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I don't mean to be morbid but has anyone here thought about what song or music they would like played at their funeral. I was talking about this earlier today and decided I would like James Blunt's song Goodbye my Lover. It's a beautiful song and the words are perfect for the way I feel.:-6

Led Zeppelin's "Stairway to Heaven", no question.

BabyRider wrote: Led Zeppelin's "Stairway to Heaven", no question.


Sarah Mclachlan's "I will remember you" and Cold Play's "Yellow"



I will remember you

Will you remember me?

Don’t let your life pass you by

Weep not for the memories

Remember the good times that we had?

I let them slip away from us when things got bad

How clearly I first saw you smilin’ in the sun

Wanna feel your warmth upon me, I wanna be the one

I will remember you

Will you remember me?

Don’t let your life pass you by

Weep not for the memories

I’m so tired but I can’t sleep

Standin’ on the edge of something much too deep

It’s funny how we feel so much but we cannot say a word

We are screaming inside, but we can’t be heard

But I will remember you

Will you remember me?

Don’t let your life pass you by

Weep not for the memories

I’m so afraid to love you, but more afraid to loose

Clinging to a past that doesn’t let me choose

Once there was a darkness, deep and endless night

You gave me everything you had, oh you gave me light

And I will remember you

Will you remember me?

Don’t let your life pass you by

Weep not for the memories

And I will remember you

Will you remember me?

Don’t let your life pass you by

Weep not for the memories

Weep not for the memories

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Look at the stars,

Look how they shine for you,

And everything you do,

Yeah, they were all yellow.

I came along,

I wrote a song for you,

And all the things you do,

And it was called yellow.

So then I took my turn,

Oh what a thing to have done,

And it was all yellow.

Your skin

Oh yeah, your skin and bones,

Turn into something beautiful,

You know, you know I love you so,

You know I love you so.

I swam across,

I jumped across for you,

Oh what a thing to do.

Cos you were all yellow,

I drew a line,

I drew a line for you,

Oh what a thing to do,

And it was all yellow.

Your skin,

Oh yeah your skin and bones,

Turn into something beautiful,

And you know for you,

I’d bleed myself dry for you,

I’d bleed myself dry.

It’s true, look how they shine for you,

Look how they shine for you,

Look how they shine for,

Look how they shine for you,

Look how they shine for you,

Look how they shine.

Look at the stars,

Look how they shine for you,

And all the things that you do.

Reel Around the Sun - Bill Whelan

pina wrote: I don't mean to be morbid but has anyone here thought about what song or music they would like played at their funeral. I was talking about this earlier today and decided I would like James Blunt's song Goodbye my Lover. It's a beautiful song and the words are perfect for the way I feel.:-6


OOps I forgot to add my reasons ahahah doh! Sarah's song for 2 reasons, it is powerful and I want to be remembered mostly by my kids, and secondly because it was played at my very very best friends funeral who died at 32

Coldplay song because that is what I wish my kids would think of me, that I did everything I could for them.

OOOO I feel tears coming on dang it.

Wow Minks.....Could do with some music to go with them words:guitarist

Sadly it's my nieces husbands funeral on Thursday,:-1

and he requested "Glory Glory Man Utd"

He was a massive Manchester United fan.

abbey wrote: Sadly it's my nieces husbands funeral on Thursday,:-1

and he requested "Glory Glory Man Utd"

He was a massive Manchester United fan.


Oh sorry to hear that

Ok we have to stop making this a sad thread, I can't cry at work. sniff sniff.

In the military, retirement is a big deal, especially in the Air Force. I always advocated to my students to let their subordinates plan & execute the retirement ceremony. Like it or not, you will get what you deserve.



I kinda feel the same for a funeral. Hopefully, it will come too suddenly for me to make a goodbye video, so I'd like to leave it to those who will say goodbye to decide the forum & music.

Ripple, as sung by the Grateful Dead

If my words did glow with the gold of sunshine

And my tunes were played on the harp unstrung,

Would you hear my voice come thru the music,

Would you hold it near as it were your own?



It’s a hand-me-down, the thoughts are broken,

Perhaps they’re better left unsung.

