Jade Goody reality tv personality dies

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 1:34 am

love her or loath her She has to be admired, by fighting her disease publicly she has really highlighted the need for earlier smear tests.

She leaves two small boys and a husband of just a few weeks, very sad.

The Press Association: Jade Goody dies after cancer battle

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 1:40 am

So very sad :-4:-4

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 2:39 am

How sad she went today :-1

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 2:45 am

well no one will ever be able to forget her thats for sure:) and she got to have her fabulous wedding, she looked so happy that day,, how wonderful she got to have it,, if she had never appeared on Big Brother,, she would not have been able to have that fab wedding, if she had a wedding at all

She would still have got cancer though and died without anyone except her family knowing.

I think Jade was happy to be in the public eye,, she loved the attention, and im so pleased she got to have some very happy years in her short life. :-6

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 4:08 am

I will not be a hypocrite about Jade now she has died. I couldn't stand the sight of her and i was sick of the whole media circus. I find it ironic that the loathsome mother is now telling the press that the family wants privacy.

Having said that, I did warm to Jade in the last few weeks because there is no doubt that she suffered. She has made young women more aware of screening for cervical cancer, true, but this is also ironic as Jade said herself in many interviews that she had appointments for a smear test but did not bother to turn up.

There is no doubt that Jade was a wonderfull mother and it's cruel that the two lovely boys have been robbed of her and left with the odious mother who went off yesterday as Jade was dying, to get a fake tan at a beauty salon, and the thug Jack Tweed. Even the boys natural father had little interest in the boys before Jade became so ill. This is what makes it doubly tragic. I'm in no doubt that these people will now make their own money in her name after she has gone.

I feel very sorry for her and the boys. Jade had a horrid childhood being beaten by that thing that now calls herself her mother. Anything Jade has achieved, she has done it entirely by herself and her boys will be proud of her.

I am glad she is no longer suffering, she was very brave to the end. God Bless her.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 6:58 am

I know through personal experience that once the patient has slipped into a coma, the doctors will tell you that the end could be in any hour. I find it adhorant that Jades's mother was pictured in the press yesterday only hours before her daughter died, going out to get a fake tan at a beauty salon. She returned and told reporters outside the house, 'I feel better now I'm brown'. Good God.

Mutley · Post by **Mutley** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 8:08 am

I'm glad her suffering is over. I admired the way she publicised the desperate need for women to attend their smear appointments. I know how it feels to be told that you have cervical cancer. I was lucky. Many women, including Jade are not so lucky.

Bless you Jade. I never liked you as a "celebrity" but I admired you for the way you handled your cancer and opened peoples eyes to the problem.

My thought go out to the 2 boys. I hope the media circus will now end.

:-5

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 12:20 pm

oscar;1161387 wrote: I will not be a hypocrite about Jade now she has died. I couldn't stand the sight of her and i was sick of the whole media circus. I find it ironic that the loathsome mother is now telling the press that the family wants privacy.

Having said that, I did warm to Jade in the last few weeks because there is no doubt that she suffered. She has made young women more aware of screening for cervical cancer, true, but this is also ironic as Jade said herself in many interviews that she had appointments for a smear test but did not bother to turn up.

There is no doubt that Jade was a wonderfull mother and it's cruel that the two lovely boys have been robbed of her and left with the odious mother who went off yesterday as Jade was dying, to get a fake tan at a beauty salon, and the thug Jack Tweed. Even the boys natural father had little interest in the boys before Jade became so ill. This is what makes it doubly tragic. I'm in no doubt that these people will now make their own money in her name after she has gone.

I feel very sorry for her and the boys. Jade had a horrid childhood being beaten by that thing that now calls herself her mother. Anything Jade has achieved, she has done it entirely by herself and her boys will be proud of her.

I am glad she is no longer suffering, she was very brave to the end. God Bless her.

Jade asked her mum to go and get the fake tan done and also to get a tooth fixed as she wanted Jackie looking her best for her funeral, she was just carrying out her daughter's last wishes. Jade loves her mum and has forgiven her and she has proved herself to Jade the last few years and been a constant help to her and the boys, thank god they will still at least get their nanna in their lives.

Jade, your have inspired so many with your strength and determination, me included, my last cervical smear was 11 years ago but due to you I went for it last Thursday and I work for Cervical Screening Services and should know better.

