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When you are an ADULT, I stress that because of the following statement, when you are seeing someone how old is too much older and how young is to young?

Just wondering what everyones opinion is, I am attracted to OLDER men, my last boyfriend of (7 ) years was 17 and a 1/2 years older.

I am 40 but have been told I look barely 30, and not to sound vain, I do only look 30, THANK GOD THE GENES OF MY ANCESTORS AND MARY KAY COSMETIC AND SKINCARE

I happen to seeing someone 10 years older than me.

No problems here.

:D

my dreams are crushed now, I thought you were available Ha Ha Ha

Thats great! good for you.

my range right now would be roughly from 28-48, give or take, and also depending on the person. :p

Indian Princess;716502 wrote: my dreams are crushed now, I thought you were available Ha Ha Ha

Thats great! good for you.


I was but then this pretty lady came along and.........

sunny104;716505 wrote: my range right now would be roughly from 28-48, give or take, and also depending on the person. :p


Just checking my Birth Certificate. :yh_battin

Uncle Kram;716517 wrote: Just checking my Birth Certificate. :yh_battin


I'd make an exception for you regardless.....:sneaky: :-4

It depends on the person, I've dated older, younger and same age....and it depends on the individual imo....-1

dust off the birth certificate you may qualify! Ha. Ha.

my range, from 10 y ears younger to 3 years older. I am far to immature for an older man. :wah:

Damn, minksie, that puts me twenty years past the frame.

spot;716756 wrote: Damn, minksie, that puts me twenty years past the frame.


EXCEPT FOR SPOT :-4

There has to be a balance of power. As soon as the balance goes the relationship spirals down. People evaluate their assets and age can be a benefit or a negative depending who and what.

Age doesn't matter any further than the value assigned to it by the individuals.

minks;716752 wrote: my range, from 10 y ears younger to 3 years older. I am far to immature for an older man. :wah:


That trait can be quite appealing.

:D

Hi-

After being married all those years and suddenly I'm on my own I swear to god I can't tell how old anybody is! Makes me a bit nervous as I don't want to flirt with a 19 year old. Last week I was at a convenience store buying discounted ciggies for the second time. The clerk was young and sort of just appealing, you know, in his own way. So I ask for the cigs and he says oh, sorry, you cleaned us out last time. So I said alright, no problem just give me the regular. And when I go to leave he says, hey, arent you W***'s mom? And I say yeah I am! (a little embarrassed not only because of being so cheap buying the half price cigs, but also for harboring these ideas that he was interesting ) He tells me who he is, a classmate of my son's, they were friends back in jr high. I felt so stupid. These little kids grow up and don't look a thing like they did.

But to answer your question, I prefer someone in the baby boomer generation.

Erin

JacksDad;716761 wrote: That trait can be quite appealing.

:D


hah thanks JD

watermark;716772 wrote: Hi-

After being married all those years and suddenly I'm on my own I swear to god I can't tell how old anybody is! Makes me a bit nervous as I don't want to flirt with a 19 year old. Last week I was at a convenience store buying discounted ciggies for the second time. The clerk was young and sort of just appealing, you know, in his own way. So I ask for the cigs and he says oh, sorry, you cleaned us out last time. So I said alright, no problem just give me the regular. And when I go to leave he says, hey, arent you W***'s mom? And I say yeah I am! (a little embarrassed not only because of being so cheap buying the half price cigs, but also for harboring these ideas that he was interesting ) He tells me who he is, a classmate of my son's, they were friends back in jr high. I felt so stupid. These little kids grow up and don't look a thing like they did.

But to answer your question, I prefer someone in the baby boomer generation.

Erin


Oiy good thing you didn't speak yer mind at the time eh Erin. hehehe

spot;716756 wrote: Damn, minksie, that puts me twenty years past the frame.


damn!

*sunny adds another name to the age-exempt list* :sneaky:

sunny104;716879 wrote: *sunny adds another name to the age-exempt list* :sneaky: :DSunny, I think we just broke the record for attraction across an age gap.

spot;716993 wrote: Sunny, I think we just broke the record for attraction across an age gap.


pfft! hardly!

sunny104;717002 wrote: pfft! hardly! :DI was talking about the degree of attraction, not the age difference...

spot;717004 wrote: I was talking about the degree of attraction, not the age difference...


I see that's what you meant after reading it a second time. :-4

my goofiness is just part of my charm, huh??

sunny104;717010 wrote: my goofiness is just part of my charm, huh?? :DYou missed a perfect comeback there - it should have been "pfft! hardly!"

spot;717015 wrote: You missed a perfect comeback there - it should have been "pfft! hardly!"


I have loved you since first setting foot in the garden almost 2 years ago..... :-4