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Salam................

Fat...fat...fat.....fat........

the word became scary , its like telling someOne, u r retart , people started to feel shame of their weight, that created "fat phobia" , its almost a disease , girls suffer from, why that fear of weight appeared, sure I'm not talking about those..





Well those really need to stop and rethink about where they r going:driving: ....but Im talking about those,



Who are not fat medically , but they r fathead, they never stop thinking "OMG :-5 Im getting fat:-5I'm a Truck

"

I dont know really , what get us fat,,,, What we eat ,,, or what we fear...??

I think many people who get fat are people suffering fat Phobia..and not the food getting them fat ,





And by the way , I was 65 Kg , but my fiance is fulffy, and I wanted to change for her:D , I gained 20 Kg and became body building for her :-4:D:-4:D, and now I hate skinnys ,kidding , but I think being bigger was the best I had, many people told me that, its cuter for me,than being Skinny..........

Anyways mY Questions ,

Do you keep watching your weight feeling :-5:-5:-5:-5 .............??:rolleyes:

Do You love fat girls / and for girls , do you love fat boys.....??

For fats , do you wanna loss weight for medical reasons , or looking reasons........??

Sure You heard about girls dieing while having surgurys to loss weight, so what may kill us , our fatness or our Fear.............??

for fats, do You hate being called fat, even if who say it, doesnt have any bad intetations.............??

For fats,if you answered the last Question by Yes, then sorry for saying fat:D

they should all be must slims too :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

farmer giles;1200832 wrote: they should all be must slims too :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


:D:D:D:D:DI disagree:D:D:D

Abram Is Muslim;1200831 wrote: Salam................

Fat...fat...fat.....fat........

the word became scary , its like telling someOne, u r retart , people started to feel shame of their weight, that created "fat phobia" , its almost a disease , girls suffer from, why that fear of weight appeared, sure I'm not talking about those..





Well those really need to stop and rethink about where they r going:driving: ....but Im talking about those,



Who are not fat medically , but they r fathead, they never stop thinking "OMG :-5 Im getting fat:-5I'm a Truck

"

I dont know really , what get us fat,,,, What we eat ,,, or what we fear...??

I think many people who get fat are people suffering fat Phobia..and not the food getting them fat ,





And by the way , I was 65 Kg , but my fiance is fulffy, and I wanted to change for her:D , I gained 20 Kg and became body building for her :-4:D:-4:D, and now I hate skinnys ,kidding , but I think being bigger was the best I had, many people told me that, its cuter for me,than being Skinny..........

Anyways mY Questions ,

Do you keep watching your weight feeling :-5:-5:-5:-5 .............??:rolleyes:

Do You love fat girls / and for girls , do you love fat boys.....??

For fats , do you wanna loss weight for medical reasons , or looking reasons........??

Sure You heard about girls dieing while having surgurys to loss weight, so what may kill us , our fatness or our Fear.............??

for fats, do You hate being called fat, even if who say it, doesnt have any bad intetations.............??

For fats,if you answered the last Question by Yes, then sorry for saying fat:D Is it just me who find this post offensive? What does it matter how large people are? It's the personality that counts.

oscar;1200839 wrote: Is it just me who find this post offensive? What does it matter how large people are? It's the personality that counts.


I also found it offensive. What was the objective of putting this subject on a thread?

qsducks;1200842 wrote: I also found it offensive. What was the objective of putting this subject on a thread? Exactly....... makes you wonder eh? :mad:

Abram Is Muslim;1200831 wrote: Salam................

Fat...fat...fat.....fat........



Anyways mY Questions ,

Do you keep watching your weight feeling :-5:-5:-5:-5 .............??:rolleyes:

Do You love fat girls / and for girls , do you love fat boys.....??

For fats , do you wanna loss weight for medical reasons , or looking reasons........??

Sure You heard about girls dieing while having surgurys to loss weight, so what may kill us , our fatness or our Fear.............??

for fats, do You hate being called fat, even if who say it, doesnt have any bad intetations.............??