R.I.P. babes, I thought you were great:-4

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 1:06 pm

Chezzie;1161635 wrote: Jade asked her mum to go and get the fake tan done and also to get a tooth fixed as she wanted Jackie looking her best for her funeral, she was just carrying out her daughter's last wishes. Jade loves her mum and has forgiven her and she has proved herself to Jade the last few years and been a constant help to her and the boys, thank god they will still at least get their nanna in their lives.

Jade, your have inspired so many with your strength and determination, me included, my last cervical smear was 11 years ago but due to you I went for it last Thursday and I work for Cervical Screening Services and should know better.

R.I.P. babes, I thought you were great:-4 As i said, I won't be a hypocrite. Even if it was jade's wish, to leave her side for a moment to get a fake tan is abhorant and frankly, it shows the mentality of the whole mob when getting your tan and teeth fixed for the camera's in the wake of a young mum dying, is more important than staying with her. What if Jade had slipped away while she was at the beauty salon? Oh it was Jade's last wish so it's Ok. Maybe it is in chav land but not where i come from. Jade did not instigate the campaign for the law to be changed to screening at 20 yrs old. Some-one else started it and Jade merely said she backed it. The praise should go to the people who started the campaigning and who will be carrying on the fight to raise awareness. jade just happened to be in the public eye with an illness that campaigning was already under way for. I read a heartbreaking story in a womans mag last night of a young mum who died at 23 and left a 2 yr old little boy. Her husband had campaighned for earlier screening for a few years. Jade happened to be famous and brought it to the attention of the media. I just don't like to see all the hard work put in by others being put down to just Jade.

Thursday will be interesting. let's see if the judge postpones sentencing for the thug husband out of campassion. I hope not.

Snowfire · Post by **Snowfire** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 1:10 pm

oscar;1161387 wrote: I will not be a hypocrite about Jade now she has died. I couldn't stand the sight of her and i was sick of the whole media circus. I find it ironic that the loathsome mother is now telling the press that the family wants privacy.

Having said that, I did warm to Jade in the last few weeks because there is no doubt that she suffered. She has made young women more aware of screening for cervical cancer, true, but this is also ironic as Jade said herself in many interviews that she had appointments for a smear test but did not bother to turn up.

There is no doubt that Jade was a wonderfull mother and it's cruel that the two lovely boys have been robbed of her and left with the odious mother who went off yesterday as Jade was dying, to get a fake tan at a beauty salon, and the thug Jack Tweed. Even the boys natural father had little interest in the boys before Jade became so ill. This is what makes it doubly tragic. I'm in no doubt that these people will now make their own money in her name after she has gone.

I feel very sorry for her and the boys. Jade had a horrid childhood being beaten by that thing that now calls herself her mother. Anything Jade has achieved, she has done it entirely by herself and her boys will be proud of her.

I am glad she is no longer suffering, she was very brave to the end. God Bless her.

That just about sums up my thoughts exactly

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 1:22 pm

oscar;1161665 wrote: As i said, I won't be a hypocrite. Even if it was jade's wish, to leave her side for a moment to get a fake tan is abhorant and frankly, it shows the mentality of the whole mob when getting your tan and teeth fixed for the camera's in the wake of a young mum dying, is more important than staying with her. What if Jade had slipped away while she was at the beauty salon? Oh it was Jade's last wish so it's Ok. Maybe it is in chav land but not where i come from. Jade did not instigate the campaign for the law to be changed to screening at 20 yrs old. Some-one else started it and Jade merely said she backed it. The praise should go to the people who started the campaigning and who will be carrying on the fight to raise awareness. jade just happened to be in the public eye with an illness that campaigning was already under way for. I read a heartbreaking story in a womans mag last night of a young mum who died at 23 and left a 2 yr old little boy. Her husband had campaighned for earlier screening for a few years. Jade happened to be famous and brought it to the attention of the media. I just don't like to see all the hard work put in by others being put down to just Jade.

Thursday will be interesting. let's see if the judge postpones sentencing for the thug husband out of campassion. I hope not.I feel very sorry for the young mum who died under the same circumstances as Jade but facts are facts, as I stated in my op She highlighted the need for screening,

no-one said she instigated the awareness campaign.

Her dying has done more for the need of early screening, it has brought it to the public eye which imo was what was needed.

