What to say.....

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 10:57 am

This is a really stupid question but it's something that has me stumped.

When I go to work in the morning I say "Good Morning" to all the staff I see. Then when I pass them during the day I say "Hi" or smile but if I pass them several times during the day I'll say "Alright" (which sounds horrible and I don't know why I say it!) or "How are you?" which will either get a frown as if they're thinking 'why is she asking such a dumb question?' or they'll stop you for 5-10 minutes and tell you how they are and all about their current health problems.

Now while I don't mind having a chat at break or lunchtimes, I really don't have the time to stop and listen when I'm supposed to be in class. I know this is a silly question, but what can you say to people as you pass them that's as polite as "Hi" and lets you carry on walking?

Post by **spot** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 11:06 am

Good lord I've met people like you at work. They're terrifying, it's like seeing a Mormon Missionary carrying leaflets in the distance, you sort of wonder if there are other routes if you nip down a side corridor before they reach you.

"A happy and optimistic dolly, Upsy Daisy is confident and demonstrative and loves nothing more than dancing throughout the garden. She and Igglepiggle are best friends, almost like a brother and sister."

In the Night Garden - Characters - Upsy Daisy

Upsy Daisy’s bed has a mind of its own, which she often chases or it chases her!

After the second crossing of paths, accuse whoever it is of stalking you. Say you'll complain to Human Resources that you're being persecuted. The third time, scream loudly and point.

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 11:18 am

Lmao you muppet! :wah:

I used to be really up to date with all the kids programmes, but now that my kids have grown up I find I am only as up to date as Tinky Winky. How sad is that.

However, dancing through the night garden sounds like the sort of thing I would enjoy doing and I am definitely up for that!

I don't know about terrifying. I wish I was! Oh the power one could have if one were truly terrifying!

Sadly, I'm just a muppet too.

I couldn't possibly accuse anyone of stalking! I'm far too nice for that! And too polite! It's a curse! Although it would be nice to have a stalker, especially if they left me flowers and chocolates on a regular basis.

Any other ideas Spotalicious? :-4

Hamster · Post by **Hamster** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 11:31 am

A simple smile might work...no words?

Or try intending that "people only stop me when I have time to talk". Works a treat

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 11:34 am

How about the half wave ?

You know where you just lift your arm halfway up at a person to acknowledge their presence yet it doesnt require any vocal efforts.

Get in and get out with minimal contact.

Or the head nod if lifting your arm just seems overwhelming.

If vocalization is required try a "hey" then keep walking.

Or you could make it standard practice to carry papers with you when you leave your desk then bury your head in them making sure they hear you shuffling the papers as you pass them indicating Im busy.

Another option is find a new route, one that takes you near people less frequently.

Take the stairs instead of the elevator.

If you stop greeting people all together eventually they'll just give up on you. You might be labeled as the lady with a stick up her ass but at least you wont have to endure the miserable greetings anymore.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 12:09 pm

Write "Hi" in magic marker on your forehead, works for me.

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Post by **spot** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 12:17 pm

For second and subsequent meetings shout "Have A Nice Day" aggressively from six feet before they get theirs in.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 12:19 pm

Solution.

Wear an I POD with earphones. Even if its not on.

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 12:27 pm

Just nod your head and say "What up dog"

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 2:28 pm

LMAO at all your fantastic ideas! :wah:

Many thanks and keep 'em coming. :wah:

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 2:29 pm

abbey;1150268 wrote: Write "Hi" in magic marker on your forehead, works for me.

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Hiya Abbey. Fantastic answer and love your kitty. Very cute.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 2:42 pm

Down south. we just smile and say, "hey!":)

Post by **Betty Boop** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 3:15 pm

spot;1150195 wrote: Good lord I've met people like you at work. They're terrifying, it's like seeing a Mormon Missionary carrying leaflets in the distance, you sort of wonder if there are other routes if you nip down a side corridor before they reach you.

"A happy and optimistic dolly, Upsy Daisy is confident and demonstrative and loves nothing more than dancing throughout the garden. She and Igglepiggle are best friends, almost like a brother and sister."

In the Night Garden - Characters - Upsy Daisy

Upsy Daisy’s bed has a mind of its own, which she often chases or it chases her!

After the second crossing of paths, accuse whoever it is of stalking you. Say you'll complain to Human Resources that you're being persecuted. The third time, scream loudly and point.

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl My sides hurt.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 4:35 pm

Nomad;1150212 wrote: How about the half wave ?

You know where you just lift your arm halfway up at a person to acknowledge their presence yet it doesnt require any vocal efforts.

Get in and get out with minimal contact.

Or the head nod if lifting your arm just seems overwhelming.

If vocalization is required try a "hey" then keep walking.

Or you could make it standard practice to carry papers with you when you leave your desk then bury your head in them making sure they hear you shuffling the papers as you pass them indicating Im busy.

Another option is find a new route, one that takes you near people less frequently.

Take the stairs instead of the elevator.

If you stop greeting people all together eventually they'll just give up on you. You might be labeled as the lady with a stick up her ass but at least you wont have to endure the miserable greetings anymore.:yh_rotfl You are just tooooo funny at times. I just ignore everyone.....simple.... I'm a miserable bitch :wah:

Alright? :wah:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 03, 2009 4:36 pm

along-for-the-ride;1150481 wrote: Down south. we just smile and say, "hey!":) But 'hey' up north in britain will get you asked outside for a fight in the carpark.

In Ireland, they'll think your intelligent.

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Mar 04, 2009 7:44 am

YZGI;1150319 wrote: Just nod your head and say "What up dog"

:yh_rotfl or this (it always cracks me up!!!) :yh_rotfl

YouTube - Wazzup - Budweiser original

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Wed Mar 04, 2009 7:47 am

I guess this would work better here

but I usually worked with mostly men so if we were passing each other I'd just put my hand up for a high five.

For women, I dunno...I would just smile or ignore them.

:wah:

cars · Post by **cars** » Wed Mar 04, 2009 8:19 am

I used to say: "Hi again", or "We have to stop meeting like this"! (With a big smile, & just keep on walking)