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Does "some people should not be allowed to have children at all" mean you think they ought to be forced to terminate this pregnancy?

Never trust a salesman.:-6

She should have checked to be sure it was a girl. God's funny like that.

Not that she should have terminated the pregnancy, but been better prepared for his arrival.

If you order a Collie and end up with a Sheepdog, you can send it back. Babies aren't like that. You have to take what you get.

I understand her concern, but she should have been prepared for any contingency or not try at all. Everyone takes a chance when they have a child, why should she be any different?

This is really irritating to me, as someone who went through 13 years of infertility including a miscarriage, before i finally had my baby i can tell you that it didn't make the slightest bit of difference to me if he was a boy or a girl and as for anything being wrong with him, i didn't even have any tests to check for birth defects or anything, after all that time and all the praying that i had done over all those years, i was not about to give up my miracle no matter what may have been wrong with him! and as it turned out nothing was wrong, he's absolutely perfect!:)