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-ok, this might seem superficial to some of you, and others will be glad to share.

consider this cyber slumber party.



-Share questions your to embarassed to ask, etc, beauty tips, cooking, romance etc, kind of like a Dear Abbey .

It will be interesting to hear if girls around the world share the same fears, views etc. I say girls but cronalogically we are women, inside yeah, we are still girls.



-has anyone heard of using preparation H around the eyes to shrink puffiness and help with wrinkles? It works.

-who has tips on making hair color last longer

-I have been engaged for almost 2 years, we are both scared to remarry but agree we dont want anyone else. My son is really ticked with the both of us for dragging this out. We have been together almost 6 years. I am scared to give up my independance, he has had a horrible experience with his last marriage, we talk it out until we both have that warm and fuzzy feeling, but thats as far it goes.



- I have told him ok I am ready, but he still wont set a date.(not a good sign)

-he says he wants the house to be finished completely, did I mention he is doing the inside all himself. Ya, I know.



-give advice please.

-oh, and how can I get across to him that he really needs to clean his house.

I surprised him once, bad choice. He is a pack rat.

and I mean an extreme pack rat.

Im not a girl from around the world Im just a dumb guy from Minnesota but.......

My wife & I waited 8 yrs before we got married. Most of our differences had been sorted through by the time we married. It was the right way for us to go & now life is very pleasurable & we know eachother so well.

Relax, breathe easy, you will both know, it will just hit you one day.



*-oh, and how can I get across to him that he really needs to clean his house.

I surprised him once, bad choice. He is a pack rat.

and I mean an extreme pack rat.*





Tell him. communication communication communication

If this is unacceptable then when your compromising be sure to let him know your willing to give up or change something he doesnt care for like the way you ________?

Nomad



Compromise yes, the key word, but I dont think I am understanding the part about where you said "Change something about me"????



-mawa- I have no flaws.



-Just kidding. We never argue, but sometimes he soooooo pushy to get his way.

If hes pushy to get his way on everything then youve got a problem on your hands. If its one thing important to him then give in if its not harmful but be sure to let him know your willing to trade not be walked on. Its a barter really, I mean your two different people but its a two way street. Is he intimidating ?

I've heard that if you're going to use preparation H for wrinkles, use the gel.

If this is a slumber party, do we sit around a tell spooky ghost stories?

Ooh yes! Let's talk about boys!

Blondes, redheads or brunettes? Eye color? What's your fave?

flopstock wrote: You mean talk about nomad?:D
*yikes*

Get out the candles and turn off the lights now....................

actionfigurestepho wrote: Ooh yes! Let's talk about boys!

Blondes, redheads or brunettes? Eye color? What's your fave?


Dark eyes, dark hair, and your fave Action?

Brown eyes, dark hair and hairy chest (not back)

abbey wrote: Brown eyes, dark hair and hairy chest (not back)


But not too hairy!! :-3

jasmund wrote:

-I have been engaged for almost 2 years, we are both scared to remarry but agree we dont want anyone else. My son is really ticked with the both of us for dragging this out. We have been together almost 6 years. I am scared to give up my independance, he has had a horrible experience with his last marriage, we talk it out until we both have that warm and fuzzy feeling, but thats as far it goes.



- I have told him ok I am ready, but he still wont set a date.(not a good sign)

-he says he wants the house to be finished completely, did I mention he is doing the inside all himself. Ya, I know.



-give advice please.

-oh, and how can I get across to him that he really needs to clean his house.

I surprised him once, bad choice. He is a pack rat.

and I mean an extreme pack rat.




Sounds like you are both comfortable right where you are at in this relationship that's why it hasn't went any further. I think you both have to decide if this is as far as it will go or is it time to move on since no date has been arrived at to marry. Acceptance is a big part of the relationship too. Pack rat or not, that's part of him. Love it ar leave it. Sometimes ya just can't teach an old dog new tricks. :wah:

Nomad- Leave it to you to be the ONLY boy at a all-girl slumber party!!!!!!

ok, yes he knows how I feel about the pack rat thing(YIKES) yes he promised me that our (together ) life will not be like that, I explained that it is disrespect to tell me yes, then not live up to a promise. Yes I have compromised. And yes, honestly I know he has to. Nomad thanks, and the rest of you. He lets me be me, and I let him be him, we dont sweat the small stuff. Thats why we dont argue. He knows that I am very independant, and that I used to work 3 jobs took my son with me to 2 of them and when he helped he would get $20 of his own mula.

I was overdoing it though and am back down to 1 full time job now.