She paid a high price for her ignorance and if this saves the lives of a handful of young woman then her death wasn't in vain.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Sun Mar 22, 2009 2:17 pm

abbey;1161678 wrote: I feel very sorry for the young mum who died under the same circumstances as Jade but facts are facts, as I stated in my op She highlighted the need for screening,

no-one said she instigated the awareness campaign.

Her dying has done more for need for early screening, it has brought it to the public eye which imo was what was needed.

She paid a high price for her ignorance and if this saves the lives of a handful of young woman then her death wasn't in vain. Yes, I agree with you. As you say, if her part in it saved a few women then that's a blessing. Call me an old cynic but my disgust at the whole media show is not aimed at Jade, it's the people around her. Even the boys father wouldn't be at her wedding for his sons because he was presenting another reality tv programme. I think she has been used and abused. I don't even buy the 'caring' Max Clifford, 'She's a dear friend' act. He may have come close to her once they realised how ill she was but he was getting his cut the same as anyone else in the beginning.

Now, the press are talking of her having a funeral prosession through the streets. Are they going to use the boys for maximum publicity and sell the pics to 'Hello mag'? I'm sorry but i think it's tacky and cheap. Now Jade has finally got some peace, they should let her have her peace, not parade her through the streets for another buck. Like i said, i'm in no doubt the dreadful people around her will continue to abuse her by making their own money out of her.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 2:51 am

oscar;1161665 wrote: As i said, I won't be a hypocrite. Even if it was jade's wish, to leave her side for a moment to get a fake tan is abhorant and frankly, it shows the mentality of the whole mob when getting your tan and teeth fixed for the camera's in the wake of a young mum dying, is more important than staying with her. What if Jade had slipped away while she was at the beauty salon? Oh it was Jade's last wish so it's Ok. Maybe it is in chav land but not where i come from. Jade did not instigate the campaign for the law to be changed to screening at 20 yrs old. Some-one else started it and Jade merely said she backed it. The praise should go to the people who started the campaigning and who will be carrying on the fight to raise awareness. jade just happened to be in the public eye with an illness that campaigning was already under way for. I read a heartbreaking story in a womans mag last night of a young mum who died at 23 and left a 2 yr old little boy. Her husband had campaighned for earlier screening for a few years. Jade happened to be famous and brought it to the attention of the media. I just don't like to see all the hard work put in by others being put down to just Jade.

Thursday will be interesting. let's see if the judge postpones sentencing for the thug husband out of campassion. I hope not.

you are beginning to remind me of someone

............thats it!!! Mr Meldrew:sneaky::sneaky::p:D

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 3:06 am

I have been thinking about this, and I am certainly sorry for her suffering, and the tragic death of anyone so young, particularly with small kids.

However I think the media exportation and step by step photo account of her demise is yet a new low even for those mindless tabloids.

I was never a fan of her, and never really read any articles about her, but selling the media rights to the documentation of your own death is sick by any standards, I do not care if the intention is to raise money for the kids.

In fact, when one of our national papers recently had her on the front page, I did not buy it and bought the other main paper.

The media are sick feckers, those who use to put her on the front pages as the dumbest person in Britain and mocked her opening, are now the same ones telling us how wonderful she is bla bla bla.

My father died of cancer, and did so slowly, painfully, quietly and with dignity.

This media circus sickens me.

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 7:43 am

mikeinie;1161853 wrote: I have been thinking about this, and I am certainly sorry for her suffering, and the tragic death of anyone so young, particularly with small kids.

However I think the media exportation and step by step photo account of her demise is yet a new low even for those mindless tabloids.

I was never a fan of her, and never really read any articles about her, but selling the media rights to the documentation of your own death is sick by any standards, I do not care if the intention is to raise money for the kids.

In fact, when one of our national papers recently had her on the front page, I did not buy it and bought the other main paper.

The media are sick feckers, those who use to put her on the front pages as the dumbest person in Britain and mocked her opening, are now the same ones telling us how wonderful she is bla bla bla.

My father died of cancer, and did so slowly, painfully, quietly and with dignity.

This media circus sickens me.

:yh_clap:yh_clap

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 7:56 am

May she now rest in peace.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 8:08 am

kazalala;1161850 wrote: you are beginning to remind me of someone

............thats it!!! Mr Meldrew:sneaky::sneaky::p:D :wah::wah: Yep that's me..... Victor Meldrew :wah:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 8:27 am

mikeinie;1161853 wrote: I have been thinking about this, and I am certainly sorry for her suffering, and the tragic death of anyone so young, particularly with small kids.

