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Ian;1035020 wrote: I'm not leaving FG because there are other members to consider that I like very much, I let those who upset me before make me miss out on good relationships, when I left before and lost cheshirecat to upset for words I understood not to say goodbye to anyone again...

I don't like those who spread negativity over the board, I'm very sensitive and it hurts me greatly it may seem like a weakness but I'm not going to change, I guess I find it hard mixing with so many, I've tried and it doesn't work..

today I will be on this board for the last time but will come back to message those I care about, I think it's the only way for me to remain here and to be peaceful.


oh I read the title and thought you were talking about me big boy:D

Come here and gis a snog Ian:-4:-4:-4

FOC thread is ready for your entrance, you will get loads of women waiting on your every need and Carol may even sing:guitarist:guitarist:guitarist

Take care of yourself, Six. :-6

Ian;1035020 wrote: I'm not leaving FG because there are other members to consider that I like very much, I let those who upset me before make me miss out on good relationships, when I left before and lost cheshirecat to upset for words I understood not to say goodbye to anyone again...

I don't like those who spread negativity over the board, I'm very sensitive and it hurts me greatly it may seem like a weakness but I'm not going to change, I guess I find it hard mixing with so many, I've tried and it doesn't work..

today I will be on this board for the last time but will come back to message those I care about, I think it's the only way for me to remain here and to be peaceful.Ian we have never really "spoken" but felt I had to answer this post.Some of what you say is oh so true and alot of what you write I could ditto but like so many have told me I will tell you......forget the ones that you feel have hurt you and maybe the ones you have hurt a little also as you indeed cant please the people all of the time and why try.Life online isn't easy sometimes as we find out who is who and who have a problem with us and we indeed them and because your male IMO makes no difference as hurt is hurt no matter what sex we are.Dont go Ian as the hurt will ease and the clouds will go.....stick with it Ian and lets both sing to Chez and annoy her;):D:guitarist

Ian;1035140 wrote: i am not going to leave, I will remain connected... I still enjoy what some people say, although I will have no input I will be keeping my eye on you ;)Well yer always welcome on the FOC thread Ian anytime if you can stand the thought of aload of women trying to grab you:D;)

I thought the whole point of a forum was to debate. You will always have posters who don't agree with you and even as with me (gmc) some will tell you your talking bollocks. I don't ever get upset by what any one says now. I'm sure no-one comes on here with the deliberate intention of hurting some-one's feelings.

Fuzzy and i were saying on another thread recently that she and Mr Oscar go on fishing forums that you would think would be perfect gentlemen discussing a gentle sport. Yet, we both agreed that the bitching on them was 100 times worse than on here.

We all including myself have seen it all and yes, its upsetting what some will do and say on an open forum......but as all of us do, you have friends here and its just not worth leaving on their account.

and also whats fair for some is not fair for others............go with the flow and have fun.

stick around and just enjoy the threads you like and your welcome to come to my room, its tons of fun, no smart-ass comments whatsoever.........

Odie's room..............hoping to see you there!

oscar;1035227 wrote: I thought the whole point of a forum was to debate. Nah, that's OUR point of being here. Ian's different, and that's a very good thing.

Ian theres a pattern developing here.

Im not one of those please dont go guys but youre different.

I wish you could find a way to make it work because your talents and insight are valued.

That said Ill always have a spot for 6 in case you need shelter.

Ian;1035515 wrote: Yes it's a bit embarrassing but if everybody reads my post: it says "I'm not leaving"

and 6 will always have a soft spot for you.


did you check with spot to see if that was okay?

and would you consider spot "soft"?

Ian;1035522 wrote: I dont understand :-3


http://www.forumgarden.com/forums/member.php?u=1867

Ian;1035535 wrote: hmmmm


Its a play on words?

A joke?

A funny?

You laugh?

TheNewDG;1035547 wrote: Its a play on words?

A joke?

A funny?

You laugh?




Better leave the funny stuff to the pros darling.

Ian;1035549 wrote: You are ridiculous..

not funny at all

heaven help me :-3


I like being ridiculous!:wah:

Thanks!

