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I think that perhaps the reason why online chatting is so popular is because there are so many people in the world who are terribly lonely or unhappy because they have no relationship with their spouse, their parents or family or in fact with any other earthling. Bottom line ... they are not loved.

When you read of young girls & boys texting/sending images of themselves in a state of undress and often completely naked, to online "friends", it begs the question ... why? Why would you send an image of your naked bod to a complete stranger? And it seems as if it isn't too difficult to elicit such a response.

Is it because when you are chatting to a person online they perhaps make you feel wanted, special and above all loved? All of us crave love ... we want to love and be loved.

So isn't online attention aka love, albeit from a total stranger who may or may not be what they say they are, better than no love at all?

I wonder ...

NO!!! Online attention is not love ...it's attention.

And if I sent naked pics of myself to anyone online I'd be arrested ............for inciting heart attacks because of the horror.....oh the horror!!!!!

fuzzywuzzy;1437677 wrote: NO!!! Online attention is not love ...it's attention.

And if I sent naked pics of myself to anyone online I'd be arrested ............for inciting heart attacks because of the horror.....oh the horror!!!!!


You and I know that fuzz ... but kids/ I don't think so.

Hey ... don't sell yourself short

fuzzywuzzy;1437677 wrote: NO!!! Online attention is not love ...it's attention.

And if I sent naked pics of myself to anyone online I'd be arrested ............for inciting heart attacks because of the horror.....oh the horror!!!!!


Hahaha LOL! That's funny, but i'm sure that would not be the case..

they should do what they want to do, and lovely friendships/relationships have started online. but getting "in the nuddy" just sort of screams (free) prostitution to me.

I'd rather be alone then getting "my kit off", then again I don't mind being alone, i quite enjoy it.

Then again i'm having a bit of a "willy" complex this week as my mum asked me to sort through the box of old photo's, and I came across a picture of my dad 35 or 36 years old at the time, naked in the shower! I'm not a prude as i do not lock the toilet door at their house, we talk about vajayjay (lol), bums and weird places my brother got pierced etc over our lunch on thursedays. I mean he sits there and tell me about his toilet habbits, or in this words: I got so ill trying to beat out this brown baby it really made me sweat..

So, eventhough the weird discusting conversations I have with my dad, i wasn;t prepared for this picture. And I wouldn't wish to see anybody elses willy online either. But if it makes some people feel better, then well, it's their body!