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My finace is a hanger-on for a well known motorcycle club. He has been lying to them about his home life. He will not tell them he's getting divorced. He will not tell them he's engaged. His motorcycle club deserves far better from him. They need to trust him and he needs to trust them.

Can someone please help me understand why i cant get him to do the right thing by them? Don't they deserve his complete honesty from him at all times?

Deja vu.........again

Well, a minor point of order needs to be addressed, my dear.

If he is still married to the other person, then he is hardly in a position to be engaged to you.

It is not the motorcycle club that you should be worried about. They have a way of taking care of members who lie to them.

My question to you is:

How do you plan to deal with him being a lying, cheating, two-timing jerk, after he does get his divorce and the promises fealty to you in marriage. (assuming that he ever does that.)

Obviously, you are still lying to yourself about this whole thing.

Ditch him.

Right now i don't care about myself. I care that he's lying to them. And when it does come out i don't want brought into my home around our kids.

Leftinthedust;1510507 wrote: Right now i don't care about myself. I care that he's lying to them. And when it does come out i don't want brought into my home around our kids.


Seriously?

You have kids?

With HIM?