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Ok today in College was a really really bad day it was like being back in High School i kept getting bullyed by my classmates and i've said to my teachers about the problem but they sai they are doin somthin but its a slow progress but if it happens this bad again i'm sueing my college for bullying in the workplace but i don't know how to go about getting a layer e.t.c to back my claim but i have whitenessesto also back me up

How were you bullied? Physically? Verbally? Give some details Music. What do you think causes the bullying?

Lon;714389 wrote: How were you bullied? Physically? Verbally? Give some details Music. What do you think causes the bullying?


I wasnt bullyed Pshyically it was more Verbally people in my class just kept anoying me saying allright fatty and all the usualy insutlats about being overweight and i think what causes the bullying is me being overweight

One would think, by the time people get to college they would have grown up a bit.

I know it doesn't feel like it, but i'm sure, there are more people that think the bullies are a$$es,then they have friends.

:)

Musiclover89;714413 wrote: I wasnt bullyed Pshyically it was more Verbally people in my class just kept anoying me saying allright fatty and all the usualy insutlats about being overweight and i think what causes the bullying is me being overweight


If the abuse is verbal Music, just ignore it and forget about trying to sue anyone. There are always going to be stupid people that verbally abuse the fat, bald, homely, hair lip, short, tall, etc. etc. What's really important is how you choose to respond. You ignoring the insults would be the very mature thing to do.

Lon;714433 wrote: You ignoring the insults would be the very mature thing to do.And it would bring it to a halt quicker.

Musiclover89;714388 wrote: Ok today in College was a really really bad day it was like being back in High School i kept getting bullyed by my classmates and i've said to my teachers about the problem but they sai they are doin somthin but its a slow progress but if it happens this bad again i'm sueing my college for bullying in the workplace but i don't know how to go about getting a layer e.t.c to back my claim but i have whitenessesto also back me up


You're not in school any more you're going to have to learn to deal with that kind of thing yourself. Bullying happens in one form or another all your life. Either just ignore it, tell them to **** off, or do it with humour-you mistake me for someone that cares what you think etc etc although it's easy for others to tell you what to do-you need to work out how to deal with it somehow. They are the ones behaving like kids. What does the rest of the class usually by college people are a bit more assertive.

I have know ridicule, they want a response.

Tell them you can lose the weight, but they can't lose ugly!!! :wah:



Not really, that would just cause more pain for you ML and I don't want that....no-one does.

The advice you've gotten so far is good, walk away, be the bigger person...You are at College to learn, and you can chalk this up as a learning experience, just try to focus on something else....use humor...take them a sandwich with tobasco (hot firery sauce) on it....okay ....I'm doing it again...sorry...I HATE bullies...I'd take them for you!! My son was jumped by 5 big guys in a public parking lot a couple of weeks ago..It's probably better that I wasn't there...This momma would've hurt someone!!

Awww ML. I hate bullies in any way, shape, or form. Just remember there are people here who love ya. :-4 If I could, I would take the pain away for you and kick their asses! Get the last laugh. Be a success in life. You can do it.