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skittles2004 wrote: Someone tell her how to get rid of a guy who's crushing on her. Poor guy!!!!
What are the details? Is this a serious threat?

Serious?????????



LC to the rescue!!!!!!! Daaaaaaa daaaaaaaa daaaaaaaaaaa..How do u spell that ? LOL



Keep a serious journal girl...and make sure your friends and family know your where abouts ALL the time.. It may seem a little insain at first but its not..its pretty important..

mominiowa wrote: Serious?????????





LC to the rescue!!!!!!! Daaaaaaa daaaaaaaa daaaaaaaaaaa..How do u spell that ? LOL





Keep a serious journal girl...and make sure your friends and family know your where abouts ALL the time.. It may seem a little insain at first but its not..its pretty important.. you spell it.....bad boys, bad boys, whatcha gonna do, whatcha gonna do when they come for you?.......................................:wah: ...the "stalker" sounds like teenage boy with crush, normal.

Tell her to say the words of death to him......"I like you as a friend."

AAAaaaaaaaa.....NOOooooooo.

no you must give him the kiss of death..." you are a nice guy, but..."

at least when you have a stalker you aren't bored and alone.

hotsauce has a point there!

good point, sauce. Gotta find the bright side huh?

"My dad is going to chaperone us for the next 36 dates. Pick me up at 4:30. He wants to get back in time to watch the 6 o'clock news."

I had a stalker once. Maybe twice...we'll see.

I got meaner and meaner everytime he called (minimum seven times a day on my cell phone at work and left a message every time). He would say things like "I don't know how you expect me to be your boyfriend when you're so mean to me." My response. "I DON'T. THAT'S THE POINT." I finally confronted him as being a stalker. "I don't know where you get off calling me a stalker!" he says. "I don't know where you get off stalking me!" I respond. He finally agreed to leave me alone. It got pretty scary though. I actually gave his name, address and phone number to a few people in case I disappeared. I found this book later.

Anyone with a serious problem,

Here's what the Worst Case Scenario Survival Handbook on dating and sex has to say:(In parts because it's really long)

HOW TO FEND OFF AN OBSESSIVE EX.

1) Make your rejection final and firm.

Do not give your ex a chance to manipulate or negotiate. Refuse all offers for dates, favours and 'friendly meetings'. Express your wish to be left alone. Make sure your body language sends the same message. Do not touch during the rejection, but look your ex firmly in the eyes.

skittles2004 wrote: Yeah it is. He stalks her everywhere she goes. He calls her everyhour to see how she's doing. He writes her letters everyday!!!! Crazy freak i'm telling you! Mmmm...Wonder what the attraction can be?

Tombstone wrote: "My dad is going to chaperone us for the next 36 dates. Pick me up at 4:30. He wants to get back in time to watch the 6 o'clock news."That tickled me..:wah:

:-3 I would be very cautious with this guy. Nothing about what he has done is normal, or right. Don't take it lightly that he has been stalking you. He may back off for a bit, and come back mad, and it will increase and become very dangerous. Don't want to alarm you but his behavior is odd, and not to be trusted. :-3 I would be careful for a bit.

i am so confused!