For fats,if you answered the last Question by Yes, then sorry for saying fat:D




Firstly, welcome to the Garden and thank you for trying to answer questions about your belief.

In response to your questions :-

Yes, I watch my weight because, if I did not, it would increase by a pound or two every month. I enjoy my food too much and do not do enough exercise.

For preference I prefer ladies not to be too big but, always, the who is more important that the what.

I keep my weight within the normal range for BMI, not only for personal comfort but also for health reasons.

If a person is accepted for surgery to bring about weight loss then their health is definitely at risk. Yes, it has happened that complications set in and the patient dies but the doctors will not operate unless the risk of not doing so outweighs the risk of the operation.

The only person to say I was fat was my wife - and that was after I'd lost the extra half stone that crept up whilst I was not watching. No, I did not like it but it had been the truth.

Weight is becoming a national obsession purely because the number of obese, clinically obese and morbidly obese (the three medical classes measuring how fat people are) people is climbing rapidly and the health of the country is suffering.

oscar;1200844 wrote: Exactly....... makes you wonder eh? :mad:


So what if someone is fat...I don't care...it's whats in their hearts that I care about.

oscar;1200839 wrote: Is it just me who find this post offensive? What does it matter how large people are? It's the personality that counts.


What is offensive about it? A set of reasonable questions by a person trying to find out about our culture - with a correspondingly different set of cultural references underlying them.

I'm fat by jabba standards and it doesn't bother me.



I am unhealthy by MY standards and that bugs the heck out of me.



I have never and would never hesitate to be naked in front of a man... men simply appreciate what you have to offer..



I don't walk around the locker room naked like some of the ladies do... women take notes and share them with friends later..:rolleyes:



It is insecurity that makes folks obsess about their body or makeup or hair. And that insecurity is not created by what the culture is saying to us, but rather by what we choose to believe of what they say.

It's all part of Obummer's message of change. He's changing smokers into non smokers, fat people into thin people and all of us into poor people.

I would prefer to be thinner but am no longer prepared to eat less or more healthy food to achieve it. I am also not prepared to excersize anymore than i presently do so i accept it and wear underwear and clothes that flatter & make me look how i prefer to see myself in the mirror

I dont find your post offensive at all.

hoppy;1200862 wrote: It's all part of Obummer's message of change. He's changing smokers into non smokers, fat people into thin people and all of us into poor people.


:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

buttercup;1200863 wrote: I would prefer to be thinner but am no longer prepared to eat less or more healthy food to achieve it. I am also not prepared to excersize anymore than i presently do so i accept it and wear underwear and clothes that flatter & make me look how i prefer to see myself in the mirror

I dont find your post offensive at all.


:)Thank you sooooooooooooooooooooooo much

Bryn Mawr;1200848 wrote: What is offensive about it? A set of reasonable questions by a person trying to find out about our culture - with a correspondingly different set of cultural references underlying them.


:)Thank you at first for being that sweet starting from your first comment , secondly , its not ur culture alone no more, the civilization moved all the cultures to each others, and here in Egypt ,that fat phobia started to appear between girls, to be honest I hate that , Yes we should watch our weight , but with care eyes , not fear eyes.............

We should stay healthy for our selvies not sexy for the Others

oscar;1200839 wrote: Is it just me who find this post offensive? What does it matter how large people are? It's the personality that counts.


I guess if I was fat or obese I would find the post offensive but that's not the case. It matters greatly how large people are. Fat people take up too much space on this planet, not to mention crowding out passengers on airline seats, buses, trains and subways. They are capable of excessive perspiration which lends itself to noxious odors and pollution. They tend to consume more than their fare share of the earths resources and contribute to execess demands on our medical resources at the expense of the rest of the normal and healthy sized people. Need I go on?:wah:

lon;1200872 wrote: i guess if i was fat or obese i would find the post offensive but that's not the case. It matters greatly how large people are. Fat people take up too much space on this planet, not to mention crowding out passengers on airline seats, buses, trains and subways. They are capable of excessive perspiration which lends itself to noxious odors and pollution. They tend to consume more than their fare share of the earths resources and contribute to execess demands on our medical resources at the expense of the rest of the normal and healthy sized people. Need i go on?:wah:


bigot.

