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do peaple find it so hard to mix?

Not sure Slip but I am one of those people:-5 :-5

I dont think i find it hard to mix:-3

I'd love to be able to mix but i dunno how :wah:

what are we mixing I am ready...

Are we talking with other people mixing music or a cake mixture here

Ummmmmm...... Actually now you mention it - I don't know :wah:

I thought it meant mixing with other people:-3 But knowing Slippy you never know:wah: I cant mix music.. or cakes come to that:-5

pinkchick;643998 wrote: Ummmmmm...... Actually now you mention it - I don't know :wah:


I have heard it's bad to mix whiskey and rum

minks;644000 wrote: I have heard it's bad to mix whiskey and rum


Did you get that memo too minks???:wah:

SlipStream;643966 wrote: do peaple find it so hard to mix?


If you are talking about one's ability to mix socially with other people, I think it depends on the individuals self confidence and self image. Some folks do not have self confidence or a good self image, and perhaps feel that they have nothing to contribute to conversation or social intercourse. I think that is the problem. How to solve it, I don't know.

Mia;643997 wrote: Are we talking with other people mixing music or a cake mixture here


with other folks yeah.

talkin for myself, I'd like to think I can get on with most unless their selfish nutters!

I don't think I have any problems. I'm a mingler if the situation presents itself.

RedGlitter;644077 wrote: I don't think I have any problems. I'm a mingler if the situation presents itself.


perhaps it's just ME :wah:

SlipStream;644081 wrote: perhaps it's just ME :wah:


Oh no- there are lots of people who are not comfy mingling. I used to be one myself.

More important Slip, why do YOU find it hard?? :-6

RedGlitter;644086 wrote: Oh no- there are lots of people who are not comfy mingling. I used to be one myself.

More important Slip, why do YOU find it hard?? :-6


didn't think I did But being a bit thick perhaps I don't always make myself clear

RedGlitter;644086 wrote: Oh no- there are lots of people who are not comfy mingling. I used to be one myself.

More important Slip, why do YOU find it hard?? :-6


didn't think I did But being a bit thick perhaps I don't always make myself clear!

The older I get, the less important it's become for me to "fit in". When I was a youngster I didn't have many friends but after high school it became much easier to ingratiate myself into others' company. The trouble with that was that I wasn't terribly discerning of the company I kept, and it led to some terrible choices.

These days I'm a lot harder to please, perhaps too hard. I'm opinionated and find it difficult to ignore others' unfortunate habits and shortcomings.

I "mix" just fine, if it suits my recipe.

:wah: well then I suppose we're all using the same pot to p*ss in

SlipStream;644146 wrote: :wah: well then I suppose we're all using the same pot to p*ss in


Ewww. Find your own.

SlipStream;643966 wrote: do peaple find it so hard to mix?


Mix what?

I never found mixing difficult, I was self concious in Jr, High School, but by High School, I had many friends and a busy social life. I think the self confidence to mix came from my parents. They always had company, we visited people and my Dads friends were very outgoing and very funny. I could be wrong, but I think that young people today tend to stick to their peer group. Experience in mixing well, comes from stretching ourselves to mingle with people not necessarily like ourselves. Older people, people with different interests, people at work etc..... Then one becomes a participant rather than an observer of life. After a life time of being very sociable, and very outgoing, I am not too interested anymore, in putting myself out there.

my biggest problem with me mixing is my almost constant urge to tease people i think its coz i had younger sisters,when we go out i just cant help myself strangers ,funny accents pretending i'm from other contries ,pretending i'm deaf and really shouting every thing ,stupid walks pretendind i know total strangers ,just going up to a random group of people at a table in a pub pretending i know them watching the confused look on their faces ,just staring at some ones ear when they are standing next to you they know your looking but every time they turn round you quickly look away (this really bugs chantelle he hee )after about four times they go to the bathroom to check out their ear, i know its strange but it really amuses me





am i mental :wah: :wah:

jimbo;646188 wrote: my biggest problem with me mixing is my almost constant urge to tease people i think its coz i had younger sisters,when we go out i just cant help myself strangers ,funny accents pretending i'm from other contries ,pretending i'm deaf and really shouting every thing ,stupid walks pretendind i know total strangers ,just going up to a random group of people at a table in a pub pretending i know them watching the confused look on their faces ,just staring at some ones ear when they are standing next to you they know your looking but every time they turn round you quickly look away (this really bugs chantelle he hee )after about four times they go to the bathroom to check out their ear, i know its strange but it really amuses me





am i mental :wah:


