ForumGarden

The other day she told me that, because I dislike and distrust other men, I'm vain and I have a problem. I don't see what the problem is, or how I'm vain, she said ask anyone, so I hope you don't mind if I ask you?

I don't see the connection between disliking or distrusting others and how that makes one vain. Nor how being vain is any sort of a problem, although I see how it can be... everything in moderation, right? I do generally deem others who aren't trusting to be untrustworthy, however.

watcher;953529 wrote: The other day she told me that, because I dislike and distrust other men, I'm vain and I have a problem. I don't see what the problem is, or how I'm vain, she said ask anyone, so I hope you don't mind if I ask you?
No we don't mind, I feel like I have known you my whole life. You probably think this post is about you..

YZGI;953700 wrote: No we don't mind, I feel like I have known you my whole life. You probably think this post is about you..


:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

watcher;953529 wrote: The other day she told me that, because I dislike and distrust other men, I'm vain and I have a problem. I don't see what the problem is, or how I'm vain, she said ask anyone, so I hope you don't mind if I ask you?


Hi watcher,

Welcome to the garden :-6:D:-6

YZGI;953700 wrote: No we don't mind, I feel like I have known you my whole life. You probably think this post is about you..


Who are you? What are you? Who moved the stone?

watcher;953760 wrote: Who are you? What are you? Who moved the boulder?
Eh, don't mind me. I'm just another untrustworthy man.:wah:



It was a rock not a boulder.

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl @ Wisey and :-4



Watcher, I'd love to help you, except I don't know you or what you've been through. I know bitter women against men, because of their past experiences (I'm not real bitter, but have had some real crappy experiences with men) and they still are able to have loving relationships with men....Sounds like this woman just was speaking her mind on how she felt at the time .....maybe!

I wondered how long it'd be before I got a straight answer thankyou Wendy.

Perhaps you should just try listening better?

watcher;953797 wrote: I wondered how long it'd be before I got a straight answer thankyou Wendy.


You are welcome.....and Welcome to the Garden!:-6

watcher;953529 wrote: The other day she told me that, because I dislike and distrust other men, I'm vain and I have a problem. I don't see what the problem is, or how I'm vain, she said ask anyone, so I hope you don't mind if I ask you?


there are these women ...

and i too dislike and distrust other men ... especially when they around my

women ...

and yes i'm vain ... and i too have a problem ... no wait let me re-phrase that ... i

too have several problems ...

so like you say ... i don't see what the problem is ...

Jj

jones jones;953818 wrote: there are these women ...

and i too dislike and distrust other men ... especially when they around my

women ...

and yes i'm vain ... and i too have a problem ... no wait let me re-phrase that ... i

too have several problems ...

so like you say ... i don't see what the problem is ...

Jj


:wah::wah::wah:

watcher;953529 wrote: The other day she told me that, because I dislike and distrust other men, I'm vain and I have a problem. I don't see what the problem is, or how I'm vain, she said ask anyone, so I hope you don't mind if I ask you?






I have this recurring dream.

A spider has laid eggs in my brain and when they hatch they come scampering out of my ear by the hundreds.

(Not to be confused with the french fries protruding from Jimbos ear.

Totally unrelated.)

pinkchick;953727 wrote: :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


.....don't you..............don't you...........:wah:



Welcome watcher.............we don't know you YET...........so how can we comment?

Here's a welcome mat for you. Wipe your feet...come on in........and tell us more about yourself.

Attached files

along-for-the-ride;954069 wrote: .....don't you..............don't you...........:wah:







Welcome watcher.............we don't know you YET...........so how can we comment?



Here's a welcome mat for you. Wipe your feet...come on in........and tell us more about yourself.




Just wipe your feet on me, Im everyone elses door mat. Why not you too ?

Nomad;953951 wrote: I have this recurring dream.

A spider has laid eggs in my brain and when they hatch they come scampering out of my ear by the hundreds.

(Not to be confused with the french fries protruding from Jimbos ear.

Totally unrelated.)


:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

The french fries coming out of Jimbo's ear picture on your siggy is KILLING me!!:wah:

I'm so thankful I've never shared the picture of me with my girlfriends (probably around 13 or so) with jelly beans stuck up our noses.....

WonderWendy3;954125 wrote: I'm so thankful I've never shared the picture of me with my girlfriends (probably around 13 or so) with jelly beans stuck up our noses.....
Share! Come on, there are rules, you can't say that and then go all girlie and say no.

spot;954126 wrote: Share! Come on, there are rules, you can't say that and then go all girlie and say no.


ha, I don't have it on my computer....need to scan it....and its packed up at my parents house, perhaps some day I'll get organized and download it on here for you....it wouldn't bother me to share, would be funny actually!:wah:

YZGI;953700 wrote: No we don't mind, I feel like I have known you my whole life. You probably think this post is about you..:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Please feel free to vacation at my house... bring the whole family... they have to be just as entertaining!!:-4:wah:

watcher;953529 wrote: The other day she told me that, because I dislike and distrust other men, I'm vain and I have a problem. I don't see what the problem is, or how I'm vain, she said ask anyone, so I hope you don't mind if I ask you?


Yup----------I always thought you were very vain and opinionated, but other than that, intelligent, a quick study and very erudite, taking all things into consideration.

watcher;953529 wrote: The other day she told me that, because I dislike and distrust other men, I'm vain and I have a problem. I don't see what the problem is, or how I'm vain, she said ask anyone, so I hope you don't mind if I ask you?


hi there and welcome to the garden! :-6

i don't know what this womans problem is, but i see no connection in disliking and distrusting other men and being vain!

No way that I can help... I dont know anything about you. I never really heard of men not trusting other men, or the not trusting vanity combo thing.

I simply base my criteria for trusting people on the person. Gender doesnt enter into it.