Lon;1200872 wrote: I guess if I was fat or obese I would find the post offensive but that's not the case. It matters greatly how large people are. Fat people take up too much space on this planet, not to mention crowding out passengers on airline seats, buses, trains and subways. They are capable of excessive perspiration which lends itself to noxious odors and pollution. They tend to consume more than their fare share of the earths resources and contribute to execess demands on our medical resources at the expense of the rest of the normal and healthy sized people. Need I go on?:wah:


:D:D:DThat was hard :D:D

:D:D I dont know what to say ,but you gave a financial ciew Only

hoppy;1200874 wrote: bigot.


thank you

Abram Is Muslim;1200868 wrote: :)Thank you at first for being that sweet starting from your first comment , secondly , its not ur culture alone no more, the civilization moved all the cultures to each others, and here in Egypt ,that fat phobia started to appear between girls, to be honest I hate that , Yes we should watch our weight , but with care eyes , not fear eyes.............

We should stay healthy for our selvies not sexy for the Others


I find the standardisation of cultures around the world very sad and a great loss to us all. I also believe that it is a cause of resentment as countries lose their cultural identity.

Abram, I find your post fascinating as some country's have become more obese in the past few years and obesity is what we are hearing everyday on the news here way to much.

I don't blame it on fast food take-out, that is just an excuse, there are just to many excuses used in becoming obese.



exercise is a huge part.

You can still enjoy all the foods you love in moderation.



they say you are what you eat........I agree.

[QUOTE=Odie;1200882]Abram, I find your post fascinating as some country's have become more obese in the past few years and obesity is what we are hearing everyday on the news here way to much.

I don't blame it on fast food take-out, that is just an excuse, there are just to many excuses used in becoming obese.



exercise is a huge part.

You can still enjoy all the foods you love in moderation.



they say you are what you eat........I agree.[/QUOTE]

:guitarist:guitarist ME 2 I agree :guitarist:guitarist

Vanity is a form of pride which is one of the seven deadly sins.

hoppy;1200908 wrote: Vanity is a form of pride which is one of the seven deadly sins.


And?

Bryn Mawr;1200919 wrote: And?


And WHAT?

hoppy;1200920 wrote: And WHAT?


I didn't understand the intent of your post and was asking for elucidation.

Bryn Mawr;1200928 wrote: I didn't understand the intent of your post and was asking for elucidation.


Ok. Some people are so vain about their appearance that it dominates their whole life. And, not all people are overweight because of overeating. Hell, if we want to get into appearances, lets pick on bald men too. Maybe I think bald is ugly. A bald man's shiny head is distracting. Even funny. A landing strip for flies. See what I mean?

And baldness can kill. Being bald killed my uncle, aunt and three cousins. Uncle was driving them all to visit someone. A bee flew in the cars open window and stung him on his bald head. He lost control and head on into a semi. Not true but it could have happened somewhere.

Never mind a bit thin on top? I reckon elucidation is a bit thin on the ground round these parts. But then I live in a state of spirality anyway, so what the heck.



Fitness is good.

Elucidation is better.

Spirality trumps the lot....

Bald men are hot.

buttercup;1200976 wrote: Bald men are hot.




How about bald obese men?:)

With or without moobs?

Lon;1200979 wrote: How about bald obese men?:)


Is he intelligent?

buttercup;1200983 wrote: Is he intelligent?




He's bald, obese, has bad breath, lots of hair in his nose and ears, toe nail fungus, but hey----------He's Intelligent and has an IQ of 166

I'd find him attractive then.

AussiePam;1200982 wrote: With or without moobs?




I had to look up Moobs----that's a new one for me. You Tube has some pics of MOOBS.

lon;1201000 wrote: he's bald, obese, has bad breath, lots of hair in his nose and ears, toe nail fungus, but hey----------he's intelligent and has an iq of 166


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Lon;1201000 wrote: He's bald, obese, has bad breath, lots of hair in his nose and ears, toe nail fungus, but hey----------He's Intelligent and has an IQ of 166


Hey, I know him! Oh, no, never mind, HIS IQ's only 47.

