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Political correctness has gone too far or we are just scraping the surface of it?

Political correctness is a bane in our society now. IMO (<--- look! PC!)

There's a difference between being a crass insensitive jerk with people and then just speaking your mind, risking offending someone without malice.

My friend and I grew up in the 70s and 80s before PC rode in and we still talk the same way we did then. We still use the word "retarded" and we like it that way. It doesn't mean we poke fun at mentally slow individuals or anything like that but if we're around the wrong people, we will be corrected for not being PC. We hate PC. I personally am sick of everyone leading into or wrapping up what they want to say with a disclaimer so I and others won't be "offended."

I may get offended often. But guess what, I can. So go ahead and offend me. I'll let you know if it's something worth arguing about.

I love this thread topic, Buttercup.

pc is wrong





call a spade a spade :-3





thats what my grand dad said

racial slur! racial slur!

:wah: :wah:

I agree.

Can that PC sh*t.

I get sick of people jumping on the PC band wagon, some of my favourite comedians wouldn't be allowed to have their sketches on tv, due to people reacting over the top!

Political correctness means, as best I understand it, parroting the party line whatever the party line is this week.

Applied to, for example, inclusive language or a refusal to employ racist perjorative expressions, the parallel is obvious. It implies that one is saying the thing because it's what one's told to say rather than because it's the right thing to do.

I think it's the right thing to do, on balance. I see few instances where it's a stupid step beyond reason. When I see such excess I dismiss it rather than parrot it in turn.

The question is, should mocking "political correctness" because it's fun to join in the mocking, and because it's possible to find idiocy on the edges of the concept, take precedence over what is essentially good manners?

Ya, it is way out of control. You need to watch everything you say and be so sensitive about everything. It is ridiculous; I miss the good old days when you could just tell someone to go f**k off and it be no big deal.:-5

SuzyB;642851 wrote: I get sick of people jumping on the PC band wagon, some of my favourite comedians wouldn't be allowed to have their sketches on tv, due to people reacting over the top!Let me guess...

I have always had good manners and would never say something directly at a person to hurt a person, but some things are funny, we are becoming scared to laugh incase someones feelings get hurt. When people make jokes about fat people I laugh (if it's funny) I don't sit there saying it's out of order.

spot;642868 wrote: Let me guess...




He's good :wah:

spot;642863 wrote: Political correctness means, as best I understand it, parroting the party line whatever the party line is this week.

Applied to, for example, inclusive language or a refusal to employ racist perjorative expressions, the parallel is obvious. It implies that one is saying the thing because it's what one's told to say rather than because it's the right thing to do.

Exactly.



I think it's the right thing to do, on balance. I see few instances where it's a stupid step beyond reason. When I see such excess I dismiss it rather than parrot it in turn.

The question is, should mocking "political correctness" because it's fun to join in the mocking, and because it's possible to find idiocy on the edges of the concept, take precedence over what is essentially good manners?


I would say, Spot, that we had good manners before we had PC. Most of us were taught to avoid hurting people and to be considerate. Within reason. Due to the nature of the degrees of differences among peoples, it is impossible to avoid offending someone some of the time. I think that needs to be realized.

SuzyB;642869 wrote: I have always had good manners and would never say something directly at a person to hurt a person, but some things are funny, we are becoming scared to laugh incase someones feelings get hurt. When people make jokes about fat people I laugh (if it's funny) I don't sit there saying it's out of order.


Ok, but Suzy do you also laugh at jokes about drunk Irishmen and Mexicans? It's still ok to laugh at fat people and rednecks for some reason but laugh at a racial joke and your butt's grass. I find this annoying because cultures and ethnicities are funny by their very nature.

mikeinie;642866 wrote: Ya, it is way out of control. You need to watch everything you say and be so sensitive about everything. It is ridiculous; I miss the good old days when you could just tell someone to go f**k off and it be no big deal.:-5
One still can, Mike. That's not non-PC, that's what we call crude obscenity. Non-PC is to refer to a temporarily drunken oaf as a brain-dead spastic leper. The insult is to those who suffer from Hansen's disease, the developmentally disabled and the encephalographically challenged, not to the drunk.

RedGlitter;642872 wrote: ExactlyI do not say a thing because it's what I'm told to say. I say it rather because it's the right thing to say. I'm polite by nature and rarely stray from the path of good taste. If you check your "exactly" you'll find you've accused me of the reverse.

spot;642879 wrote: I do not say a thing because it's what I'm told to say. I say it rather because it's the right thing to say. I'm polite by nature and rarely stray from the path of good taste. If you check your "exactly" you'll find you've accused me of the reverse.


I'm not seeing it, Spot. I was agreeing that PC is doing what others tell you to do rather than doing it because it's correct. Did I misread?

RedGlitter;642883 wrote: I'm not seeing it, Spot. I was agreeing that PC is doing what others tell you to do rather than doing it because it's correct. Did I misread?It's a mocking label applied to good behaviour as an excuse not to behave well.

I don't buy this PC bullshit.

