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There are times while driving that I glance at the person pulling up next to me. I can't help but notice how some women just stay in their mirror, always looking at themselves. You would think they got enough of it at home, but no, there in that mirror even when they leave home. Fluffing their hair, rolling and licking their lips, doing things to their eyes. Why is this?

There are two basic reasons why we look in the mirror, to please and prepare ourselves, and to prepare ourselves to please others who look at us. And the extreme of that, is the woman who cannot get out of the mirror. She uses her body as her exclimation point, she is saying and demanding, " Look at me!" And she needs that from us to build up her self worth.

I mean I see nothing wrong with a woman wanting to look good, but its the " Excess of that", of which I write. Certain women are going overboard with this. Breast poping out everywhere, bulging through their clothes. Wearing " Spandex", which is almost like wearing nothing. They wear their Jeans so tight they have to lay down to get them off. They see men comming and they stick their breast out, arch their butts, and mentality mold their bodies to form the shape of lust. And then they wonder why some men violate them, its like dangleing raw meat in front of a lion.

But I want to go into this way in Women, and examine the Woman in the Mirror.

Peace.

One of the most stunning things I have seen in my life, is something a female friend of mine did one night at work. We had construction crews comming in that night to work on laying new tile. Now this particular friend has what we black men call " A Basketball Butt." A big round butt that looks like a basketball. We were in the basement and the construction crew were comming off of the elevator. I was standing next to her at the time, we had been talking, and when she saw these men comming off the elevator , I just happened to see her physically arch her back forward and her butt upward, so as to give it an exclamation point and appear to be bigger. It was kind of stunning to me, because, goodness, it was big enough as it is. But in her mind, in her consciousness, she had to promote " Her Assests." She became the Mirror of herself that the men were looking at, she became what she wanted them to see.

And I want to go into that incredible reality.

Peace.

I do a booger check in the bathroom mirror after I brush my teeth and then I start my day. I'll revisit it tomorrow.

As for the car mirror - it's reflecting what it sees out the back window, unless littleone has knocked it askew.

Men are the more vain.

flopstock;1346888 wrote: I do a booger check in the bathroom mirror after I brush my teeth and then I start my day. I'll revisit it tomorrow.

As for the car mirror - it's reflecting what it sees out the back window, unless littleone has knocked it askew.

Men are the more vain.




Well I certainly disagree with that, women are defintely more vain than men, just put ten of them in the room together and tell them to work together, and vainity will be one of the main problems, ten men working together wouldnot have that problem. Women are far more " Self conscious" of how they look than men, its really senseless to even argue that. And they KNOW that men are physically stimulated by sight. Some women are " Vehemently vain", just vain with an attititude mixed in with it.

They look and shape good, they KNOW they do, and KNOW that men know. And will use that against men, and to even get promoted in the workforce, or to get other men in trouble.

Peace.

Woman is Gods most finest creation, at least that I have seen, absolutely no doubt in my mind about that. Most of them are simply bueatiful creatures, well designed and stunning. Literally walking billboards of beauty. Now when THEY know this and exploit it, it can become a weapon for sure. You have heard the old saying that a man is the head of his house, well a wise woman can be like his neck, and turn his head anyway that she so desires. She can manipulate him on a daily basics, and get what she wants.

So many women have grown tired of male manipulation, that they rebel against that, but then become manipulators themselves. And I think they are far better at it than men. When the " Spirit of competition" comes between men and women, a hard battle is about to be fought.

And I want to go into the interesting way in which some women choose to fight.

Peace.

posted by mickiel

One of the most stunning things I have seen in my life, is something a female friend of mine did one night at work. We had construction crews comming in that night to work on laying new tile. Now this particular friend has what we black men call " A Basketball Butt." A big round butt that looks like a basketball. We were in the basement and the construction crew were comming off of the elevator. I was standing next to her at the time, we had been talking, and when she saw these men comming off the elevator , I just happened to see her physically arch her back forward and her butt upward, so as to give it an exclamation point and appear to be bigger. It was kind of stunning to me, because, goodness, it was big enough as it is. But in her mind, in her consciousness, she had to promote " Her Assests." She became the Mirror of herself that the men were looking at, she became what she wanted them to see.


