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How do women feel about pornography ?



Disgusting ?

Has a place ?

Oh yea ?



Is it ok for husbands, boyfriends, one night stands to look at ?



Gimee the lowdown.

I don't feel pornography is all right, I think of it as exploitive. In a personal relationship, I would not want myself or my husband to look at it. I think if you have to look at it, there is something wrong with the relationship.

I will be as gentle as you like AL.

I totally agree with you, porn in the right situation can be very stimulating and add excitement. I also think porn should be made a little different to get more women interested enough to watch. It´s the straight into sex that can turn women off so if they added a little bit more romancing and more of a story line instead of the corny actors and pathetic story lines they do.

I have to aggree with Arnold and Pina, it has it's place - sometimes

Hamster wrote: If porn is so awful how come there are so many women in here looking at this thread??




hehehe You looked!!!



whats your opinion???

Betty Boop wrote: hehehe You looked!!!



whats your opinion???




When she needs an opinion Ill be sure to give her one.

Hamster wrote: I think it can add an extra bit of spice sometimes to an older relationship. If it starts to happen all the time there is a bit of a problem!



It is great fun trying to make a DIY version!:wah:




Thats not your opinion I have something else in mind for you.

Ill be sharing that with you shortly

You're very good at asking other peoples opinions Nomad, but you rarely give yours!!!



So, what is yours on this

Well I can't say that I have not been to the Adult Stores...and I can't say that we don't have some things - I remember finding what I thought was a lacy bra when I was young in my moms draw...I wanted so bad to wear a bra (at the weird age of not needing one but wanting one..:rolleyes: ) anyway - I put this on and went out to the kitchen and explained to mom she didn't need to buy me a bra because I had found one....the look on her eyes when she realized I was wearing her "CROTCHLESS PANTIES" should have been photographed..no one told me this story for years after - but I love to say it in front of my 70 year old mother now! hee hee:wah:

Betty Boop wrote: You're very good at asking other peoples opinions Nomad, but you rarely give yours!!!



So, what is yours on this




This is a poll for women.

Nomad wrote: This is a poll for women.




Arnold gave his opinion, so can you!





WIMP:p

Hamster wrote: LOL!!!!!!



I once did that with my mums er.... battery powered thing!



Her face was something I will never forget!! She should have hidden it better:-1




Bet you hide yours better!!!:D

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that is sexist.

flopstock wrote: I'd have to disagree. Just because you are a voyeur, that doesn't mean that your personal relationship is 'off'. Now, mind you, if he flips the dvd player on everytime you are in the mood, you may have some issues. And the ones exploited in these movies are the guys. They are willing to work for next to nothing.
It's the parameters you set for your relationship, and if my partner would indulge in pornography-then he's not the partner for me.

Thats a good point bunnygirl. A healthy relationship should have parameters discussed and agreed upon.

Yes, it has a place. I think it adds to the experience sometimes. I wouldn't want to use it all the time, but heck yeah, in it's proper place and perspective, it's a blast.

Pornography has been around since the Cave Man. They have found porn on cave walls. Pompeii when it was uncovered, was found to contain much pornographic images on walls. Porn will always exist because people are curious. It all boils down to personal choice, as a participant in porn, or viewing it. It's neither right or wrong.

Devils advocate here...............

So if porn stimulates some...........is viagra in the same boat as porn, if they do the same thing? Increase the urge for sexxx.

flopstock wrote: Which is probably why you are in a stronge marriage and I am not. Personally I find the miss america pageants and their ilk more obscene and exploitive then I do a pornographic movie. At least it's honest about what's happening. And based purely on the fact that there are so many porn sites and adult groups, where almost all the members are male, I think that quite a few wives would be shocked and surprised at what their men were doing online. It's just not discussed.
I agree with you Floppy on the pageants, I never allowed my daughters to do anything like that. And the smart young women they have grown up to be, they never asked to be in one.

It's a choice. I see nothing wrong with someone choosing it. If one has open communication with their partner, what would be wrong with using it...

i'm just going to keep on walking. I saw nothing, i read nothing, i will say nothing.

Wolverine wrote: i'm just going to keep on walking. I saw nothing, i read nothing, i will say nothing.
Good boy!

flopstock wrote: I give ya 10 minutes, maybe 15...:sneaky: :sneaky:


babe, for you? you'll get 2 hours.









the first time

To each his own, as long as no one is being hurt and children aren't involved I haven't a problem. I do feel it is far to prevasive in our society which caused problems and abuse on all levels.

since this was a question for the ladies of the house, i'm sitting in the corner like a good boy. not a word. not a single peep. nada. zip. zilch. zero. nuthin'.

That'll be the day Wolfy....................

I have done a 180 on this subject...sex should be fun, it should be one of the very best things in life. I don't 'do' porn but if a trillion other people use it everyday of their lives I don't care...it's the same as your religious views; shut up about it to me unless I ask.

good luck to those of you who enjoy it but personally.....

id rather have the real thing then sit in front of a telly and watch someone else....

its all fake anyway, the girls arent enjoying it, they are paid to look like they are and the guys.... id rather not watch a guy whos had his *cough* inside god knows how many women......

as for having the real thing and watching it at the same time.... im proud to say mines all so good i wouldnt be able to watch it, my eyes, mind, everything are most definitely all 100% occupied!!

pink princess wrote:

as for having the real thing and watching it at the same time.... im proud to say mines all so good i wouldnt be able to watch it, my eyes, mind, everything are most definitely all 100% occupied!!


Not all of us are as lucky as you Pink!

I'm down with porn. Especially if it'll help me pay for college. *shifty eyes*

lol......why doesnt this surprise me ?

Maybe because you've been subscribing to my "naughty schoolgirl" site since I joined this forum! Shouldn't have signed up with your FG name, tsk tsk.:wah:

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Nuthrday wrote: it's the same as your religious views; shut up about it to me unless I ask.


good one!!

I got attacked by porn pop ups the other day.

What I don't understand is why someone would actually pay for porn when it is so avaliable for free.

On a serious note research studies show that men who see Charlies Angles rate women less attractive then men who watched something else.

This "Charlies Angles" shows that it was an old studie. May have been re-done with "Charmed". I don't know I've been out of college(sp?) for 15 years now.

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PS I've seen one porn and I'm not proud of it.

PPS Have to admit it was kind of humorus.