I call it as I see it and if I occasionally indulge in the use of PC imagery, I am extracting the Michael.

Bravo, Chookie. When you see a leper you call it a leper.

Or, which is more likely, a Tory.

I am glad to say I have never seen a Tory. It is obvious that our social spheres have been widely different.

spot;642937 wrote: I am glad to say I have never seen a Tory. It is obvious that our social spheres have been widely different.


I have had the misfortune to actually meet some. I am still receiving therapy.

almostfamous;643055 wrote: THAT made me laugh out loud for real :wah: for whatever reason, in my mind, i heard Gomer Pile sayin it :wah:


"Golly Sarge!" :wah:

He sounded like such a dweeb when he'd talk, but when he'd sing, it'd be like gospel nectar.



almostfamous;643058 wrote: I prefer non-PC muhself but I adhere to people's feelings as well. I had an avatar up a while back that said something like i'm not retarded, i just like licking windows. i thought it was hella funny cuz like terri, my friends and i call each other tards all the time. anywho, i got a PM and was asked to remove it so i did and happily cuz i didn't mean to offend anyone but sometimes people are entirely too sensitive about certain things and life is already too uptight.


That's funny! Am I bad for laughing?

almostfamous;643078 wrote: it's takin everything in me not to put it back up :sneaky: jk


Go on I dare you.

I'll support you.

Have you ever heard the Dead Kennedys' "Taking Retards to the Zoo?" Seriously.

RedGlitter;642873 wrote: Ok, but Suzy do you also laugh at jokes about drunk Irishmen and Mexicans? It's still ok to laugh at fat people and rednecks for some reason but laugh at a racial joke and your butt's grass. I find this annoying because cultures and ethnicities are funny by their very nature.




great post and bald jokes are funny ,double chin jokes are funny but god forbid you tell a joke about someone being ginger:rolleyes:

almostfamous;643100 wrote: Actually, no I haven't heard of it. I'll google in a second.



About the avatar tho, the person came to me very respectfully so I abliged. It was damn funny but not funny enough to make it an 'FG Ordeal'. Hey, that sounds like a good thread idea. Like who's fighting with who kinda thing hmm. nah. nevermind .. that'd be the drugs talkin.



time for a fag :wah:


I understand. But I still would have liked it.

almostfamous;643110 wrote: happy now :p


Thanks Beth!! You're a peach!! :-4

*your glittery pal*

Originally Posted by RedGlitter

Go on I dare you. :wah: troublemaker

I'll support you.



Have you ever heard the Dead Kennedys' "Taking Retards to the Zoo?" Seriously.

HEY!!! I just now saw what you wrote in PINK, Missy!! :wah:

You called??

almostfamous;643119 wrote: Right, back on topic. Hey K. I see you lurking , what's your opinion on opinioniated opionions and the politically correct ones too ?




i think your sig is quite funny





well almostfunny :p

Yes, political correctness is getting out of control, and the government is to blame more than anyone.

Let's take age discrimination. When the government approved this initiative, they meant to protect certain age groups from being discriminated in the work environment, but they didn't really think it through OR provide suitable guidelines.

In accordance to this new law, 18-30 holidays will have to cease, as they discriminate against the elderly, but more importantly companies like SAGA who offer the elderly discounted services, will no longer be able to discriminate against people UNDER 60, so their rates will have to go up and a lot of these services will disappear.

Most importantly I feel, one of the things they didn't consider, is that insisting on testing drivers over the age of 70 must also stop in accordance with this new law.....

RIDICULOUS!

jimbo;643087 wrote: great post and bald jokes are funny ,double chin jokes are funny but god forbid you tell a joke about someone being ginger:rolleyes:


Ok, I have to tell you that I have never understood what the big deal is about that....it must be a UK thing, yes?

But seriously, I'll get flamed for this but my friend I had mentioned, her late uncle was retarded. That's sad. But it doesn't keep her from cracking jokes about it.

I'm pretty well endowed and we joke about that all the time because when I sit down in a booth in a restaurant, Bert and Ernie end up a bit on the table.

The man I used to live with had spent time in prison. He was always making prison jokes, which were pretty funny but I was too afraid of offending him to laugh, even though he'd beg me to. "Terri, you gotta laugh about it!" But I wouldn't.

Half my family are rednecks and hillbillies and religious nutjobs. That right there is potent and don't think I'm above laughing about it.

I laugh at drunks, at racial jokes (unless they're ignorant or mean spirited) at blind people, at everyone pretty much. I also laugh at myself so it's not like I'm above this.

Have you ever seen Stevie Wonder's house?

That's ok, he hasn't either.

Red you say - Half my family are rednecks and hillbillies

Serious question - do they or you know how to make moonshine?

Now some people would be horrified i asked you that, saying im stereotyping them & being poitically incorrect as well i suppose but i just feel its a question.

RedGlitter;642873 wrote: Ok, but Suzy do you also laugh at jokes about drunk Irishmen and Mexicans? It's still ok to laugh at fat people and rednecks for some reason but laugh at a racial joke and your butt's grass. I find this annoying because cultures and ethnicities are funny by their very nature.