-The preperation H thing works Flopstock, I called another pharmacist that I used to work with and she said "oh yeah baby" Cheaper than Retin-A.



Thanks,

And Nomad come out from under that pink sleeping bag! You really have a thing for pink huh?!!!!!



-Just kidding.

-Jasmund

Crush up an aspirin and put it into a quarter sized squirt of shampoo before you wash your hair. It wil help the color last.

Betty Boop wrote: Dark eyes, dark hair, and your fave Action?
I don't really have a favorite hair color...the Boyfriend is a platinum blonde and he's pretty hot, so no complaints there! I do have a serious weakness for green eyes. Mmm...

Kathy wrote: Crush up an aspirin and put it into a quarter sized squirt of shampoo before you wash your hair. It wil help the color last.
Wow, good advice. My color fades so fast and it drives me insane. Thanks!

Thank you for the aspirin thing, I do go nuts for quickly vanishing hair color, I love my natural hair color and usually no one can tell the difference(I use washout)

except when I let it wash to far out and the gray by my ears show. (Not good)

-As far as kiss and tell, here goes when I was younger I loved dark complection, and dark hear and dark eyes, until I met my ex-. He has white blond hair and green beautiful eyes and tans great. Now hes 3/4 bald and still just as handsome, lately he seems to be trying to get his life in order.

-my life long fiance (I love him sooooo) is dark complected, what hair is left is dark, and girl, we are talking completely covered in hair all over.



-never was attracted to that, I saw his heart and it was looooooovvve after that.

- Oh, but hypathetically speaking,

-Vin diesel's voice

-Sean Connerys looks

-Jasmund

Uh, guys I can spell honestly, just sometimes when I am listening to my music and typing and talking on my cell, I dont re-read my reply. Hair, not hear.

Good girlie thread here hehehehe

Awwww Jas, the time will feel right and you guys will then decide to Marry until then enjoy it.

My kind of guy, dark as well, dark hair, brown eyes, ooooo and facial hair yes, moustache and just a little on the chin things, though I think todays trent of long skinny side burns is sexy whoooo weeee hehehehe

minks wrote: Good girlie thread here hehehehe

Awwww Jas, the time will feel right and you guys will then decide to Marry until then enjoy it.

My kind of guy, dark as well, dark hair, brown eyes, ooooo and facial hair yes, moustache and just a little on the chin things, though I think todays trent of long skinny side burns is sexy whoooo weeee hehehehe


Oh yeah and men if ya got lots of hair don't go shaving your heads, geeze plenty of time ahead to loose the stuff, enjoy it when you got it.

minks wrote: My kind of guy, dark as well, dark hair, brown eyes, ooooo and facial hair yes, moustache and just a little on the chin things, though I think todays trent of long skinny side burns is sexy whoooo weeee hehehehe
Facial hair is sexy! I don't understand women who think guys need to be clean shaven to look nice. Maybe it depends on the guy, but I've always appreciated the beard thing.

actionfigurestepho wrote: Facial hair is sexy! I don't understand women who think guys need to be clean shaven to look nice. Maybe it depends on the guy, but I've always appreciated the beard thing.


I love a tidy moustache hehehehehe

Far Rider wrote: Holy molly... just as I thought all along... Im so dang opposite of sexy it aint even funny.... me thinks hermit time is appropriate!:guitarist :-5
Get out Farlie, this is the girlies nite out thread you ain't spose to be here

actionfigurestepho wrote: Facial hair is sexy! I don't understand women who think guys need to be clean shaven to look nice. Maybe it depends on the guy, but I've always appreciated the beard thing.


It may look nice but beards are PRICKLY...

Bez wrote: It may look nice but beards are PRICKLY...


Only when recently trimmed though!

I think the prickly thing is delightfully manly.

As far as blue eyes goes, Far Rider, maybe we'd be able to appreciate them more if you'd post a picture of yourself : )

Well l like em tall dark and handsome.I also have a real thing for a good head of hair..

Have to say my bf is my perfect guy..even has a lovely six pack..:sneaky:

Not telling you the rest

I like clean shaven, nice and smooth, but l have sensitive skin and l dont like a beard it leaves me with a rash

I like the 5 o'clock shadow thing, when I see that it's nookie time:D



-Cant help myself girls ,just an animal I guess.:-4

-Hey, question, does anyone else think guys sorta have a pms thing going sometimes?

-Wierd feet push me over the edge, for the first few months of sex, I made my fiance wear socks, heres the really wierd thing , "He never asked why" :-3





-Now I just dont look at his feet.

It's a secret I will take to the grave. He has no idea.

That's awesome! Maybe he just assumed you had a sock fetish?