However I think the media exportation and step by step photo account of her demise is yet a new low even for those mindless tabloids.

I was never a fan of her, and never really read any articles about her, but selling the media rights to the documentation of your own death is sick by any standards, I do not care if the intention is to raise money for the kids.

In fact, when one of our national papers recently had her on the front page, I did not buy it and bought the other main paper.

The media are sick feckers, those who use to put her on the front pages as the dumbest person in Britain and mocked her opening, are now the same ones telling us how wonderful she is bla bla bla.

My father died of cancer, and did so slowly, painfully, quietly and with dignity.

This media circus sickens me. Very well said Mike and I totally agree.

It's difficult to be blunt when a young mum has died. Folk just think your a hard hearted bastard but you have said everything that i feel.

I also got to the point where i stopped buying newspapers because i was sick of the sight of it. I read my papers on line and found i could just skip the crap about her if i wanted to. The Sun newspaper makes me want to vomit. They slagged her off for being a chav and thick for years, riddiculed her over the BB row and now they are 'The Caring paper' leading the tributes for her.

You are right about the press. When i suddenly found myself in The Daily Mail, I had all sorts phoning me wanting an interview. I couldn't anyway because i was subject to sub Judice for months. It actually got so bad that my lawyer appointed me a press agent, a similar version of Clifford who Mr O and myself called 'Mr Sinister'. Anyone wanting to talk to me had to go through him and of course, he wasn't doing it for nothing. Unless you have ever had the mis-fortune to find yourself in that position, you have no idea what the invasion of privicy is like. I know myself that tabloids don't give a monkey's about you personally. You are just another story to sell papers. Equally, i know all too well about the 'Hangers on' who also don't give a monkey's about you and i don't believe for a minute that Jade's hangers on are any different. People change to different animals when publicity and money comes into the equation.

My own humble opinion is that Jade wanted the fame. One thing i found astonishing was when the news that she first had cancer was broken to her, it was being filmed on the Indian BB. I read in newspapers that although they had filmed her reaction to the phone call, they were not willing to air it. It was actually Jade who insisted they showed it on tv. I also think that when she was first diagnosed, she had no idea that she was going to die. Something the Daily Mail also wrote about her. The obnoxious people around her probably thought it was great publicity and Jade would go on to write books and sell herbal tea making the money that she admited she desperately needed because she admited, she was broke and her business was in trouble.

I too have lost family to cancer, none so cruel as my sister who died of breast cancer leaving young children. I remember the dignified and gracefull way she dealt with it and that's what makes me so sick of the way Jade's death has been violated for the press. They are now talking about parading her coffin through the streets. Sorry, but she's no Diana. No doubt we will see the two young boys being paraded walking behind their mothers coffin to sell the pics to 'Hello' magazine.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 9:02 am

Imladris;1161963 wrote: :yh_clap:yh_clap

JAN MOIR: Jade was a unique and very brave girl. But let's not pretend she was a saint | Mail Online

Well said The Daily Mail

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 9:23 am

Jackiey's tears over poem | The Sun |News

Talking of hangers-on. Jordon had a feud with Jade for years. Nice to see her get her face in the paper again coming out in sympathy :rolleyes::rolleyes:

She couldn't just send a message could she? She had to tell the press she had sent a message and conviently drop in the fact that she's selling a range of equestrian gear. That's exactly what i meant about the hangers-on using her. Bloody hypocrites, the lot of them.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:19 pm

oscar;1161989 wrote: JAN MOIR: Jade was a unique and very brave girl. But let's not pretend she was a saint | Mail Online

Well said The Daily Mail

god,,, journalists really are the pits are'nt they:(

Unneccessary.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:46 pm

kazalala;1162091 wrote: god,,, journalists really are the pits are'nt they:(

Unneccessary. If you read the comments section, alot of people agree with her. She is only saying what most Jade hypocrites are frightened to say for fear of being called heartless. I'll go one further and say that young women dying of cervical cancer probably never entered her head until she was diagnosed and yes, that is a horrible thing to say but it is true of many people. My own bro has done alot for breast cancer research but the truth is. he probably would not have thought of doing that before our own sister died of it. That's the harsh truth. Jade did not set up any charities nor fund any to my knowledge until she was diagnosed herself. As the journalist quite rightly points out..... Jade had appointments made for her, but she chose not to attend them. If she had of done, she might be here now and her boys still have a mother. It was her stupidity and arrogance not going for her appointments that led to her demise. She had a choice and she chose to ignore it. At least young women are now learning from her mistake and getting screened.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:51 pm

ARGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:52 pm

oscar;1162110 wrote: If you read the comments section, alot of people agree with her. She is only saying what most Jade hypocrites are frightened to say for fear of being called heartless. I'll go one further and say that young women dying of cervical cancer probably never entered her head until she was diagnosed and yes, that is a horrible thing to say but it is true of many people. My own bro has done alot for breast cancer research but the truth is. he probably would not have thought of doing that before our own sister died of it. That's the harsh truth. Jade did not set up any charities nor fund any to my knowledge until she was diagnosed herself. As the journalist quite rightly points out..... Jade had appointments made for her, but she chose not to attend them. If she had of done, she might be here now and her boys still have a mother. It was her stupidity and arrogance not going for her appointments that led to her demise. She had a choice and she chose to ignore it. At least young women are now learning from her mistake and getting screened.
Still unneccesssary

Her article does not serve a purpose as far as im cncerned other than to air her own personal (and wow surprise) unfavourable opinion. Of course she is only doing her job and helping to sell papers.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:16 pm

kazalala;1162116 wrote: Still unneccesssary

Her article does not serve a purpose as far as im cncerned other than to air her own personal (and wow surprise) unfavourable opinion. Of course she is only doing her job and helping to sell papers. What is more sickening? The Daily Mail for writing the truth throughout this whole media spectacle or the Sun newspaper who trashed her for being thick and a chav, tore her to shreds over the big brother row and now, over the past few months, have made her out to be a saint and lead the tributes? They are typical of many Jade hypocrites. Even Jordon who slated Jade for years turns up to send a message when she's on her deathbed and by the way, tip off the press that she sent a message to The Royal Marsden Hospital for her. Now we have Stephen Fry who i have never seen with Jade before and let's not forget that in an interview she gave to The Sun, she was crying that 'no celebrities' had contacted her when she was diagnosed, turning up to lead the tributes for her.

As i said earlier, my cynicism is not directed at Jade. It's the people around her who now want to put her on some kind of pedestal when she could have saved herself by turning up for her appointments. Maybe she didn't out of naivity and she's paid the price. For that i do feel desperately sorry for her.

No-body in the media or tv would touch Jade with a barge pole after the BB row, now they are lining up to say how wonderful she is and it's that which sickens me the most.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:32 pm

all of it Oscar. Its all Unneccessary. She was a young woman who died at an early age leaving a young family behind, like many other young ladies. Its sad, it does not need pulling apart, we dont need to decide if her or her family should be slagged off or praised.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 2:01 pm

kazalala;1162148 wrote: all of it Oscar. Its all Unneccessary. She was a young woman who died at an early age leaving a young family behind, like many other young ladies. Its sad, it does not need pulling apart, we dont need to decide if her or her family should be slagged off or praised. It would be very simple to leave it at that but we all kow it's not the end. We will have a picture of her coffin on every front page newspaper along with 'Hello' and every other magazine. Critics wh have been polite about the vile mother and thug husband will now tear them to shreds and anaylise every sordid detail. That is the nature of the press not so much the like of us on a forum. As Mr O said on this subject, the boys will never really have privacy in their lives as the press will watch their every moment ready to pick the family apart if they ae seen to be spending any of Jade's money on themselves instead of the boys. It won't end just here. Jade herelf has made sure that the boys will always be scrutinised by the press aftr she is gone. What a horrible legacy to leave them? Being splashed aross tabloids in tears.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 2:13 pm

oscar;1162163 wrote: It would be very simple to leave it at that but we all kow it's not the end. We will have a picture of her coffin on every front page newspaper along with 'Hello' and every other magazine. Critics wh have been polite about the vile mother and thug husband will now tear them to shreds and anaylise every sordid detail. That is the nature of the press not so much the like of us on a forum. As Mr O said on this subject, the boys will never really have privacy in their lives as the press will watch their every moment ready to pick the family apart if they ae seen to be spending any of Jade's money on themselves instead of the boys. It won't end just here. Jade herelf has made sure that the boys will always be scrutinised by the press aftr she is gone. What a horrible legacy to leave them? Being splashed aross tabloids in tears.

For gods sake will you just drop it, the poor girl hasn't even been buried yet. We all now have heard your opinion on it can you just bloody drop it PLEASE!