Don't tell me you've never stood up straighter and sucked in your paunch when you are passing an attractive woman. It's human nature at work not just societal conditioning.

I mean I see nothing wrong with a woman wanting to look good, but its the " Excess of that", of which I write. Certain women are going overboard with this. Breast poping out everywhere, bulging through their clothes. Wearing " Spandex", which is almost like wearing nothing. They wear their Jeans so tight they have to lay down to get them off. They see men comming and they stick their breast out, arch their butts, and mentality mold their bodies to form the shape of lust. And then they wonder why some men violate them, its like dangleing raw meat in front of a lion.


You sound like one of those sad sex obsessed religious nutters convinced every woman is out to tempt them and get them to have sex with them. I've known a couple where all it took was for a woman to smile at them or give a friendly nod in passing for them to assume they has just been propositioned. They couldn't tell the difference between a normal friendly greeting and outright flirtation. It's the sign of a damaged personality or someone that wasn't allowed to socialise much with the opposite sex while at school - pupils from same sex schools are notoriously inept and sexist. Seriously I think you may need help.

Talking about bananas and pointed sticks again.

Though I would agree with GMC your bananas, and no I believe a male has as much responsability (actually more) as does the female as to where he points his stick.

Well as I have said before, if you think I need help or am bananas, why are you reading what I write? Don't bother with it, I don't read what you write, but not because I think rudely of you two, I am just not interested in how you think. The way certain men and women think, is just not interesting. Its bland and dull, and not because of society, but because of their consciousness and how they have " Fed their consciousness." And I will be going into the feeding of our consciousness.

Its of intrest how certain females choose to fight males. Not always able to do so physically, they stage a mental and emotional war and often win. Their emotional skills are underestimated, and they can fire up the emotions of a male in unusual ways.

And I want to go into some of that.

Peace.

The woman in the mirror often understands the possiveness of some males and will use " Jealousy" against them when its to their advantage. They know what their doing and can actually manipulate normal situations into situations of " Created jealousy." They know the mans emotional content and fires it up like a flame, which may backfire and burn out of control. And they are skilled in " Putting that flame out" in the time of their choosing. This develops a spirit of competition between the two, a very unhealthy move, but used nonetheless.

The Woman in the mirror can be very dangerous, especially if she is convinced that the man Loves her. A woman of characther would season and support that love, but the Woman in the mirror USES that love to her advantage. She can turn the man against his own family and friends.

And I want to go into that.

Peace.

Mickiel;1346912 wrote: Well as I have said before, if you think I need help or am bananas, why are you reading what I write? Don't bother with it, I don't read what you write, but not because I think rudely of you two, I am just not interested in how you think. The way certain men and women think, is just not interesting. Its bland and dull, and not because of society, but because of their consciousness and how they have " Fed their consciousness." And I will be going into the feeding of our consciousness.

Its of intrest how certain females choose to fight males. Not always able to do so physically, they stage a mental and emotional war and often win. Their emotional skills are underestimated, and they can fire up the emotions of a male in unusual ways.

And I want to go into some of that.

Peace.


I'm pretty sure this indicates you read what they wrote.

flopstock;1346888 wrote: I do a booger check in the bathroom mirror after I brush my teeth and then I start my day. I'll revisit it tomorrow.

As for the car mirror - it's reflecting what it sees out the back window, unless littleone has knocked it askew.

Men are the more vain.


Why are you looking at women while driving, that is not a safe practice.

I'm with Floppy, all I see in my rear view mirror today was snow......

flopstock;1346930 wrote: I'm pretty sure this indicates you read what they wrote.


You sure, other threads have already shown me Mik would rather pontificate what ever nonesense he has the fervor for, rather than read anything anyone else post on here.

flopstock;1346930 wrote: I'm pretty sure this indicates you read what they wrote.


Oh I read what they write in my threads, but I do not read threads that they post themselves.

Peace.

littleCJelkton;1346939 wrote: You sure, other threads have already shown me Mik would rather pontificate what ever nonesense he has the fervor for, rather than read anything anyone else post on here.