I don’t know, don’t really care

Let there be songs to fill the air.



Ripple in still water,

When there is no pebble tossed,

Nor wind to blow.



Reach out your hand if your cup be empty,

If your cup is full may it be again,

Let it be known there is a fountain,

That was not made by the hands of men.



There is a road, no simple highway,

Between the dawn and the dark of night,

And if you go no one may follow,

That path is for your steps alone.



Ripple in still water,

When there is no pebble tossed,

Nor wind to blow.



But if you fall you fall alone,

If you should stand then who’s to guide you?

If I knew the way I would take you home.



La dee da da da, la da da da da, da da da, da da, da da da da da

La da da da, la da da, da da, la da da da, la da, da da.

If you lose an elderly loved one have "Seranaded By Angels" by Kirk Talley sang.

It is the most beautiful song ever for a funeral. We lost my M_I_L in May and I asked that be sang and have had lots of positive comments on it. Some have even called and asked where I got the song so they could use it sometime.

eva cassidy - fields of gold

buttercup wrote: eva cassidy - fields of goldGood choice Buttercup, i wont look in on this again, its too upsetting x

All my songs are burned on a CD already--The poor people at my funeral have to sit and listen...and listen...and listen HA HA-- I have everything from "Theres Holes in Floor of Heaven" To "The Dance"- "Rememebr ME", to "Mothers Child" - My sister has a hold of it...There are even some jokes in the "story of my life" my sister has to read....No I am not morbid :-4 - Just prepared!!



My mom played "These Boots are Made for Walking" in a CATHOLIC church..the preist about DIED! LOL

Not morbid at all. I think it is healthy.



I think I mentioned before I have a brother who is HIV+. He has been since about 1984. It has been a up and down battle but mostly up the last few years.



I thought a few years ago he was not going to make it and I wanted a friend of mine to sing this song at the gravesite....

It always choked me up.



It is by the band "Westllife" (another one hit wonder)



You can dowload midi here:



Westlife - Seasons in the sun

SEASONS IN THE SUN




Goodbye to you my trusted friend
We ve known each other since we

Were nine or ten

Together we ve climbed hills and trees

Learned of love and abc s

Skinned our hearts and

Skinned our knees



Goodbye my friend it s hard to die

When all the birds are singing

In the sky

Now that spring is in the air

Pretty girls are everywhere

Think of me and I ll be there



We had joy we had fun we had

Seasons in the sun

But the hills that we climbed were

Just seasons out of time



Goodbye papa please pray for me

I was the black sheep of the family

You tried to teach me right from wrong

Too much wine and too much song

Wonder how I got along



Goodbye papa it s hard to die

When all the birds are singing in the sky

Now that the spring is in the air

Little children everywhere

When you see them I ll be there



We had joy we had fun we had

Seasons in the sun

But the wine and the songs like the

Seasons have all gone

We had joy we had fun we had

Seasons in the sun

But the wine and the song like

The seasons have all gone



Goodbye michelle my little one

You gave me love and helped

Me find the sun

And every time that I was down

You would always come around

And get my feet back on

The ground



Goodbye michelle it s hard to die

When all the birds are singing in

The sky

Now that the spring is in the air

With the flowers everywhere

I wish that we could both be there



We had joy we had fun we had

Seasons in the sun

But the hills that we climbed were

Just seasons out of time



We had joy we had fun we had

Seasons in the sun

But the wine and the song like the

Seasons have all gone



We had joy we had fun we had

Seasons in the sun

But the wine and the song like the

Seasons have all gone



We had joy we had fun we had

Seasons in the sun

But the wine and the song like the

Seasons have all gone

Seasons in the Sun by Westlife was a cover version, it was originally sung by Terry Jacks in 1974.

IMO the original was and still is the best!:)

Harvest Moon by Neil Young

Bridget I will check that tune out it sounds nice , for me anything on the Bag Pipes would do.

-BROKEN WING-by Martina Mcbride

-my lifes story

No funeral here - cremate me and take my ashes to the river. Then everyone has to go and PARTY.

Black Watch pipers playing amazing grace ...then some jimmy buffett songs at the party! :guitarist :yh_dance :yh_party

I like Lady Cops choice, when they played this at President Reagans funeral it tore me up.

