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Can you answer that question quickly and with a nice long list? If you can’t you’re not alone. So many people really struggle with this question. If I asked you the question “What do you dislike about yourself? Would the answers flow freely and make a long list? If so, again, you have lots of company.

Can you look into the mirror, look yourself in the eyes and say: “I love you [fill in your name]?

If you want to change something in your life, you need to love yourself. If love is lacking, the change will be limited. Without knowing yourself and loving yourself you cannot use the power of love. People learn how incredible they are by learning to love themselves.

We, as imperfect human beings, need our own loving support. When you love who you are, you automatically bring out the best in you. Love yourself enough to allow yourself to feel your emotions. Always take care of yourself.

Why is it so important to love yourself? The answer is very simple. If you love yourself, you will not reject yourself and no one else will either, or if they do, it certainly will not matter to you.

Often the best contribution you can make in life is to work on yourself. Love is always a life force and energy. Your opinion of yourself is more important than what others think of you. You need to like yourself if you want to treat yourself better. You do not have to be a great achiever in life to feel love for yourself. Happy people like themselves! Where love is, there is healing and energy.

Everything! That's not a very long list though, is it? Is that bad? :wah:

G-man;892246 wrote: Everything! That's not a very long list though, is it? Is that bad? :wah:


no but that's the best answer you could give! it's great that you love everything about yourself!

i wish i could say the same.

Erneed to fink about this one as it would be easier reading War and Peace backwards:rolleyes:................brb Ive gotta fink:driving:

well i can say my what i dislike about myself list would be nice and long!

but as for what i love about myself i guess it would be my personality, i've been told that i have a very unique trait in the fact that i have no temper, i don't get mad, and i love everybody and despise conflict of any kind and always have a smile for anyone i meet!:-6

so i can say yes i love myself on the inside, but the outside is a whole other story!

Hope6;892292 wrote: well i can say my what i dislike about myself list would be nice and long!

but as for what i love about myself i guess it would be my personality, i've been told that i have a very unique trait in the fact that i have no temper, i don't get mad, and i love everybody and despise conflict of any kind and always have a smile for anyone i meet!:-6

so i can say yes i love myself on the inside, but the outside is a whole other story!Oh just like me >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Carolly;892359 wrote: Oh just like me >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

My ability to get along with just about everyone. Everyone always says I"m very friendly to just about everyone I meet. Except mice and I don't get along with them.

qsducks;892410 wrote: My ability to get along with just about everyone. Everyone always says I"m very friendly to just about everyone I meet. Except mice and I don't get along with them.


i don't get along with spiders and snakes i hate them both with a passion!:wah:

i guess they are the only things on the planet that i can say i hate!:(

as for people there's not a soul that i have ever known that i can say i hate, and as far as i know no one hates me either, so i'm very happy about that!:-6

I love the fact I can speak for animals who are helpless, abused, and left thrown to the curb like garbage. As a part time Animal Control Officer in my town, I get to speak for them and fine owners who think animals are "throw aways" when they don't want them any longer. I love collecting "free samples" and bringing a big basket full to my local Nursing Home. It's like Christmas for them to pick something out of the basket and see the smile on their face when they do. If I can make only one person smile during one day, that's what I strive to do. :-6

Hope6;892419 wrote: i don't get along with spiders and snakes i hate them both with a passion!:wah:

i guess they are the only things on the planet that i can say i hate!:(

as for people there's not a soul that i have ever known that i can say i hate, and as far as i know no one hates me either, so i'm very happy about that!:-6


And Hope, nobody can hate you either. It's hopeless to hate hope:wah:

qsducks;892433 wrote: And Hope, nobody can hate you either. It's hopeless to hate hope:wah:


awwww thank you sweetheart!

i can't see anybody hating you either!:-4

that's the one thing i think i couldn't stand, if somebody hated me!:(

Hope6;892442 wrote: awwww thank you sweetheart!

i can't see anybody hating you either!:-4

that's the one thing i think i couldn't stand, if somebody hated me!:(


Whatever. But I do hate mice.:wah:

Trunk Monkey;892430 wrote: I love the fact I can speak for animals who are helpless, abused, and left thrown to the curb like garbage. As a part time Animal Control Officer in my town, I get to speak for them and fine owners who think animals are "throw aways" when they don't want them any longer. I love collecting "free samples" and bringing a big basket full to my local Nursing Home. It's like Christmas for them to pick something out of the basket and see the smile on their face when they do. If I can make only one person smile during one day, that's what I strive to do. :-6


It's wonderful that you get to help those animals that way PJ!

and so many people get put into nursing homes and forgotten!

i'm proud of you for what you're doing. :-4

I love that I have the most popular sized woman's foot in the world. Yeah baby a size 7 1/2. Can always find my size.:wah:

qsducks;892446 wrote: I love that I have the most popular sized woman's foot in the world. Yeah baby a size 7 1/2. Can always find my size.:wah:


you lucky little buzzard! :wah::wah: i wear a size 9!:eek:

Hope6;892463 wrote: you lucky little buzzard! :wah::wah: i wear a size 9!:eek:


You got big dogs?:wah:

qsducks;892465 wrote: You got big dogs?:wah:


:wah::wah: well, how tall are you? i'm 5ft 7 in. so i think that makes a difference!

Hope6;892473 wrote: :wah::wah: well, how tall are you? i'm 5ft 7 in. so i think that makes a difference!


5' 4 1/2" yup. Daughter is 5' 6" and wears a 9.

qsducks;892478 wrote: 5' 4 1/2" yup. Daughter is 5' 6" and wears a 9.


yeah i thought so you're a petite little thing!:wah:

what can i say, i'm a big girl! :wah::wah::wah:

Hope6;892479 wrote: yeah i thought so you're a petite little thing!:wah:

what can i say, i'm a big girl! :wah::wah::wah:


My other daughter is 5' 4" and wears a size 8!:wah:

i always give off positive vibes and love! :-4 :-4 :-4

I like being tall and good looking, and despite the age, very athletic with remarkably good reflexes. These things along with a quick wit, inquiring mind and challenging spirit coupled with my humbleness and humility are what I love most about me.:wah:

jones jones;892530 wrote: i always give off positive vibes and love! :-4 :-4 :-4


yes you do Jj, there's no doubt about that! :-4

JAB;892546 wrote: My silly sense of humor.


a sense of humor is a very good thing!:-6

Lon;892552 wrote: I like being tall and good looking, and despite the age, very athletic with remarkably good reflexes. These things along with a quick wit, inquiring mind and challenging spirit coupled with my humbleness and humility are what I love most about me.:wah:


confidence is a good trait too! :wah::wah::wah:

Im warm & fuzzy

I thought of somefing:DI treat Gill with the respect I should do seeing shes such an elderly person:rolleyes::wah::wah::D

To laugh about just anything.:wah:

Nomad;892593 wrote: Im warm & fuzzy


:wah::wah: awwww that's nice! :wah:

Carolly;892600 wrote: I thought of somefing:DI treat Gill with the respect I should do seeing shes such an elderly person:rolleyes::wah::wah::D


OMG!!! Gill's gonna get you Sis! :wah:

qsducks;892601 wrote: To laugh about just anything.:wah:


laughter is the best medicine my friend! :-6

MMMMMMMMMM......... I saw what that Carol said - I shall have to think about that one

I do like me quite well really. I have been told by different people that I'm very generous - I do actually enjoy giving, to see somebody's face light up gives me such a thrill. It is also a good feeling to know that I have made somebody laugh or even just smile. Actually this has got me into trouble many a time, when I have been joking around - my son has sometimes said that I embarrass him! Well, I can't change who or what I am, so I'll just carry on being me, and trying to make people smile a little.

Ere did I tell you about the Englishman, the Scotsman, the Welshman and the Irishman ? Well they were all chatting in the local pub, and the conversation touched on children's names. The Englishman said that his son was born on St. George's day so he called his son George. The Scotsman said 'Well that is interesting, because my son was born on St. Andrew's day so I called him Andrew!' ....... The Welshman smiled and said 'Bless me, my son was born on St. David's day, so I called him David !'........... The Irishman looked gobsmacked 'Well isn't that amazin so it is ! Just wait till I tell our Pancake !!!!' :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Now I really am off to bed !! Night night everybody XXX

my hair... lol

we prolly find this difficult because it may feel we are being conceited.

I shall try

I love me because :

I am a Canadian

I am easy going

I have a good sense of humor

I am ethical

I am loyal

I am friendly

I am a good mother

I look good for my age (tee hee hee:o)

Ok I am done sounds too much like bragging now

G#Gill;892658 wrote: MMMMMMMMMM......... I saw what that Carol said - I shall have to think about that one

I do like me quite well really. I have been told by different people that I'm very generous - I do actually enjoy giving, to see somebody's face light up gives me such a thrill. It is also a good feeling to know that I have made somebody laugh or even just smile. Actually this has got me into trouble many a time, when I have been joking around - my son has sometimes said that I embarrass him! Well, I can't change who or what I am, so I'll just carry on being me, and trying to make people smile a little.

Ere did I tell you about the Englishman, the Scotsman, the Welshman and the Irishman ? Well they were all chatting in the local pub, and the conversation touched on children's names. The Englishman said that his son was born on St. George's day so he called his son George. The Scotsman said 'Well that is interesting, because my son was born on St. Andrew's day so I called him Andrew!' ....... The Welshman smiled and said 'Bless me, my son was born on St. David's day, so I called him David !'........... The Irishman looked gobsmacked 'Well isn't that amazin so it is ! Just wait till I tell our Pancake !!!!'

Now I really am off to bed !! Night night everybody XXX


:wah::wah::wah::wah: you're a sweetheart Gill!:-4

Omni_Skittles;892664 wrote: my hair... lol


Hi Skittles!:-6

good for you babe, i like my hair too! :-4

minks;892676 wrote: we prolly find this difficult because it may feel we are being conceited.

I shall try

I love me because :

I am a Canadian

I am easy going

I have a good sense of humor

I am ethical

I am loyal

I am friendly

I am a good mother

I look good for my age (tee hee hee:o)

Ok I am done sounds too much like bragging now


i think you hit the nail on the head! we don't want to look like we're bragging! if asked to name things we dislike about ourselves we can list them off without any problem, but ask someone to name something they like about themselves they suddenly get tongue tied and can't think of anything.

btw you're list doesn't sound too much like bragging, it sounds like someone who's not afraid to express who she truly is. i'm proud of you!:-6

Hope6;892681 wrote: i think you hit the nail on the head! we don't want to look like we're bragging! if asked to name things we dislike about ourselves we can list them off without any problem, but ask someone to name something they like about themselves they suddenly get tongue tied and can't think of anything.

btw you're list doesn't sound too much like bragging, it sounds like someone who's not afraid to express who she truly is. i'm proud of you!:-6


aw thanks hun either that or I am just a little to chatty for my own good hehehe

minks;892683 wrote: aw thanks hun either that or I am just a little to chatty for my own good hehehe


:wah::wah::wah::wah:

G#Gill;892658 wrote: MMMMMMMMMM......... I saw what that Carol said - I shall have to think about that one

I do like me quite well really. I have been told by different people that I'm very generous - I do actually enjoy giving, to see somebody's face light up gives me such a thrill. It is also a good feeling to know that I have made somebody laugh or even just smile. Actually this has got me into trouble many a time, when I have been joking around - my son has sometimes said that I embarrass him! Well, I can't change who or what I am, so I'll just carry on being me, and trying to make people smile a little.

Ere did I tell you about the Englishman, the Scotsman, the Welshman and the Irishman ? Well they were all chatting in the local pub, and the conversation touched on children's names. The Englishman said that his son was born on St. George's day so he called his son George. The Scotsman said 'Well that is interesting, because my son was born on St. Andrew's day so I called him Andrew!' ....... The Welshman smiled and said 'Bless me, my son was born on St. David's day, so I called him David !'........... The Irishman looked gobsmacked 'Well isn't that amazin so it is ! Just wait till I tell our Pancake !!!!' :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Now I really am off to bed !! Night night everybody XXXWell give me a thrill baby:rolleyes::p:D

Carolly;892730 wrote: Well give me a thrill baby:rolleyes::p:D


Well just tell me what you would like me to give you, and I'll try my best, bearing in mind that I aint that 'flush' at the moment ! Perhaps something that has no monetary value ? Like good vibes, wishes for you to get rid of your aches and pains? I do that anyway, you don't have to ask.......:-6 :-4

G#Gill;892739 wrote: Well just tell me what you would like me to give you, and I'll try my best, bearing in mind that I aint that 'flush' at the moment ! Perhaps something that has no monetary value ? Like good vibes, wishes for you to get rid of your aches and pains? I do that anyway, you don't have to ask.......:-6 :-4Na just buy me a present:D:driving:

Originally Posted by G#Gill

Well just tell me what you would like me to give you, and I'll try my best, bearing in mind that I aint that 'flush' at the moment ! Perhaps something that has no monetary value ? Like good vibes, wishes for you to get rid of your aches and pains? I do that anyway, you don't have to ask.......







Carolly;892751 wrote: Na just buy me a present:D:driving:




:wah::wah::wah:

Carolly;892751 wrote: Na just buy me a present:D:driving:


Typical Carol :-5 :wah:

Nomad;892593 wrote: Im warm & fuzzy


they make wax for that ya know.....

qsducks;892446 wrote: I love that I have the most popular sized woman's foot in the world. Yeah baby a size 7 1/2. Can always find my size.:wah:


I wear a 7 1/2 too even though I'm 5'9"! :-6

What's not to love? I love every fat, dumb, ugly, rude and obnoxious part of me. Did I leave anything out? Lol.