I read everything posted on my threads, and I admit that I like to pontificate, but I prefer using the term; Sharing.

Peace.

Mickiel;1346951 wrote: I read everything posted on my threads, and I admit that I like to pontificate, but I prefer using the term; Sharing.

Peace.


Sharing usually has benefit(s) for more that one person. Usually with more that one person agreeing on what it means to "benefit".

Sometimes it's best just to share some stuff with a psychologist.

And I want to go into that.

If you go in to a fun house there are mirrors that make you look all funny. Then there is the house of mirrors that messes with your sense of direction, and there is a horror movie mirrors that has nothing to do with pleasing yourself or others. We should get in to these things.

littleCJelkton;1346961 wrote: Sharing usually has benefit(s) for more that one person. Usually with more that one person agreeing on what it means to "benefit".




At every site I post at, I always receive emails from the members and others who tell me they benefit from it, so I am comforted by that, and inspired by the few hecklers as well. The way many hecklers judge others now-a-days is neanderthal anyway.

Peace.

koan;1346963 wrote: Sometimes it's best just to share some stuff with a psychologist.

And I want to go into that.


I do share with a psychologist weekly, and I am fortunate in that I never have to pay, its free. She happens to be an ex girlfriend.

Peace.

Lurking inside of every woman in the mirror, is a " Lady", waiting for her turn to excert herself. A Lady is a different kind of Woman, she is a girl of characther, of discipline and morals. She is not overly focused on self. She likes the " Old Fashioned ways of respect", both for herself and others. She wants to get out of the mirror and exist.

So there it is, a war of characther verses showcase. Of Morals verses showboating, of meaning and substance verse style and ego. So who will win?

Well the one that the Woman feeds the most. It is said that we all have two dogs inside of us, fighting for dominance; the one who wins is the one we feed the most, that way of being becomes the stronger.

And I want to go into that.

Peace.

Mickiel;1346988 wrote: I do share with a psychologist weekly, and I am fortunate in that I never have to pay, its free. She happens to be an ex girlfriend.

Peace.


Hmm calling women vain, yet you have a psychologist that is an ex girlfriend?

haha

that's rich.

Whatever you notice is a reflection of what you choose to look at. How you see it is a reflection of what your mind is focused on. The mirror is only one of self reflection. If you use it to judge others then you are only showing your own self loathing.

And I want to go into that. But just have better things to do.

Good luck with your therapist who probably can't charge you without being in conflict with ethical standards.

Prohibition of Dating Former Clients

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The sex had to have been either really incredible or terribly boring for a counselor to go that far.

Its truly amazing how certain Atheist are such fault finders, I mean they give the term extraordinary life. No matter what you say, they find fault in it, its as if they need to search for it. Or, its all that they can " See." One puts of a post in a thread, and Atheist swarm on it like Ants, having absolutely nothing positive to say, they pick at the thread with a magnifying glass of fault finding fever.

And I want to use this to further examine the Neanderthal thinking man.

You obviously are the poster of good cheer mick, so brighten the meek gloomy day us atheists, agnostics, and everyone else disagrees with your views(Neanderthals, and vain women).

littleCJelkton;1347167 wrote: You obviously are the poster of good cheer mick, so brighten the meek gloomy day us atheists, agnostics, and everyone else disagrees with your views(Neanderthals, and vain women).






Well I can post things that are of good cheer, positive and uplifting, depending on my mood and the subject matter, I think any of us can do that. And I often do. At times I post things about God, people, human nature or whatever. I just like writing and sharing, and I like to make people think, and think with me.

Peace.

The woman in the mirror, often wants you to get in the mirror with her.

And I want to go into the surprise of that.

Peace.

Mickiel;1347257 wrote: The woman in the mirror, often wants you to get in the mirror with her.

And I want to go into the surprise of that.

Peace.


The Woman in the mirror is deeply into " Her Image", and often she wants her man to be just as deeply into " Her." She wants his praise, his attention, his help, his support, she is pulling him into her mirror, her image. Its a seduction of the male mind;

And I want to look into that side of her mirror.

Peace.