2nd choice

In the arms of an Angel by Sarah McLachlan



Spend all your time waiting for that second chance

For the break that will make it ok

There's always some reason to feel not good enough

And it's hard at the end of the day

I need some distraction oh beautiful release

Memories seep from my veins

They may be empty and weightless and maybe

I'll find some peace tonight

In the arms of an Angel fly away from here

From this dark, cold hotel room, and the endlessness that you fear

You are pulled from the wreckage of your silent reverie

You're in the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here

So tired of the straight line, and everywhere you turn

There's vultures and thieves at your back

The storm keeps on twisting, you keep on building the lies

That you make up for all that you lack

It don't make no difference, escaping one last time

It's easier to believe

In this sweet madness, oh this glorious sadness

That brings me to my knees

In the arms of an Angel far away from here

From this dark, cold hotel room, and the endlessness that you fear

You are pulled from the wreckage of your silent reverie

In the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here

You're in the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here

Me? I'm not going to die........I'm going to live FOREVER!! *in sinister echo kind of voice* MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!:yh_ghost

hum I'e done this before. What did I pick?

I know one was a mog way song about a funeral procession. It is kind of an upbeat song.

Right now I would lean towards. Deep Purple's Waisted Sunsets with the admonation that the only waisted sunset is the one you don't enjoy and tell everyone that today is a day the Lord has made and to be thankfull and rejoice in it.

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valerie wrote: Ripple, as sung by the Grateful Dead

If my words did glow with the gold of sunshine

And my tunes were played on the harp unstrung,

Would you hear my voice come thru the music,

Would you hold it near as it were your own?



It’s a hand-me-down, the thoughts are broken,

Perhaps they’re better left unsung.

I don’t know, don’t really care

Let there be songs to fill the air.



Ripple in still water,

When there is no pebble tossed,

Nor wind to blow.



Reach out your hand if your cup be empty,

If your cup is full may it be again,

Let it be known there is a fountain,

That was not made by the hands of men.



There is a road, no simple highway,

Between the dawn and the dark of night,

And if you go no one may follow,

That path is for your steps alone.



Ripple in still water,

When there is no pebble tossed,

Nor wind to blow.



But if you fall you fall alone,

If you should stand then who’s to guide you?

If I knew the way I would take you home.



La dee da da da, la da da da da, da da da, da da, da da da da da

La da da da, la da da, da da, la da da da, la da, da da.










one of my all time favorites by Jerry and the boys....

and my choice for the beginning of the service...

to close it...

Sam Cooke.. "We're having a party" ... as covered by Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes....

See... it is written in to my will..

after cremation...

Head to local bar..

place my urn on said bar...

then proceed to party till the sun comes up....

mominiowa wrote: All my songs are burned on a CD already--The poor people at my funeral have to sit and listen...and listen...and listen HA HA-- I have everything from "Theres Holes in Floor of Heaven" To "The Dance"- "Rememebr ME", to "Mothers Child" - My sister has a hold of it...There are even some jokes in the "story of my life" my sister has to read....No I am not morbid :-4 - Just prepared!!



My mom played "These Boots are Made for Walking" in a CATHOLIC church..the preist about DIED! LOL


Supplying your own 'custom' Funeral CD....what a brilliant idea. I'm definitely going to have a go.

I don't want people to wear black and be all solemn and sad at my funeral. Just wave me goodbye, remember the fun things and get on with their lives. No memorials just a resting place for my ashes in the countryside...perfect.

Ive actually discussed this with my mom and my husband. I want a celebration of life not a funeral. I want to be cremated (all organs donated) and everyone to have a huge party...and the song I want played....Another one bites the dust....by Queen.

not a song, but a poem, from 'four weddings and a funeral', W.H.Auden..............Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone.

Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,

Silence the pianos and with muffled drum

Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead

Scribbling in the sky the message He is Dead,

Put crêpe bows round the white necks of the public doves,

Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,

My working week and my Sunday rest

My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;

I thought that love would last forever, I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,

Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun.

Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood;

For nothing now can ever come to any good.:yh_flower __________________

........