Nomad;1035548 wrote: Better leave the funny stuff to the pros darling.


Seriously?? How was that not funny and offensive?

Ian;1035020 wrote: I'm not leaving FG because there are other members to consider that I like very much, I let those who upset me before make me miss out on good relationships, when I left before and lost cheshirecat to upset for words I understood not to say goodbye to anyone again...

I don't like those who spread negativity over the board, I'm very sensitive and it hurts me greatly it may seem like a weakness but I'm not going to change, I guess I find it hard mixing with so many, I've tried and it doesn't work..

today I will be on this board for the last time but will come back to message those I care about, I think it's the only way for me to remain here and to be peaceful.


Ian, this is the internet, you can't take sh1t to heart. We are all only cyber people.

relax dude.

Ian;1036185 wrote: Too many bitches and the fact that I got an infraction from a person like redglitter is the final nail in the coffin, a lunatic who wants capital punishment for children have some sort of say is just too much to take..

some good people here who I will try and keep in touch with but the rest have got nothing better to do than stalk people with innuendos and moronic comments..


take a deeeeeep breath, now exhale slowly..

that’s it

now relax, it is only a computer, on an internet, with millions and millions of people

just breath

in, and out, in , and out, that's it...

feeling better now?

Ian;1036185 wrote: Too many bitches and the fact that I got an infraction from a person like redglitter is the final nail in the coffin, a lunatic who wants capital punishment for children have some sort of say is just too much to take..

some good people here who I will try and keep in touch with but the rest have got nothing better to do than stalk people with innuendos and moronic comments..


erm dude...Check your infraction pm again and see who sent it

ok thanks

Ian;1035020 wrote: I'm not leaving FG because there are other members to consider that I like very much, I let those who upset me before make me miss out on good relationships, when I left before and lost cheshirecat to upset for words I understood not to say goodbye to anyone again...



I don't like those who spread negativity over the board, I'm very sensitive and it hurts me greatly it may seem like a weakness but I'm not going to change, I guess I find it hard mixing with so many, I've tried and it doesn't work..



today I will be on this board for the last time but will come back to message those I care about, I think it's the only way for me to remain here and to be peaceful.


Ian;1035134 wrote: I'm not leaving, i made it clear in the thread starter :-2

I'm just gonna say hello from time to time that's all, I just cant seem to get a grip of the forum world.. too much of a mix of good and bad..


Ian;1035140 wrote: i am not going to leave, I will remain connected... I still enjoy what some people say, although I will have no input I will be keeping my eye on you


Ian;1035515 wrote: Yes it's a bit embarrassing but if everybody reads my post: it says "I'm not leaving"



and 6 will always have a soft spot for you.


YOU LIED!! Now how the hell are we supposed to find your past posts??!?

Ian;1035020 wrote: I'm not leaving FG because there are other members to consider that I like very much, I let those who upset me before make me miss out on good relationships, when I left before and lost cheshirecat to upset for words I understood not to say goodbye to anyone again...

I don't like those who spread negativity over the board, I'm very sensitive and it hurts me greatly it may seem like a weakness but I'm not going to change, I guess I find it hard mixing with so many, I've tried and it doesn't work..

today I will be on this board for the last time but will come back to message those I care about, I think it's the only way for me to remain here and to be peaceful.


awwwwwwww Ian i wish you would come back to posting! i was gonna leave and changed my mind!

you can come on any thread of mine! i'll look after you!

if anybody bothers you i'll put on my moderator hat and deal with them!

And now you're gone once again Ian



I'm especially sorry that you don't keep your word to your friends here



Hope you have a good life;) We'll miss you..

Kathy Ellen;1037209 wrote: And now you're gone once again Ian

I'm especially sorry that you don't keep your word to your friends here

Hope you have a good life;) We'll miss you..




I think actually that he does KE... he tries and comes back and tries again.. that's always promising, IMO..:-6

Elvis has left the building.

But, as we all know, Elvis is alive and well. Probably eating a McChicken as we speak.

koan;1037409 wrote: Elvis has left the building.

But, as we all know, Elvis is alive and well. Probably eating a McChicken as we speak.


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