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First I want to apologize ahead of time if this should be in relationships, and no this is not a joke I am serious. I am 38 and have only dated 2 men.



-My ex-husband

-My fiance

I am 38 and my fiance is 54, my question is How much do guys really want sex when they reach their 50's, cause I hadnt stayed over in two weeks and lets just say I hypervenalated (7 times ) yep!

I'm thinking I cant do that all the time.

Do ya think he just missed me. Or is he just showing his affectionate side alittle late.



-Jasmund

Ps. Accountable and Nomad read with your eyes covered.

Jas, please...PLEASE tell me you're not complaining about your 54 year-old fiance's stamina??? Please?

See? SEE? If a 54 year old can do it, Patrick Stewart most definately can. Love the older man lovin, Jas. That's where it's at!

Oh wait, no, no, no, I was not complaining, just very tired.



Dont worry about me flopstock, I am like the enegizer bunny most of the time, but my guy works 14 hour days, and I'm thinking a trip to the cardiologist is goinga be happening soon.



-Jasmund

-Oh and for what it's worth, older men are beautiful lovers.

If Bullet's still wearing me out in 20 years, I will be one happy camper!!! I think it's awesome, Jas. Any heart worries for him? Does he take care of himself? I wouldn't be concerned, except for the exhaustion part....but what a way to go!!!!! :yh_bigsmi

Who's going to be going to the cardiologist, you or him. I don't think he's going to be able to keep it up if he's working 14 hr days. I think he'll settle down some what if you move in. As far as being 50 yrs, all guys are different, not that I have much experience, I dated one guy for two years that was 48 and he wouldn't have been able to get anywhere near what your saying.

We should have some input form some 50yr old guys and see what they think:-3

orangesox1 wrote:

We should have some input form some 50yr old guys and see what they think:-3
*sigh* I miss DerWulf, he'd have a blast in this thread.... :yh_sigh

LC? Am I right, or what?

JASMUND, Just enjoy, and older men like older women can and do have active sex lives... and enjoy it as much as they did in their youth, if not more..

Well, Jasmund, I'm 52. My entire adult life, I've suffered from the customary fear of inability to perform. It wasn't until I got into my 30's that I even realized that was what was wrong with me, instead of my having some dark, deepseated problem. Not long thereafter, I lost my virginity. But even now this is a problem, though less of one since I had that, "first time."

Even though I wasn't actually active at the time, I was much more, "hot to trot," when I was in my teens, 20's, and 30's than I am now. One reason for this may be medication I now take which has a corrosive effect on my sex drive, and I tend to think it's got a lot to do with old age, too. But make no mistake about this: in spite of what I'm saying here, I'd still give a lot to take a good romp in the hay with somebody!

When I was screwing for the first time, I was thinking it was a pretty nice experience I'd enjoy repeating sometime. But if that doesn't ever happen, I guess I'll just die an almost-virgin...

(By the way, I have no heart problems at all.)

Isnt it called viagra - 7 times a night -a bet he cant keep that going on for ever with out his little blue friends .

Carla-



I liked your post, I find that my guy is very romantic, just a really not rushed individual, that makes a difference.

Pantsonfire-



No viagra here

orangesox1 wrote: Who's going to be going to the cardiologist, you or him. I don't think he's going to be able to keep it up if he's working 14 hr days. I think he'll settle down some what if you move in. As far as being 50 yrs, all guys are different, not that I have much experience, I dated one guy for two years that was 48 and he wouldn't have been able to get anywhere near what your saying.

We should have some input form some 50yr old guys and see what they think:-3


OK over fifty, I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm good once as I ever was!!!

(average 4 to 5 times a week! not too shabby)

cars wrote: OK over fifty, I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm good once as I ever was!!!

(average 4 to 5 times a week! not too shabby)


Good song too ....

Hey Jas, if it's good sex loaded with passion, go for it. Enjoy and don't look back, if one keeps that up the heart only grows stronger.

They say good rousing sex is equivilent to 30 minutes of aerobic exercise.

actionfigurestepho wrote: They say good rousing sex is equivilent to 30 minutes of aerobic exercise.


Well now, that's good, because who "loves" aerobic exercise?

flopstock wrote: The perfect man doesn't need viagra, pants. The perfect man can make a woman 'hyperventilate' using other body parts....heheheh :sneaky:


How true!;)

My husband just turned sixty. He takes his time and we enjoy ourselves.How often? How many days in a year? :yh_wink

jasmund wrote: How much do guys really want sex when they reach their 50's
ALL THE TIME!!!! My husband is 54 and no matter how many hours he puts in at work, he's always ready to go! At that age they are more into satisfying their woman, then visa versa. Enjoy every minute of it Jasmund, you can always recharge your batteries to keep up!

flopstock wrote: Ya know, I believe that is the best kept secret about guys. It's like they turn 50 and suddenly discover how to do 'things'..:p You would think they would advertise it more..


You women keep saying us guys are slow learners, so it takes us years to finally get it right!!! And then, oh man. . . . . . :rolleyes: