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some people in your life ... cyber and real ... whom you would prefer NOT to have in your life ... chip away ... chip away at you trying to get you to respond to their negative vibes ... they give off hatred and spite ... when all you wanna do is get on with being human and not wanting to be like them ...

and for some strange reason they look at you with envy and this brings out the worst in them ... then the more you ignore them ... the more determined they become ... they want you to say to them what they say to you ... to drag you down to their level ...

i cannot be like them ... i only know how to love ... i do not know how to hate ... i do not know how to be spiteful ... or hateful ... or to hurt people ...

and the more they dislike me ... the more they envy me ... the more i love them ...

is it so hard to love?

when loving you is so easy ...

Jj :-4

jones jones;945465 wrote: some people in your life ... cyber and real ... whom you would prefer NOT to have in your life ... chip away ... chip away at you trying to get you to respond to their negative vibes ... they give off hatred and spite ... when all you wanna do is get on with being human and not wanting to be like them ...

and for some strange reason they look at you with envy and this brings out the worst in them ... then the more you ignore them ... the more determined they become ... they want you to say to them what they say to you ... to drag you down to their level ...

i cannot be like them ... i only know how to love ... i do not know how to hate ... i do not know how to be spiteful ... or hateful ... or to hurt people ...

and the more they dislike me ... the more they envy me ... the more i love them ...

is it so hard to love?

when loving you is so easy ...

Jj :-4No its not hard to love but to really love somebody you have to really know that person and not just a name on a screen....love has to be earned and until you learn to respect somebody and feel you understand and know them only a cyber friendship is possible which is so diffferent to the one where we truely love, trust and respect that person because we know they are real and not just a name on a screen.Words can be cheap.....truth isn't.

Carolly;945494 wrote: No its not hard to love but to really love somebody you have to really know that person and not just a name on a screen....love has to be earned and until you learn to respect somebody and feel you understand and know them only a cyber friendship is possible which is so diffferent to the one where we truely love, trust and respect that person because we know they are real and not just a name on a screen.Words can be cheap.....truth isn't.


oh pussycat!

mwaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

Jj :-4

jimbo;945516 wrote: it seems the nice and friendly you are the more people that have nothing good to say about anyone ,people that thrive on morbid bad things hate you



i cant say i love them jj you are a better man than me there but i do pity them i really do


unfortunately jimbo my buddy ... in today's world ... being nice and friendly is looked upon as a weakness ...

it is so so easy to hate ... i mean all you gotta do is say "... i hate you!" and you don't have to do or say anything more!

but ... you can't just say to someone "wow i love you!"

you know why?

cos if you love someone ... you gotta prove it~!

mwaaaaaaaaaaaah!

Jj

Hello JJ:-4



I cannot love or even condone people who are mean-spirited and nasty. I can't tolerate that behavior, so I void them from my life or ignore them as best I can.



You are a better person than me because I have no patience and understanging for that kind of behavior.



I try to surround myself with people who are loving, kind and sincere. I try to ignore those who are bullies and negative.



Stay positive JJ and love yourself.:-6

Kathy Ellen;945519 wrote: Hello JJ:-4



I cannot love or even condone people who are mean-spirited and nasty. I can't tolerate that behavior, so I void them from my life or ignore them as best I can.



You are a better person than me because I have no patience and understanging for that kind of behavior.



I try to surround myself with people who are loving, kind and sincere. I try to ignore those who are bullies and negative.



Stay positive JJ and love yourself.:-6




hi kath honey ...

we haven't spoken in a while ...

but you are as wise as the first time!

mwaaaaaaaaaaah!

Jj :-4

jones jones;945518 wrote: unfortunately jimbo my buddy ... in today's world ... being nice and friendly is looked upon as a weakness ...

it is so so easy to hate ... i mean all you gotta do is say "... i hate you!" and you don't have to do or say anything more!

but ... you can't just say to someone "wow i love you!"

you know why?

cos if you love someone ... you gotta prove it~!

mwaaaaaaaaaaaah!

JjYes JJ you have....proof comes in many ways....the word Love is used to often sometimes...I can say I love many people on the Forum...which I do....but the Real love I have for some here has been earned by trust..honesty and pure out and out friendship.

jones jones;945465 wrote: some people in your life ... cyber and real ... whom you would prefer NOT to have in your life ... chip away ... chip away at you trying to get you to respond to their negative vibes ... they give off hatred and spite ... when all you wanna do is get on with being human and not wanting to be like them ...

and for some strange reason they look at you with envy and this brings out the worst in them ... then the more you ignore them ... the more determined they become ... they want you to say to them what they say to you ... to drag you down to their level ...

i cannot be like them ... i only know how to love ... i do not know how to hate ... i do not know how to be spiteful ... or hateful ... or to hurt people ...

and the more they dislike me ... the more they envy me ... the more i love them ...

is it so hard to love?

when loving you is so easy ...

Jj :-4


Is someone bothering you Jj...I could beat them up for you!:wah::wah:

Seriously tho, this is deep and has to be pondered.

shelbell;945570 wrote: Is someone bothering you Jj...I could beat them up for you!:wah::wah:

Seriously tho, this is deep and has to be pondered.


you could shelly?

wow! my heroine!

sigh ....

mwaaaaaaaaaaaah!

Jj :-4

jones jones;945579 wrote: you could shelly?

wow! my heroine!

sigh ....

mwaaaaaaaaaaaah!

Jj :-4


Sure I can Jj...I've been in a couple fight in my lifetime and haven't lost yet...and no, I never started it.

Mwaaaaaaaaaah and :-4 back at ya Jj.

It is difficult when people like you mentioned, JJ, are co-workers or relatives. When they are, you just have to keep your cool and do not engage. If they get too ugly........just walk away. Don't give them any power over you.

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Some folk just chip away like ruddy woodpeckers, they'll never give up till they wear you down.

Fortunately there are tenfold more that will make you feel worthy. :-6

I can't say I love or I hate a person without knowing who that person is and unles they have earned an emotion as strong as either one of those words I ain't gonna say either one of them words . my favorite response to those kinda people that 'chip away ' at you for whatever reason they use to 'justify' themselves ,is to very politely and nicely say " Go away little Bug, You bother me" and then put them on ignor if in cyber or in real time lock my gate,,

Well i can honestly say i don't hate anyone, i'm the type who walks away from a situation rather than stand and argue with someone!

i think to that you can love someone without them having to prove anything!

and with the loving spirit that you have Jj, its so obvious that it shines through even on this little box that is our cyberworld, i don't see how anyone could hate you!

mwaaaaaaaaah! :-4