I laugh at anything I find funny, as long as someone isn't being cruel to someone then fair game. Life is boring without laughter and the way it's going we'll be complying to be PC correct, at the expense of one of the best things in our lives.

buttercup;643868 wrote: Red you say - Half my family are rednecks and hillbillies

Serious question - do they or you know how to make moonshine?

Now some people would be horrified i asked you that, saying im stereotyping them & being poitically incorrect as well i suppose but i just feel its a question.


I think that's funny, Buttercup. I don't know how to make shine but some of my family does. What might surprise you is that some of those hillbillies I'm related to have college degrees and have traveled the world whereas I (hillbilly girl by proxy) have not spent more than two months in college and I've only been to Mexico. And yet I'm considered one of the smart ones. :yh_wink

Shine is as much a stereotype as it is a fact. And (IMO) that's the crux of most stereotypes anyway.

RedGlitter;643874 wrote: Shine is as much a stereotype as it is a fact. And (IMO) that's the crux of most stereotypes anyway.I used to run a still. I made good stuff, too.

spot;643893 wrote: I used to run a still. I made good stuff, too.


What made you give it up? Did you run it to people yourself or was it just for your own use, Spot?

RedGlitter;643894 wrote: What made you give it up? Did you run it to people yourself or was it just for your own use, Spot?It helped me have parties when I had no money for entertaining. I never sold any of it. Once I was earning it was easier to buy what people considered proper drink.

RedGlitter;643874 wrote: I think that's funny, Buttercup. I don't know how to make shine but some of my family does. What might surprise you is that some of those hillbillies I'm related to have college degrees and have traveled the world whereas I (hillbilly girl by proxy) have not spent more than two months in college and I've only been to Mexico. And yet I'm considered one of the smart ones. :yh_wink

Shine is as much a stereotype as it is a fact. And (IMO) that's the crux of most stereotypes anyway.


It does not surprise me that many of them have degrees, i dont expect them to be wearing straw hats & dungarees either :wah:

I was asking to find out if the recipe is similar to what we call prison hooch, basically sugar & fruit fermented up

buttercup;643916 wrote: It does not surprise me that many of them have degrees, i dont expect them to be wearing straw hats & dungarees either :wah:

:wah: Some people do think just that though! I've heard a lot of weird things.

I was asking to find out if the recipe is similar to what we call prison hooch, basically sugar & fruit fermented up


I wouldn't have any idea what they use....I suppose I could ask.

buttercup;643916 wrote: I was asking to find out if the recipe is similar to what we call prison hooch, basically sugar & fruit fermented up40 pounds of sugar, 180 pounds of water and a pound of dry granule bread yeast. That's more yeast than's essential but I just got used to that amount.

All the flavouring, if any, goes in after you've distilled the alcohol. I never understood why people try to flavour before distilling. If you have a low-efficiency still it might carry over some flavour but I'd much rather just catch the clean alcohol.

Bear in mind that you'll have a 95% alcohol and you want some sort of dilution before it's served. I bottled the high-proof spirit raw and added it to spiced fruit punch usually, aiming to serve it around 20%. If I wanted a drinkable spirit I let the flavouring stand in the raw alcohol for a week, strained it and poured in spring water aiming at 45%. Ginger with thyme and lemon rind was good, you can't get that in the shop.

I seen a programme recently about 2 guys travelling in the states & they said they had never had anything more potent than the moonshine they had from the hillbillies, 1000 times better than anything we can make here, wouldent mind trying that :sneaky:

buttercup;643985 wrote: I seen a programme recently about 2 guys travelling in the states & they said they had never had anything more potent than the moonshine they had from the hillbillies, 1000 times better than anything we can make here, wouldent mind trying that :sneaky:


It's quite easy really. The recipe is important, as is the process, but the worm is crucial.

almostfamous;643058 wrote: I prefer non-PC muhself but I adhere to people's feelings as well. I had an avatar up a while back that said something like i'm not retarded, i just like licking windows. i thought it was hella funny cuz like terri, my friends and i call each other tards all the time. anywho, i got a PM and was asked to remove it so i did and happily cuz i didn't mean to offend anyone but sometimes people are entirely too sensitive about certain things and life is already too uptight.


Most people with a sense of humour would have found your Avatar funny too. There is always one.

crazygal;644335 wrote: Most people with a sense of humour would have found your Avatar funny too. There is always one.


I see why people would be offended by the retarded jokes and the Stevie Wonder thing I wrote and basically all of that. I just take a different angle. The one that says you have to laugh or else you'd cry. There shouldn't be that many sacred cows.

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RedGlitter;644513 wrote: I see why people would be offended by the retarded jokes and the Stevie Wonder thing I wrote and basically all of that. I just take a different angle. The one that says you have to laugh or else you'd cry. There shouldn't be that many sacred cows.



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if ray charles see's that he wont be happy :wah:





actually is that remark offensive :-3

jimbo;644524 wrote: if ray charles see's that he wont be happy :wah:





actually is that remark offensive :-3


:wah: !!!