Lon;1201000 wrote: He's bald, obese, has bad breath, lots of hair in his nose and ears, toe nail fungus, but hey----------He's Intelligent and has an IQ of 166


Alright Lon. I want to know how you got my photo?

hoppy;1201081 wrote: Alright Lon. I want to know how you got my photo?




I did a GOOGLE SEARCH

Lon;1201000 wrote: He's bald, obese, has bad breath, lots of hair in his nose and ears, toe nail fungus, but hey----------He's Intelligent and has an IQ of 166


Bald is sexy, weight can be worked on, bad breath is likely a dental / diet thing that can be worked on, hair can be shaved and nail fungus can be fixed. Your going to have to do better than that :wah:

buttercup;1201145 wrote: weight can be worked on : wah:


I'm about a stone overweight at the moment, and I really, really notice it. It's harder to bend, etc. I will lose this during the Summer - the first bit's easy; the last bit is harder. It can be done, though - whenever I see a grossly fat person, I feel a bit sad about it - there's a normal-sized skeleton hiding under all that lot, which is being badly strained, as are some organs. Think about it - my 15 lbs excess is about the same as carrying about 28 pats of butter (250g/half pound each).

buttercup;1201145 wrote: Bald is sexy, weight can be worked on, bad breath is likely a dental / diet thing that can be worked on, hair can be shaved and nail fungus can be fixed. Your going to have to do better than that :wah:




Dental won't work, he's toothless and besides suffers from terminal flatulence.:wah:

Bill Sikes;1201148 wrote: I'm about a stone overweight at the moment, and I really, really notice it. It's harder to bend, etc. I will lose this during the Summer - the first bit's easy; the last bit is harder. It can be done, though - whenever I see a grossly fat person, I feel a bit sad about it - there's a normal-sized skeleton hiding under all that lot, which is being badly strained, as are some organs. Think about it - my 15 lbs excess is about the same as carrying about 28 pats of butter (250g/half pound each).


If the obese individual could witness an autopsy of one of their brethren and see the huge ponderous slabs of fat crushing in on the heart and other organs it might just provide the motivation to seek help and slim down.

15 lbs is not good, but it's not obese.

i have to lose 50 pounds and stop drinking totally :-5:-5



at least i wont go to my grave with an unused liver now that would be a crime :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

I agree first of all that it is personality that counts, but there is an issue with weight in today’s society, not only with overweight but also underweight.

We are subjected to constant bombardment of what is beautiful by the media. People are under indirect pressure from gossip magazines, fashion magazines, even kids teenager magazines as to what is in, what is out, who is fat who is thin.

We preach to judge each other by merit, but then taught to judge each other by appearance. It is no wonder people are messed up.

Then add to it a society where the traditional family structure is breaking down.

Where parents on low incomes (often single parents) who have hectic jobs and do not have the time to cook well balanced meals are left to eat more and more low budget take out foods, or prepare readymade meals or meals from frozen.

A while ago there was a post showing one of the items that is advertized in FG about weight loss:

http://www.forumgarden.com/forums/gener ... ght-6.html

The question was asked, at which point was the girl in the ad the most attractive. Overwhelmingly the response was that the photo in the center was found to be the most attractive, but the ad is stating that the last photo, (that people felt was too thin) was the target to strive for.

The point I am trying to get to is that it should be about being healthy, doing the things that we know are right and eating balanced healthy meals. Not just for appearance sake, but for health sake.

Lon;1201204 wrote: Dental won't work, he's toothless and besides suffers from terminal flatulence.:wah:


He could get false teeth but i have to give it to you the terminal flatulence is a problem :p

yes, but only cuzza disability

farmer giles;1201206 wrote: i have to lose 50 pounds and stop drinking totally :-5:-5



at least i wont go to my grave with an unused liver now that would be a crime :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


Hey, we're both in the same boat. I always thought it a waste to die looking good and still in fair health. I'm going out used up and wore out.:yh_rotfl