The Woman in the Mirror lives in a world of " Self", where men are concerned;" Its what can you do for me!" She views herself as a prise, and every part of her body is enlisted in advertising this. Nothing is wasted, all is shown. From their feet, to their hands, their toenails and fingernails are painted to please, their ankles, legs, hips, butt, back, breast, arms, neck and everything above the neck. All are used as literal " Weapons of enticement", to trap their prey. Lips and eyes, she is fully equiped to go into battle and capture her prey.

And I want to go into the pathology behind that.

Peace.

I just had a thought, Mickey, are you sure this thread is not about what you see in the mirror, or that non-Neanderthal-feminine-side of yourself? Just asking.

It would really be something to have an outing here on FG. I'd take some of the credit.

Ahso!;1347431 wrote: I just had a thought, Mickey, are you sure this thread is not about what you see in the mirror, or that non-Neanderthal-feminine-side of yourself? Just asking.




Well I don't have a Feminine side of me. I have ways that are soft, caring, sweet and gentle, but even those ways are manly in me. And this is just what I know about myself and what the women in my life tell me. They say I am " All Man", whatever they mean by that. And women can be excellent judges of men, as some of us can be excellent judges of them as well.

And I would certainly like to go into that.

Peace.

judge judy, judge joe brown, judge mills lane

The Woman in the mirror is an excellent judge of what man she can use, after all, they learned that skill from men. She often knows within minutes what she can " Get" from her prey. She is a " Taker", skilled in the " Art of Get!" Get her way, get her desires and get that money! They are not " Pimps", they are more like survival of the fittest, the more fit their lust is, the more they get from men. They become " Fit" by excercising their skill, they know lust goes a long way in men. They are " Playgirls", born out of frustration with " Playboys", they decide that they can do this too.

And I want to go into that.

Peace.

The Neanderthal thinking man created the playgirl woman, there is absolutely no doubt about this in my mind. We stepped on females for so long in human history, they simply got tired of it and are stepping back. They got tired of us using them to lift ourselves up, and they are getting out from under it. And some of them are doing the exact same thing we did to them, and are getting away with it! And some of them are displaying much more skill at it that we did.

And boy, how the Neanderthal thinking man hates that! He used to beat his woman to keep her in line, now he beats her for getting out of line. And when she leaves him, he can go as far as wanting to kill her.

And let me go into that arcane delima.

Peace.

In my view, the Neanderthal Thinking man created " Lesbianism", I pin that on these kind of men. They created it by default, and desperation to escape that fault created this kind of woman. So I want to take a look at another woman in the mirror, Lesbians.

Peace.

Lesbians, the " Other Woman" in the mirror. By now I think most who are reading this post understand That in my view, Lesbians were created by the Neanderthal Thinking man. Well at least " The Original Lesbians", many modern ones are simply that way by their own choice, or by birth, inherited in their genes. Yes, I do believe that male or female sexual drives can be inherited in our genes, much as Alcoholism can be. There are many things beyond human control.

That being said, the Life of a Lesbian is a look at intimacy in a woman, expressed to another woman. A togetherness of tenderness that perhaps evades the rough minded Neanderthal thinking man. A fulfilling of that need for tender affection that is honest and gentle. A bonding of beauty, a listening Love that pays attention. Emotional support for an emotional being. A target of tenderness, a home for communication, arms that are always open and no fear of physical abuse.

If the Neanderthal thinking man could live one week as a woman, one week as a lesbian, he would come out of it a better man.

And I want to explain why I say that.

Peace.

What makes a Lesbian, a true Lesbian? I wish I had one here to answer that, but I will give my own answer.

Peace.

That's such a guy view of lesbians. :wah:

I almost didn't say anything because, ultimately, why bother but it was just too funny to pass up.

If you were right, what makes men gay? lol um... actually forget I asked. Consider it rhetorical.

koan;1348181 wrote: That's such a guy view of lesbians. :wah:

I almost didn't say anything because, ultimately, why bother but it was just too funny to pass up.

If you were right, what makes men gay? lol um... actually forget I asked. Consider it rhetorical.




thats okay, I don't pay much attention to you anyway.

Peace