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ok heres the deal.



i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.



T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.



R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.



heres the problem.



Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.





i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!



help me!

What do you want help with exactly?

Deciding which girl to date? Sounds to me reading between the lines that you prefer 'T' so date 'T'

Problem solved, next.

You don't remember being kissed by the little sister of the bar owner. That says it all.

You remember T's kiss though.

Drunken kisses with R aren't definitive, unless they mean that your relationship with T isn't meaningful. Doesn't sound as though either relationship has progressed far. Now's the time to make up your mind.

Hi,

Have fun because it all ends up like this:

YouTube - Chris Rock- Married Life

Pursue your relationship with T. :-6

Fibonacci;1221755 wrote: ok heres the deal.



i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.



T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.



R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.



heres the problem.



Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.





i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!



help me!




Are you complaining or bragging? Maybe you just need a cold shower.:-5

:wah:

Fibonacci;1221755 wrote: ok heres the deal.



i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.



T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.



R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.



heres the problem.



Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.



i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!



help me!


Give up drinking. :wah:

Find another bar to hang out in.

Relationships based on booze never work give it some thought.

The age-old question.............



YouTube - The Lovin' Spoonful---Did You Ever Have To Make Up Your Mind

Ummm................ Stay out of Bars?

mikeinie;1221779 wrote: Hi,

Have fun because it all ends up like this:

YouTube - Chris Rock- Married Life


:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Sounds like the two girls are competing

Remember - " T" you asked out .....

"R" took advantage of you - I'd say something she initiated.

Only see the one you enjoy spending time with.

the fun one - the one who has fun without having to be drunk.

good luck

Patsy

fuzzywuzzy;1222108 wrote: Ummm................ Stay out of Bars?


Hes gettin hooked up. If it aint broke dont fix it.

For goodness sake...you're young, have fun, play the field...just don't let them find out about each other! :wah::wah::wah:

Sounds like you're more interested in "T" so continue dating her.

As for "R', you were drunk at the time of the kiss and you don't remember it, so it's not a real relationship. Do you like "R" ? If so, there's nothing wrong with dating her, so long as you're not serious about "T" yet.

Go with your heart.