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I'm in a really bad place just now with my best friend and a friend who she doesn't know but the thing is my friend ( Graham) keeps flirting with her on MSN when she has a Boyfriend but he wants to go down with me when i go to stay with her in July for my Birthday but i'm kinda para if he tries anything on her and i would never forgive myself if somthing happend while i was down between those two, so does anyone have any advice to get rid of this cause i don't want to fall out with both of them, Graham is a really big Liar and i dount he would even go down but if he did i would be worried for my friend ( Jess) call me over protective but i don't like the idea of my best friend being hurt through me after all it was me who introduced Graham to Jess in the first place

Musiclover89;811177 wrote: I'm in a really bad place just now with my best friend and a friend who she doesn't know but the thing is my friend ( Graham) keeps flirting with her on MSN when she has a Boyfriend but he wants to go down with me when i go to stay with her in July for my Birthday but i'm kinda para if he tries anything on her and i would never forgive myself if somthing happend while i was down between those two, so does anyone have any advice to get rid of this cause i don't want to fall out with both of them, Graham is a really big Liar and i dount he would even go down but if he did i would be worried for my friend ( Jess) call me over protective but i don't like the idea of my best friend being hurt through me after all it was me who introduced Graham to Jess in the first place
Tell him your feelings, and that you know a real friend like him would never put you in such an awkward situation.

Just tell him how you feel ML. :-6

Unfortunately if these two are going to get together then it would indicate a problem somewhere in her relationship ...... that is something you will have to allow to sort itself out. Just tell him you will have no part of it, and do not want to be around if it happens. :-6

Pheasy;811214 wrote: Just tell him how you feel ML. :-6

Unfortunately if these two are going to get together then it would indicate a problem somewhere in her relationship ...... that is something you will have to allow to sort itself out. Just tell him you will have no part of it, and do not want to be around if it happens. :-6


Good advice if he does go down i'll call off the whole thing i don't want to be around Graham when Jess is there mainly because he blanks me out when hes around his other friends call me selfish but at the same time i want to go down because i havnt seen Jess since October last year and i miss seeing her i have no sexual feelings what so ever towards her but i think Graham does, OMG i hate these situations

Musiclover89;811221 wrote: Good advice if he does go down i'll call off the whole thing i don't want to be around Graham when Jess is there mainly because he blanks me out when hes around his other friends call me selfish but at the same time i want to go down because i havnt seen Jess since October last year and i miss seeing her i have no sexual feelings what so ever towards her but i think Graham does, OMG i hate these situations


One thing that I've learned in life is that it's totally useless worrying about the actions of others, because at the end of the day they have to make their own mistakes. I would just be straight out and tell her/him how you feel and once you've said your part the rest is up to them. Easier said then done I know, but you'll probably feel better once you've straightened out the situation. Good Luck.