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DO YOU THINK YOU CAN ESCAPE THE PAST AND START OVER FRESH AND NEW? :-2

Cars :driving:

No...the past will always be a part of you. Canaan is right...you just have to own it.

not unless you go into the witness protection program.

minks wrote: not unless you go into the witness protection program.
I think the MOB can still find you there

hotsauce wrote: I think the MOB can still find you there


"Curses"

well what about identity theft, fake that, go into WPP and maybe then you can become a new you??? A little surgery (while your at it doc can you suck off a few of these pounds)

The thing to remember the most is that if you had trouble in the past, don't regret....

You can't live your life in regret, or as my mother used to say, "I never look back, I'm not going that way."

I don't think you can escape your past. But you can take what you've learned from your past and make your present and future much more meaningful.

devist8me wrote: I don't think you can escape your past. But you can take what you've learned from your past and make your present and future much more meaningful.You can escape your past if you are willing or able to leave old friends behind, and if you have a complete change of heart so you don't repeat the mistakes you made before. I agree with devist8, but I don't believe we learn and then change, I believe we change, and then see our past actions in an entirely new light.

Usually your friends from the old life don't accept the new you- they want to typecast and pidgeonhole you into the person you were before. If you spend any time with them, you go back to acting and relating as you did then.

Your family will usually accept the new you if it's real, but if they are part of the problem you are trying to escape you're better living very far from them and seeing them rarely, and under controlled circumstances.

cars wrote: DO YOU THINK YOU CAN ESCAPE THE PAST AND START OVER FRESH AND NEW? :-2



Cars :driving:
The past resides in our head (brain), and until we can deal with that, you never escape your past.

no i don't think you can escape your past it never works it is what makes us who we are

Lon wrote: The past resides in our head (brain), and until we can deal with that, you never escape your past.Ha ha ha ha. Yes.

What a great question. I think if the goal is 'escape' then, no. If the goal is to move beyond, yes.

You can start new...but the past travels with you. If your running from it, or havent come to comfortable terms with it, it will torment you, and your fresh start will not be fresh for long. It will be miserable.

you cannot escape if you have a history of stealing, a sexual predator or an abusive person. how can one start anew with these examples of un-fit behavior? first impressions don't mean anything, you get to know a person as time goes on. simple conversation to a screen cannot be graded? look what happened to K & K? wasn't ken a nice guy, as was assumed? oh well, perfect example of what people need to hear to feel good. hiya, how are ya, and i agree with you, duh, people with tendencies to follow cannot escape their own need to attach themselves to where the action is. and how do we know who is on the key-board from Montana, and don't send a picture of your neighbor.

koan wrote: What a great question. I think if the goal is 'escape' then, no. If the goal is to move beyond, yes.


Yes koan you got the goal of the thread!!! :-6

Cars :driving:

cars wrote: DO YOU THINK YOU CAN ESCAPE THE PAST AND START OVER FRESH AND NEW? :-2

Cars :driving:


Yes, just join a new board.

TMC wrote: Yes, just join a new board.


Who said anything about wanting to escape from this Garden????? :-2

cars wrote: Who said anything about wanting to escape from this Garden????? :-2


You're not good at irony are you. :rolleyes: