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I consider myself fairly competent and capable so it surprises me that I've ended up, quite often, in a situation where someone was all over my personal space "helping" me do something that in no way required two people.

Case in point:

I was removing clothes from the dryer and someone else decided to help me. :-2 so after I grabbed a handful of clothes I became a bin and the other person started piling housecoats and towels on me.

At what point did I seem incapable of gathering the laundry?

koan;659036 wrote: I consider myself fairly competent and capable so it surprises me that I've ended up, quite often, in a situation where someone was all over my personal space "helping" me do something that in no way required two people.

Case in point:

I was removing clothes from the dryer and someone else decided to help me. :-2 so after I grabbed a handful of clothes I became a bin and the other person started piling housecoats and towels on me.

At what point did I seem incapable of gathering the laundry?


There's one job I don't mind helping my boyf do, although I know he can do it on his own! :sneaky:

koan;659036 wrote: I consider myself fairly competent and capable so it surprises me that I've ended up, quite often, in a situation where someone was all over my personal space "helping" me do something that in no way required two people.



Case in point:



I was removing clothes from the dryer and someone else decided to help me. :-2 so after I grabbed a handful of clothes I became a bin and the other person started piling housecoats and towels on me.



At what point did I seem incapable of gathering the laundry?


When those two words became plural.

YZGI;659089 wrote: When those two words became plural.


:wah:

It's family get together season.

I've also had people try to help me fill the coffeemaker, and come change the nozzle on the hose while I was watering plants.

Where are these people when I'm blow torching the old tiles off the floor?

Hiding if they are smart. You have to pick your battles; sounds like a rather intelligent family.

koan;659117 wrote: :wah:

It's family get together season.



I've also had people try to help me fill the coffeemaker, and come change the nozzle on the hose while I was watering plants.



Where are these people when I'm blow torching the old tiles off the floor?
Probably tending to their burnt feet.

When I get outside to refinish the deck I can sand off whatever blisters still remain. Meanwhile... the problem is that I get cornered while the task is being taken over so I can't get in to do the chore and I can't get out to let them do it for me. Squished. Annoyed. Insulted even.

koan;659036 wrote: I consider myself fairly competent and capable so it surprises me that I've ended up, quite often, in a situation where someone was all over my personal space "helping" me do something that in no way required two people.

Case in point:

I was removing clothes from the dryer and someone else decided to help me. :-2 so after I grabbed a handful of clothes I became a bin and the other person started piling housecoats and towels on me.

At what point did I seem incapable of gathering the laundry?


BWAhhh Hawww hawww I have a strange friend who is all over the place like that when I do things, when I am cooking he is always behind me like a puppy dog, I have to make him sit down and stay, while I do the cooking, yeah so bad I grab a pot to fill with water to boil and he tries to take it from my hand and put it upon the stove UGH!!! Triple ugh! Next time I am sending him out to mow the lawn!

minks;659133 wrote: BWAhhh Hawww hawww I have a strange friend who is all over the place like that when I do things, when I am cooking he is always behind me like a puppy dog, I have to make him sit down and stay, while I do the cooking, yeah so bad I grab a pot to fill with water to boil and he tries to take it from my hand and put it upon the stove UGH!!! Triple ugh! Next time I am sending him out to mow the lawn!


YES!!!

This is what I mean

I've had someone cleaning up after me too so that when I put a mug out to pour coffee and went to get a spoon, I turned back and the mug was already in the dishwasher.

koan;659142 wrote: YES!!!

This is what I mean

I've had someone cleaning up after me too so that when I put a mug out to pour coffee and went to get a spoon, I turned back and the mug was already in the dishwasher.


oiy that gets my ire up big time.... I am always snapping at them, "I can do it" and i sound like a raving biatch but it truly makes me mental, been on my own plenty of years, and am pretty capable, maybe I ought to send them out to build me a garage while I cook dinner. ahahahaha

when I was a truck driver guys would always just take over when I was opening the doors. If I can drive the f---------g thing I think I can handle opening the dang doors! :-5

oh well. :rolleyes:

sunny104;659192 wrote: when I was a truck driver guys would always just take over when I was opening the doors. If I can drive the f---------g thing I think I can handle opening the dang doors! :-5

oh well. :rolleyes:


LOL

yep. that's the kind of thing I mean.

The big stuff ... no problem but the minor brainless activities are deemed beyond grasp

sunny104;659192 wrote: when I was a truck driver guys would always just take over when I was opening the doors. If I can drive the f---------g thing I think I can handle opening the dang doors! :-5



oh well. :rolleyes:
But how are you at banging the tires?

YZGI;659208 wrote: But how are you at banging the tires?


ya know it's quite a talent to be able to check your tires with a tire iron.



I just never could get the hang of cooling them off though.........