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Even if they broke up, I wouldn't want her back.

You say you were BOTH very much in love, maybe you were with her, but not her with you. If she had been in love with you then she would not have kicked you out or have been spending your money calling him all the time.

He's a cheating SOB and by the sound of things she is too... Don't waste your time waiting.



May change my sig to something like it's easier to give advice :rolleyes:

hello and welcome to FG...i am a bit confused at this missive, but from what i can ascertain it may be wise to move on...this is someone you can never trust again...and without trust, what is there?

stickler00000 wrote: I had been dating a a girl for 8 months we lived together with her 4 yr old daughter,who i loved dearly. Are first few months were great but then a guy she had previously dated before me had broken up with his fiance because he cheated on her. now my girlfriend had told me earliear that that guy had broken her heart they only dated 3 months or so.... Ok back to about 3 months ago they started talking again and it became more and more frequent.this is right after the 2 broke up [him and his fiance]...now tess is my girlfriend well ex now but she and him talked all the time while i was at work...found this out after i recieved my phone bill after she kicked me out on dec. 25......then they both got together instantly...now i want to know will this love that she thouhght she missed out on before work out or not??? they have been seeing each other now for 2 months,and remember that he broke it off with tess before to be with another women will he do the same again? And do you think she'll want to be with me again..someday? I need to let you know too that we were very in love and she had brought up marrage to me alot in the last few months of our relationship,i treated her with the ut most respect, and from what her family has always said about me is she never had anyone like you before,,,she always had assholes for boyfriends,and this new guy{ryan} is known as a [male shovanistic pig] and this guy is also her brothers best friend and a family friend to her family..Me and her brother still talk and he still hates his sister for what she did to me and doesnt agree with her decicions...whats your imput?????? you can plz email me too at ......................stickler000@yahoo.com thx


Forget her and move along. Her love will never be fulfilled because she is willing to drop you at the sound of an ex's voice or fantasy. Thank God and find someone else. She is out there waiting for you. Go find her!

I hope you will forgive me if I sound harsh here but grow a back bone boy

She made her choice now let her live with it.

The best relationship advice my Dad ever gave me was about not getting worked up when a relationship breaks up. As dad said "Son there's a whole new batch turning 18 every day". This advice works for both sexes.

You need to chalk this one up as a bad decision and move on.

Trust broken once is trust lost forever, move on and don't look back. It looks like your Tess does not really know what she wants out of life yet. Don't let her take you down with her.

Why would you want her back? :-2

Why would you ever want her back. It's obvious she can't be trusted ever. Run and don't give it a second thought..

AS LADYCOP SAID.. A RELATIONSHIP IS BUILT ON TRUST, WITHOUT IT YOU HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP.. :-5