her costume ??? if so welcome back carol , if not hello carol nice to meet you :wah: :wah:

jimbo;588618 wrote: you must feel that you have been so horrible to so many people that there would really be a lynch mob after you ,come now abbypants ,what is your problem with being nice to people ,your always being nasty to jimbo telling horrible lies ,calling me horrible names now what have i ever done to you?? , oh by the way there number is 999 ,i'll contact my lawyer :rolleyes: :wah:


Cousin Dim , get it out of your system - go on you know you want to . Mr nice you are not - you are a convicted thug . Say what ever you want because i couldn't care less . You are a liar and a bully and you follow me around like a an idiot . I don't care what you think , and i have nothing to say to you and nothing to say sorry to you for mr blackmailer - all you are doing is showing people how childish you are and what a nasty person you are . Get a grip, i'm not interested in pandering to your ego . Your not important . Say every thing you want to say because i really don't care . I'm here and i'm staying and if you don't like it, how about this , you leave and so will i .:yh_bigsmi