I've gone a little further than most. I've made many memorial videos for families over the years (I have a TV studio in my home)

So I've put together a video of myself, with pictures from my childhood, and younger life, combined with video clips of myself teaching and playing with my family.

I'm pretty good at it these days if I do say do myself. I left instructions for it to be played at my funeral.

The soundtrack goes:

"The way you look tonight" - Frank Sinatra

"You only get what you give" - The New Radicals

"Amazing Grace" - Female Vocalist Solo

Sorry I'm not having a service, remembence, whatever you want to call it.. I'm dead it's over move on..

Just creamate me and scatter me any where you want. I'm not a big fan of being buried.. I like the Indians methods above ground creamation no frills and let your ashes scatter naturally.

We make to much of death with the ceromonies. Life should be the ceromony, we should be there for people in life, not expect them to show up after our death.. Just never has made a damn bit of sense to me, but thats my opinion..

When I'm gone, If gone if you remember great if you don't great, I was here, now I'm not.. Life was good..!! :-6

If you insist on having a gathering to remember me, do it with bright colors and smiles. Invite whoever got my organs so I can be there in the flesh.



The first song that came to mind was this:



~~~~~~~~~~~~



Those Were the Days

Artist: Mary Hopkin

Peak: #2 Lyrics by:

Year: 1968 Week peaked: 11/2/1968



Once upon a time there was a tavern...

Where we used to raise a glass or two

Remember how we laughed away the hours...

And dreamed of all the great things we would do?

Those were the days my friend

We thought they'd never end

We'd sing and dance forever and a day

We'd live the life we choose

We'd fight and never lose

For we were young and sure to have our way.

La la la la...

Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

Then the busy years went rushing by us

We lost our starry notions on the way

If by chance I'd see you in the tavern

We'd smile at one another and we'd say....

Those were the days my friend

We thought they'd never end

We'd sing and dance forever and a day

We'd live the life we choose

We'd fight and never lose....

For we were young and sure to have our way.

La la la la...

Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

Just tonight I stood before the tavern

Nothing seemed the way it used to be

In the glass I saw a strange reflection

Was that lonely woman really me?

Those were the days my friend

We thought they'd never end...

We'd sing and dance forever and a day

We'd live the life we choose

We'd fight and never lose

For we were young and sure to have our way.

La la la la...

Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

Through the door there came familiar laughter

I saw your face and heard you call my name

Oh my friend were older but no wiser

For in our hearts the dreams are still the same....

Those were the days my friend

We thought they'd never end

We'd sing and dance forever and a day

We'd live the life we choose

We'd fight and never lose

For we were young and sure to have our way.

La la la la...

Those were the days, oh yes those were the days......

SnoozeControl wrote: Has anyone heard of a "green" funeral? I think that's the way I want to go. I don't really care about a memorial service.


I've heard of them, there is a place just south of here that has them, and

it's very cool. Saw video of the people walking around, grasses, flowers,

butterflies, no headstones, no nothing. But WAAAAY cool, to me.



:-6

SnoozeControl wrote: No embalming, no expensive coffin... just your body going back to nature and nourishing the soil.


A friend of mine did that for his Mom. They planted a young tree over the cardboard coffin

This really got me thinking. It's not necessarily about your favourite song is it?.

It needs relevance to the event I suppose - maybe even with some departing message. Or you could take the irreverant option. Either way , capture the personality.

These songs, in my experience, tend to become synonymous with the funeral service from that point on.

Just thought of a few tunes, and became slightly moved at the idea of my kids being upset hearing them. I hadn't ever considered that before.

I guess I'll just let them choose something relevant to them.

All I know is that it will be something by Springsteen

I Can Only Imagine

Midnight Cry

When The Roll Is Called Up Yonder

(It is traditional in my family to play this one, they did for my father who died on the mission field)

pina wrote: I don't mean to be morbid but has anyone here thought about what song or music they would like played at their funeral. I was talking about this earlier today and decided I would like James Blunt's song Goodbye my Lover. It's a beautiful song and the words are perfect for the way I feel.:-6


I will not be having a funeral and have requested in my will that who ever scatters my ashes whistle or hum "Blowin In the Wind"