YES!!! But in a good way;) :wah: :wah:

jimbo;646188 wrote:





am i mental :wah: :wah:


No, you're cool.

jimbo;646188 wrote:

am i mental :wah: :wah:


Gewd Lard man, you're a paranoia machine! :-2:wah:

indeed.

I can identify with what Lon said. I find it hard to mix.I have felt this way my whole life. I want to ,really I do. I like people and try to be friendly,but sometimes get the sense people think I am strange. I'll give ya a hint I AM

That is the main reason I joined forums.This is like an experiment for me.To spread my weirdness all over the world!:p



Thanks to you all so far, that have added ingredients to my mix.

Lisa

FuzzyNavel;701555 wrote: I can identify with what Lon said. I find it hard to mix.I have felt this way my whole life. I want to ,really I do. I like people and try to be friendly,but sometimes get the sense people think I am strange. I'll give ya a hint I AM

That is the main reason I joined forums.This is like an experiment for me.To spread my weirdness all over the world!:p



Thanks to you all so far, that have added ingredients to my mix.

Lisa


I think you have mixed in well with people here. I enjoy your posts and PM's, you seem like a great person :-4

FuzzyNavel;701555 wrote: I can identify with what Lon said. I find it hard to mix.I have felt this way my whole life. I want to ,really I do. I like people and try to be friendly,but sometimes get the sense people think I am strange. I'll give ya a hint I AM

That is the main reason I joined forums.This is like an experiment for me.To spread my weirdness all over the world!:p



Thanks to you all so far, that have added ingredients to my mix.

Lisa


you fit in here, that's all that matters! :-4

Awwwww Thank you gals! :-4 I do like it here.



Lisa

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You know what I really hate ?

When your walking down a long hallway while someone is walking towards you from the other end.

Especially if there are no windows to look out.

When do you look up to greet them ?

What if you really dont want to greet them ?

What if you just want to pretend like theyre not there ?

You dont want to be rude though. If youre 20' apart and theyre looking down is that a sign that they dont want to greet you too ?

Who makes the 1st move ? What if you do but they dont greet you back ? Then you can think "what a jerk" and feel all indignant for awhile. I do enjoy feeling indignant.

Should you give the nod ? A hello ? Good morning ?

I dont mind saying good morning but I hate saying good afternoon. Im not sure why. It sounds stupid when I say it. If I do say it then I start thinking "why did I say that ?...Now Im the jerk"

Its too much stress.

I try to avoid long hallways.

i love mixing and meeting new people:D

Nomad;702019 wrote: You know what I really hate ?

When your walking down a long hallway while someone is walking towards you from the other end.

Especially if there are no windows to look out.

When do you look up to greet them ?

What if you really dont want to greet them ?

What if you just want to pretend like theyre not there ?

You dont want to be rude though. If youre 20' apart and theyre looking down is that a sign that they dont want to greet you too ?

Who makes the 1st move ? What if you do but they dont greet you back ? Then you can think "what a jerk" and feel all indignant for awhile. I do enjoy feeling indignant.

Should you give the nod ? A hello ? Good morning ?

I dont mind saying good morning but I hate saying good afternoon. Im not sure why. It sounds stupid when I say it. If I do say it then I start thinking "why did I say that ?...Now Im the jerk"

Its too much stress.

I try to avoid long hallways.


It's like I'm looking in a mirror! I hate that too! :-3

why is it so cold in here?