What is the worst thing you ever said to someone?

LottomagicZ4941 · Post by **LottomagicZ4941** » Tue May 10, 2005 4:50 am

Name calling is so 3rd grade:)

And let us not forget about the concept of projection when people resort to this.

My mom always said to let your words be sweet incase you have to eat them.

On one forum a guy called me Blotto Tragic. At least it was some what of a creative put down:)

The worst thing I ever said to someone was a gal who called a friend of mine a slut.

I replied while your so loose you have to use a fran oil filter as a tampon.

I think I'll start a new thread on this. Forgot about that fine cut down.

Things may have heated up in the garden. I was real excited about winning a trafic pod and got labled a spamer for posting about my win. I don't have any luck with Pay Pal so the only way for me to get a Pod was to win it.

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PS I'm not a spamer. I contribute funny jokes and great rock bands where ever I go. I have been banned just for my screen name on some forums.

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:10 am

you posted links for adverts, which rather surprised me since a while back i told you i did NOT consider you a spammer. as for the worst thing i ever said to anyone, well that would be on my job and unprintable.

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:27 am

Dana71 wrote: Well i don't want to get banned, I just got here. But Im sure you can imagine what I said. But the second worst thing I said to someone is, I told him it al made sense to me why he was divorced, no mystery there. Now I knew this would strike a raw nerve with him because he had such a complex about his divorce. But if someone attacks me I go for the kill. ;)nobody is going to ban you! unless you tell us how to win a free ipod...AGGGHHHH!!! and i know what you mean about going for the kill. with me it's REALLY for the kill.

LottomagicZ4941 · Post by **LottomagicZ4941** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:28 am

I posted about winning a free pod. Yes I included a link.

I have no luck with pay pal so I had to win the pod.

It took me 9 hours to do it.

Can't hold the babie and type but I can hold the babie and click on the trafic exchange.

It was very rude of you to delet the post. I also mentioned how I had wone 10 percent off my groceries for a whole month. I was feeling very lucky until you so rudly deleted my post which was totally legimate.

I was very happy to have wone a pod.

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LottomagicZ4941 · Post by **LottomagicZ4941** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:30 am

And I should clairfy that the pod I wone is a Trafic Pod not an I pod.

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Agnes · Post by **Agnes** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:31 am

people can bring out the words from your mouth. when a person makes me irrate i ask them, do you know "whats wrong with you?" they at least think a momment & then its really a waste of time to deal with some-one who could ruin your day? its not the worst one can say, its the worst person you have to look at. if we said something bad, they most likely deserved it.

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:38 am

This isn't going to turn into another fight thread, is it?

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:40 am

Peg wrote: This isn't going to turn into another fight thread, is it? :eek:nope, i'm gone. but Peg. what do you think about those 2 liitle girls stabbed to death? so horrible!!

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:46 am

Way too many babies dying these days

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Tue May 10, 2005 5:55 am

I wish I could nap before I speak. When I'm mad, I lay there and think "I should've said", etc.

john8pies · Post by **john8pies** » Tue May 10, 2005 6:57 am

The worst thing I`ve ever said is, "No, I can`t save you from drowning...I don`t want to get my clothes wet...." (I`m only joking, of course!!!!)

minks · Post by **minks** » Tue May 10, 2005 7:46 am

I called 3 laywers a bunch of idiots at my mediation over a year ago, I dunno I have to be real angry before I blurt out anything Likely the worst thing I ever said was something very hurtful to my oldest daughter when we had a big ugly fight. Fortunately she has recovered not sure I have. I hate hurtful words and know they are usually spoken way out of context so tend not to use them.

hotsauce · Post by **hotsauce** » Tue May 10, 2005 7:53 am

I asked someone when their baby was due...and they weren't having one. That was very, very bad! Don't ever ask someone when they are due unless they tell you they are having a baby...FIRST!

BTS · Post by **BTS** » Sat May 14, 2005 4:59 am

LottomagicZ4941 wrote: I wone a free pod and I posted such in the membership news area.
KEWL........... I one won over on the anywon site. Has anywone else one won? After I one the won I wone first I lost it cuzz I didn't have enough points to keep it. So I hope too when another won.........

But that is another story I wheel tell you about on my whenners thread I plan to start after I whin....

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Sat May 14, 2005 7:27 am

I've said more than I should have on many occassions. If it's in my head - it's out my mouth. I have learned some self control as I've gotten older - but not much. The worst thing in the last 3 months was to my mother who "borrowed" family pics which were not hers.

anastrophe · Post by **anastrophe** » Sat May 14, 2005 9:58 am

LottomagicZ4941 wrote: Only losers read TOS.i have a real problem with this. if you don't believe the TOS is important enough to read, and don't care about violating it, then i'll happily show you the door.

Some police deserve to be shot. (Out of the 35 or so cops I've met in my life only 2 qualify and I would shoot them with a taze not a bullet. Okay perhaps Officer Adams would get a bullet. Naw only God has a right to take a life. Well one could shoot him in the foot;) I still think that it was rude of you to delete my post. But historically this has been a friendly forum. TOS is fine print that may or may not be enforced.that's correct. your comment above, coming in reaction to ladycop, who we all know is in law enforcement, is really dancing right up at the line of a bannable offense. think 'veiled threats'.

Some forums move spam to a spamar slammer.

I hate pop up adverts. Don't care for spam so I don't send it.

Some people may have been intrested in the trafic exchange.

No one would have had to click on anything. that's all interesting. and irrelevant. if you are morally opposed to reading our Terms Of Service because doing so would make you a 'loser', well, then you've no privilege to complain about, but do have an obligation to go elsewhere where you'll be happy with the policies of the board.

We don't have a 'spammer slammer', we're not going to have a 'spammer slammer'. the whole idea sounds like a lame way for a site to purposely *continue to host* spam while claiming they're against it. sorry, there's no place for spam here. anyone who tries to directly profit from our visitors, without paying for advertising here, will get the boot.

So the rudest thing I have ever said on forum garden is that TOS is for losers. We just reciently had the 60th police officer shot in Denver. Unfortunatly he was not one of the ones that deserved getting shot as far as I know.again, you are juxtaposing comments about our TOS with comments about police officers deserving to be shot. again, this has the very strong stink of veiled threats. on that basis alone, you qualify for banning.

I had the post in an aproprate area. I wone a free pod and I posted such in the membership news area. Perhaps I was a tad over zealous. However network marketing is a big part of my life. When I was grossly under employed I had the hope of building a big downline.i never saw the post myself. if you posted a link to the free ipod thing, sorry, not gonna fly. if you don't like our policies, well, you know where the door is.

Tan · Post by **Tan** » Sat May 14, 2005 10:30 am

I just have to say what a cheap jab that was!

I take offence for LC as well as myself . FG IS a friendly place....

One of these things is not like the others, one of these things just doesn't belong...

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Sat May 14, 2005 2:27 pm

ok back to the point - worst thing you ever said, which i take it is not to intentionally offend anyone at fg

i bumped into a friend from school who i had not seen for 10 years, i had my child in her pushchair and was very much the proud mum, my old school friend was around 7/8 months pregnant & i rubbed her tummy asking just when the baby was due, she replied, im not pregnant just fat

oh how i wished the earth would just open & swallow me up

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sat May 14, 2005 2:37 pm

buttercup wrote: ok back to the point - worst thing you ever said, which i take it is not to intentionally offend anyone at fg

i bumped into a friend from school who i had not seen for 10 years, i had my child in her pushchair and was very much the proud mum, my old school friend was around 7/8 months pregnant & i rubbed her tummy asking just when the baby was due, she replied, im not pregnant just fat

oh how i wished the earth would just open & swallow me up:wah: Done that myself, i'm forever putting my foot in it!

koan · Post by **koan** » Sat May 14, 2005 6:31 pm

worst thing i've ever said was "I do." :wah:

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Sat May 14, 2005 9:55 pm

koan wrote: worst thing i've ever said was "I do." :wah:

I've said it 5 times and I'm still not ready to say die!

BTS · Post by **BTS** » Sun May 15, 2005 8:29 am

koan wrote: worst thing i've ever said was "I do." :wah:
Back home we refer to "I do" as a "Live burial"

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Mon May 16, 2005 6:11 am

This is where the problem started, this is where it should stay. This problem should not be brought to other sites.

twosteaks · Post by **twosteaks** » Tue May 17, 2005 8:04 pm

I once told my mother to F@@@ off, my father was there at the time, he looked at me and i just ran, i had to hide for about two hours until our restaurant was shut he found me in like ten minutes after he shut the restaurant door for the afternoon, i got well beaten that day.

To a stranger, was " i hope your plane crashes", i was triyng to sell them something at the time, they didn't buy! i wonder why!

koan · Post by **koan** » Tue May 17, 2005 9:54 pm

A while ago (like ten years) I had an ex that wouldn't take a hint and I had to tell him. "I don't like you. And it's not because I don't know you. I've been watching you the last few weeks and trying to figure out why you do the things you do and I came to the certain conclusion that I don't like anything about you. Any questions?"

I don't think I'll ever forget it. I've had a couple of similar circumstances right up to recently. It often comes to that. I'm sure I've said worse things...but this one was memorable.

persephone · Post by **persephone** » Wed May 18, 2005 4:39 am

I've recently left a site to avoid saying the worst things... Oh they don't think I've left, they've just disabled my account best I could do as they wouldn't delete me (LC, yes I'm being held against my will, as you commented before).

Anger makes you say things you don't mean and those things can be hurtful... I'm often left holding the phone at arms length so I don't respond to the shouting.

The worse things I have said have often hurt me as well, and maybe the most recent said in anger was 'how do you know I lost it, and didn't have it terminated instead', at that point I had just discovered that I was been fully named and slagged off in an online blog... Just to verify, I had actually miscarried.

koan · Post by **koan** » Wed May 18, 2005 6:20 am

letha wrote: I've recently left a site to avoid saying the worst things... Oh they don't think I've left, they've just disabled my account best I could do as they wouldn't delete me (LC, yes I'm being held against my will, as you commented before).

Anger makes you say things you don't mean and those things can be hurtful... I'm often left holding the phone at arms length so I don't respond to the shouting.

The worse things I have said have often hurt me as well, and maybe the most recent said in anger was 'how do you know I lost it, and didn't have it terminated instead', at that point I had just discovered that I was been fully named and slagged off in an online blog... Just to verify, I had actually miscarried.

Sounds like you've been having a tough time lately. Sorry to hear about your loss. I think people go stir crazy by the end of winter and everyone goes berserk. Spring is here now and hopefully new things start to root.

Wolverine · Post by **Wolverine** » Wed May 18, 2005 7:05 am

I can't remember anytihng specific about something hurtful I might have said to someone.

No, that's not true. It was the most hurtful, the hardest, and most difficult thing to admit to:

I told a wonderful young woman that I was no longer in love with her. That was tough. I planned on spending the rest of my life with her. Right up until that horrid week.

Who's bright idea was it to start this thread anyways??? Thankyou so much for making me relive a rather traumatic peroid in my life. I have a paper cut on my finger, you wanna squeeze lemon on it?

persephone · Post by **persephone** » Thu May 19, 2005 7:12 am

koan wrote: Spring is here now and hopefully new things start to root.I don't want new things to root :yh_ooooo

Do want old roots to get stronger though, or I'll be chopping down the dead wood

Thanks for the thoughts by the way, the loss is old and healed though :-6

Jives · Post by **Jives** » Thu May 19, 2005 7:39 am

the worst thing I've ever said to another human being was when I caught my first wife in bed with another guy back in the early 80's.

I took off her wedding ring and crushed it into a ball, then I threw it at her and told her, "Now it fits your personality instead of your finger...TWISTED!"

lol. She was acting pretty tough right up until that, after that she collapsed.

Oh...and Lottomagic, you are a SPAMBOT! LOL! :wah:

LottomagicZ4941 · Post by **LottomagicZ4941** » Thu Jun 23, 2005 7:17 am

canaan wrote: When someone irritates me I try to nap before I speak. I have found that a nice nap will ease the hostility or make me forget what was said all together. I think it bugs people more when you don't argue with them. So I win either way. :p

This is a great idea.

Catch you later going to try and catch a napy:)

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