1000 Marbles

Kindle · Post by **Kindle** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 9:33 am

How do you spend your time? Are you getting joy out of each day?

The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps it’s the quiet solitude that comes with being the first to rise or maybe it’s the unbounded joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first few hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.

A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the basement with a steaming cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other. What began as a typical Saturday morning, turned into one of those lessons that life seems to hand you from time to time.

I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap net. Along the way, I came across an older sounding chap with a tremendous signal and a golden voice. You know the kind. He sounded like he should be in the broadcasting business. He was telling whomever he was talking with something about “a thousand marbles.

I was intrigued and stopped to listen to what he had to say. “Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you’re busy with your job. I’m sure they pay you well but it’s a shame you have to be away from home and your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet. Too bad you missed your daughter’s dance recital.

He continued, “Let me tell you something, Tom, something that has helped me keep a good perspective on my own priorities. And that’s when he began to explain his theory of “a thousand marbles.

“You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live more and some live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five years. “Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3900, which is the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire lifetime. Now stick with me, Tom, I’m getting to the important part.

“It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in any detail he went on, “and by that time I had lived through over twenty-eight hundred Saturdays. I got to thinking that if I lived to be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy.

“So I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I ended up having to visit three toy stores to round-up 1000 marbles. I took them home and put them inside of a large, clear plastic container right here next to my gear. Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it away.

“I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on the really important things in life. There is nothing like watching your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities straight.

“Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign-off with you and take my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last marble out of the container. I figure if I make it until next Saturday, then I have been given a little extra time. And the one thing we can all use is a little more time.

“It was nice to meet you, Tom. I hope you spend more time with your family and I hope to meet you again here on the band. 75 year Old Man, this is D9NZQ, clear and going QRT, good morning!

You could have heard a pin drop on the band when this fellow signed off. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about. I had planned to work on the antenna that morning and then I was going to meet up with a few hams to work on the next club newsletter. Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. “C’mon honey, I’m taking you and the kids to breakfast.

“What brought this on? she asked with a smile. “Oh, nothing special, it’s just been a long time since we spent a Saturday together with the kids. “Hey, can we stop at a toy store while we’re out? I need to buy some marbles.

Joyce Arnold

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 10:00 am

Excellent

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:37 pm

Great philosophy.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:53 pm

Thanks for sharing, Kindle.

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CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:57 pm

Excellent I'm 61 wonder how many Saturday's I have left?? Nomad figure that out for me please. :wah:

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:12 pm

CARLA;1162128 wrote: Excellent I'm 61 wonder how many Saturday's I have left?? Nomad figure that out for me please. :wah:

Lets just say your marbles have concerned us all for some time now.

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:16 pm

Wonderful story... I love my saturday mornings when I can sip my coffee and read my book in bed. Delicious.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:45 pm

Nomad;1162142 wrote: Lets just say your marbles have concerned us all for some time now.

Ooooh Nomad, I fear for you now... :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

woppy71 · Post by **woppy71** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 7:30 pm

I love all that phillosophical stuff, that was a particularly nice piece. Thank you for sharing! :-6

Skylar · Post by **Skylar** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:55 pm

i enjoyed that, thank you. i'm going to send it to some of my family and hope they see how short life is.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 1:00 pm

Thanks for sharing that Kindle....Very thought provoking:-4

cars · Post by **cars** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 5:23 pm

When you're retired, "every day is Saturday"!

;):)