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anewlife wrote: Hi all -



I've been on a couple of dates and they were OK - no sparks - but recently have met my upstairs neighbor and we really have been hitting it off. We run together in the mornings and we have a date set up (dinner and a baseball game) on Saturday - She's younger probably 10 years, but we have the same interest, the same humor etc.



I hate games and want to see her, but also want to give her space (especially since I am 8 feet below her at all times) - How do I do both?


Wow, you don't waste time do you!!!:yh_rotfl



Enjoy your date, and if it all goes well on the night, then ask her that question.



Good Luck!:-6

anewlife wrote: If hate games and want to see her, but also want to give her space (especially since I am 8 feet below her at all times) - How do I do both?
Show her your post. If you truly hate games you will only last long-term with another "non-gamer." Just don't get all mushy and tell her you love her or anything stupid like that. :-4 :-4

Just relax and go with the flow x:-4

i would tread quite carefully since the proximity is so close...what if it did not work or you wanted to bring someone else home? could end up being a real bunny-boiler.

anewlife wrote: Hi all -

I've been on a couple of dates and they were OK - no sparks - but recently have met my upstairs neighbor and we really have been hitting it off. We run together in the mornings and we have a date set up (dinner and a baseball game) on Saturday - She's younger probably 10 years, but we have the same interest, the same humor etc.

I hate games and want to see her, but also want to give her space (especially since I am 8 feet below her at all times) - How do I do both?


Go enjoy the Baseball game! You may grow to love it. Baseball fans tend to have a lot more computing cycles in their brain than Football, Hockey, Basketball fans - so this is a good sign. (Well, errr... unless you are looking for someone who is not sharp.)

anewlife wrote: More -



We are going out on Saturday - but tonight I have open and want to see her - should I call or play it cool and wait for Saturday?:-5
OMG dude! chill. Stress causes pimples!

lady cop wrote: i would tread quite carefully since the proximity is so close...what if it did not work or you wanted to bring someone else home? could end up being a real bunny-boiler.


Oh LC, that's priceless!!



"Bunny-boiler"!! Glad I wasn't trying to eat or drink anything it'd be all

over this here keyboard...



:yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

Go for it.. why wait.. life is to damn short so ask her if she wants to grab a bite to eat.. maybe check out a movie.. worse that she can say is that she is busy or something.. but I bet she will be happy to go out..

greydeadhead wrote: Go for it.. why wait.. life is to damn short so ask her if she wants to grab a bite to eat.. maybe check out a movie.. worse that she can say is that she is busy or something.. but I bet she will be happy to go out..


Hey you don't get to know a person, or get the "feel" of them if you dont' spend time together. If it feels right to get together for a casual outing then do it. Something simple like a stroll, or a bite is a lot less pressure than a formal date. It will give you some indication too as to what she may want. If that fails then state your preference.

well, I hope she doesn't show up with a bunch of pimples.!!!

anewlife wrote: You're funny - I had a client tell me - and I am not kidding - to wash my car in a speedo to attrack the ladies. er, was that attack or attract or a combination? LOL :wah:

speedos are for mincing girlie boys in france btw. :rolleyes:

lady cop wrote: speedos are for mincing girlie boys in france btw. :rolleyes:
Dang! Strike that from my Christmas wish list fast.