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havent been her over the week end we had my cousin funeral

ive had no sleep for 30 hours we sat up all last night as a mark of respect



pat was 54 god bless sleep well rest in peace

el guapo;1166132 wrote: havent been her over the week end we had my cousin funeral

ive had no sleep for 30 hours we sat up all last night as a mark of respect



pat was 54 god bless sleep well rest in peace I'll be thinking of you my little Hamster.

Wish i could give you a hug. :-4:-4:-4:-4

Ahh, sorry about your Pat. You stayed up for 30 hrs? Jeez, what were you doing...drinking?:rolleyes:

qsducks;1166136 wrote: Ahh, sorry about your Pat. You stayed up for 30 hrs? Jeez, what were you doing...drinking?:rolleyes:


he said it was a mark of respect.



so sorry about Pat.

you need a jimbo sized man hug :(

peace brother

qsducks;1166136 wrote: Ahh, sorry about your Pat. You stayed up for 30 hrs? Jeez, what were you doing...drinking?:rolleyes:


no was just sat with the fam talking about pat no booze

el guapo;1166149 wrote: no was just sat with the fam talking about pat no booze
It's good. All the funerals in my family, we have stayed up talking. It's therepy. :-4

Odie;1166138 wrote: he said it was a mark of respect.



so sorry about Pat.


Everytime one of my relly's died, we did the same thing. You stay awake for hours reminiscing about the good old time,etc. and just drink. It is a way of honoring the passing of the relly.

oscar;1166156 wrote: It's good. All the funerals in my family, we have stayed up talking. It's therepy. :-4


Yes, Thankyou!:) And it makes you feel good and you can laugh about funny things that affected you while your rellie was alive and things that you did together.

qsducks;1166178 wrote: Yes, Thankyou!:) And it makes you feel good and you can laugh about funny things that affected you while your rellie was alive and things that you did together.


Memories are so very precious..be thnakful you have them:-4:-4:-4

kazalala;1166180 wrote: Memories are so very precious..be thnakful you have them:-4:-4:-4


Yes, I agree. When my grandmom passed on they had a huge party that lasted for hours....they even played a video of her and the stories were really cool. I will never forget it. She was born in 1900 and remembered when the Titantic sunk, went to the movies every Saturday for 5 cents and watched them all day. She once told us grandkids that cars were a rare site on the roads back then.

qsducks;1166190 wrote: Yes, I agree. When my grandmom passed on they had a huge party that lasted for hours....they even played a video of her and the stories were really cool. I will never forget it. She was born in 1900 and remembered when the Titantic sunk, went to the movies every Saturday for 5 cents and watched them all day. She once told us grandkids that cars were a rare site on the roads back then.


thats cool ... i think that even though you are devastated of losing a loved one,,, if after a while you can think of them and smile ,,, you are so very lucky:)

kazalala;1166199 wrote: thats cool ... i think that even though you are devastated of losing a loved one,,, if after a while you can think of them and smile ,,, you are so very lucky:)


The latest rage over here is to have a Celebration of Life party, which is what everyone has been doing for ages:rolleyes:. I love it! When my other grandma passed it was another huge party. I also remember my dad telling us that when his grandparents passed on (they were Irish), they had a huge bash with big party, etc., story telling, etc. and most of all laughter.:wah:

Huggs Taco.

May Pat be at Peace.

I have always felt that memories are blessings. And I feel blessed to have how ever many I have of each loved one that has passed on.



my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your cousin.

scholle-kid;1166242 wrote: I have always felt that memories are blessings. And I feel blessed to have how ever many I have of each loved one that has passed on.



my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your cousin.


Plus it's things you can pass down to your children. The memories, etc. I was telling my kids that cars weren't on the roads back in the 1910's years, that there were no Wawa's or fast food places, etc. Not even tv's, etc.

:-4 (((((((Jesse))))))) :-4

:-4 cherish the memories

thanks all was a tough day on here kids 3 all grow tho

she had a white n silver horse draw hurse pulled by 4 white horses

there where white cars

most of the flowers were pale pink n white pats fav colours

pat would have loved the flowers it was i good last trip

sleep well pat

el guapo;1166670 wrote: thanks all was a tough day on here kids 3 all grow tho



she had a white n silver horse draw hurse pulled by 4 white horses

there where white cars



most of the flowers were pale pink n white pats fav colours



pat would have loved the flowers it was i good last trip



sleep well pat


That'll be another memory to cherish - the last journey done in style.

Imladris;1166753 wrote: That'll be another memory to cherish - the last journey done in style.


First class is right. sorry about your loss EG.

I'm so sorry for your loss Jess. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,

Remember the happy times. I hope there were many. :-4:-4:yh_hugs

I am sorry to hear about the passing of your loved one. :-4

so sorry to hear about the passing of your loved one it is never easy.

I am so sorry Jesse:-4