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Don't give my son an Asbo, he's got ODD (that's oppositional defiant disorder) | Mail Online

I am guily of "skipping" over stuff sometimes when i read,, btu i cant recall seing anywhere that he had actually been diagnosed with any sort of "condition" by a doctor?.. never heard of this condition before either :wah: sometimes i think the parents would benefit more from some help,, to help their cild properly

kazalala;1208468 wrote: I am guily of "skipping" over stuff sometimes when i read,, btu i cant recall seing anywhere that he had actually been diagnosed with any sort of "condition" by a doctor?.. never heard of this condition before either :wah: sometimes i think the parents would benefit more from some help,, to help their cild properly Well, i heard a new disorder on tv some months ago and i really believed it was a wind up. It was ODD..... Obsessive Denial Disorder. I googled it and found a book on it in America. FFS !!!!! ODD !!!! This must account for the Bristolian teenagers who walk round saying 'oh shut up cos it wern't me or nuffin or summat'.

I agree with you that the woman needs some help with parenting skills. It's very easy to ignore the victems of little shytes like this. I'd frankly like to see him breaking roacks in a quarry for a few weeks. Wouldn't be so funny to him then. :-5

oscar;1208479 wrote: Well, i heard a new disorder on tv some months ago and i really believed it was a wind up. It was ODD..... Obsessive Denial Disorder. I googled it and found a book on it in America. FFS !!!!! ODD !!!! This must account for the Bristolian teenagers who walk round saying 'oh shut up cos it wern't me or nuffin or summat'.

I agree with you that the woman needs some help with parenting skills. It's very easy to ignore the victems of little shytes like this. I'd frankly like to see him breaking roacks in a quarry for a few weeks. Wouldn't be so funny to him then. :-5


ah see i dont thikn of him as a little shyte:D he needs discipline yes,,, he should have probably had it a long time ago ,,, sory but a 12 year old is still a child to me ,,, and im not in the ,,, "children can be born evil" section. They need guidance and care ,,, and yes some tryntheir best and the child still turns out bad,,, yes i think we are born with a certain amount of character,,,, but still a child hasntt made istelf that way... just my opinion,, thats not to say i dont think he should be punished,, he should, i just dont think he is doing it to make our lives hell cos he is just spiteful that way:wah: If you know what i mean

kazalala;1208484 wrote: ah see i dont thikn of him as a little shyte:D he needs discipline yes,,, he should have probably had it a long time ago ,,, sory but a 12 year old is still a child to me ,,, and im not in the ,,, "children can be born evil" section. They need guidance and care ,,, and yes some tryntheir best and the child still turns out bad,,, yes i think we are born with a certain amount of character,,,, but still a child hasntt made istelf that way... just my opinion,, thats not to say i dont think he should be punished,, he should, i just dont think he is doing it to make our lives hell cos he is just spiteful that way:wah: If you know what i mean I do agree with you but this constant excuse making by inept parents has to stop and responsibilty and accountability has to come in or we are breeding a nation of these little darlings. For what it's worth, it's why my sis and i have fallen out big time as she is similar to the woman in the article..... excuses excuses excuses.

I live next door to a primary school and in all the years i have been here, we have never had any problems with any of the kids except one. He record is similar to the lad in the article. Try telling my elderly neighbours when their much treasured garden has been vandalised by him that he's not a horrible little shyte.

oscar;1208550 wrote: I do agree with you but this constant excuse making by inept parents has to stop and responsibilty and accountability has to come in or we are breeding a nation of these little darlings. For what it's worth, it's why my sis and i have fallen out big time as she is similar to the woman in the article..... excuses excuses excuses.

I live next door to a primary school and in all the years i have been here, we have never had any problems with any of the kids except one. He record is similar to the lad in the article. Try telling my elderly neighbours when their much treasured garden has been vandalised by him that he's not a horrible little shyte.


well thats what i said ,,, parents need to step up more:)

made up disorders are our pharmaceutical industries dreams come true.

minks;1208570 wrote: made up disorders are our pharmaceutical industries dreams come true.
And defence lawyers !!!!!

prison?:rolleyes:





Poor kid to have such a dreaded disease and his mom has tried so hard, hoping she will get the help he needs:



Typical treatments of ODD include psychotherapy, anger management and social skills training.

Medication may also be used to help control extreme behavior.

Parents are also encouraged to behave in a 'positive' way and give the child praise when cooperation is shown.

Odie;1208720 wrote: prison?:rolleyes:





Poor kid to have such a dreaded disease and his mom has tried so hard, hoping she will get the help he needs:



Typical treatments of ODD include psychotherapy, anger management and social skills training.

Medication may also be used to help control extreme behavior.

Parents are also encouraged to behave in a 'positive' way and give the child praise when cooperation is shown.
It is not a disease Odie.... it is a disorder.

minks;1208570 wrote: made up disorders are our pharmaceutical industries dreams come true.


you got that one right Minks!