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 2:17 pm

Chezzie;1162167 wrote: For gods sake will you just drop it, the poor girl hasn't even been buried yet. We all now have heard your opinion on it can you just bloody drop it PLEASE! No problem from me. All i'm saying is if you thinks this thread is bad, just watch the press over the next few months. It's inevitable.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 6:51 pm

Chezzie;1162167 wrote: For gods sake will you just drop it, the poor girl hasn't even been buried yet. We all now have heard your opinion on it can you just bloody drop it PLEASE!

Jade Goody RIP: Funeral to be held on April 4 - mirror.co.uk

Now you hav the funeral date.

I just hope this does not out-shadow the true meaning of April 4th...... the anniversary of MLK's murder.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 2:40 am

oscar;1162163 wrote: It would be very simple to leave it at that but we all kow it's not the end. We will have a picture of her coffin on every front page newspaper along with 'Hello' and every other magazine. Critics wh have been polite about the vile mother and thug husband will now tear them to shreds and anaylise every sordid detail. That is the nature of the press not so much the like of us on a forum. As Mr O said on this subject, the boys will never really have privacy in their lives as the press will watch their every moment ready to pick the family apart if they ae seen to be spending any of Jade's money on themselves instead of the boys. It won't end just here. Jade herelf has made sure that the boys will always be scrutinised by the press aftr she is gone. What a horrible legacy to leave them? Being splashed aross tabloids in tears.

exactly..... the pits:mad: they court them so that they can tear them to shreds for appearing to want attention, they give them attention so that they can slate them for courting the attention,, and SOME people just love it all... its like you love to hate them,,oh nooo all the press attention.. oh nooo look what they doing now??? oh now we know the date of the funeral oh how crass, how terible,, why should we have to see it bla bla bla ,,,,,BECAUSE YOU WANT TO SEE IT!!!.

becasue some people just ;like moaning about stuff:rolleyes:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 11:04 am

kazalala;1162438 wrote: exactly..... the pits:mad: they court them so that they can tear them to shreds for appearing to want attention, they give them attention so that they can slate them for courting the attention,, and SOME people just love it all... its like you love to hate them,,oh nooo all the press attention.. oh nooo look what they doing now??? oh now we know the date of the funeral oh how crass, how terible,, why should we have to see it bla bla bla ,,,,,BECAUSE YOU WANT TO SEE IT!!!.

becasue some people just ;like moaning about stuff:rolleyes: I love a good moan admitedly, of course i do.... I'm British, it's what we do best

However, when some-one is worthy of praise in my eyes, i will lavish it generously. This old crap of 'We better be nice because she's dead'. There are too many hypocrites out there.

I know what media attention is like, maybe not as prolonged or on the grand scale of Jade but i do know that it's something that you do not court lightly. You have to invite them in initially. If you invite them in, you can not turn round when it doesn't suit and say 'I want my privacy'. You say that from the very beginning or you ask for everything you get.

As the Mail pointed out..... Every moment of her last months were covered by the Sun newspaper. Do you think all the hacks were just hanging around a hospital car park in the hope she may turn up one day? They were constantly tipped off and who tipped them off?

I did not buy my husbands paper today as every tacky tabloid except the broadsheets has her kids splashed across the front page. There is one who even has her coffin on the front page fgs.

She has left a legacy for those boys were every moment, every tear will be scrutinised by ruthless Fleet Street hacks and plastered across tabloids for sensationalist reading. The legacy she has left them, she invited in. They can not say to Fleet Street after all this time that they don't want the attention. It just does not work like that. They don't need anyone's permission. She has used them to make money and now they will use her. You can not lay the blame at the feet of Fleet Street that she welcomed in with open arms when it suited her.

As i have said many times, I feel very sorry for her and her boys. Any young mum dying is tragic, I know, my sister died from cancer leaving young children. I am not heartless..... just realistic.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 11:26 am

oscar;1162677 wrote: I love a good moan admitedly, of course i do.... I'm British, it's what we do best

However, when some-one is worthy of praise in my eyes, i will lavish it generously. This old crap of 'We better be nice because she's dead'. There are too many hypocrites out there.

I know what media attention is like, maybe not as prolonged or on the grand scale of Jade but i do know that it's something that you do not court lightly. You have to invite them in initially. If you invite them in, you can not turn round when it doesn't suit and say 'I want my privacy'. You say that from the very beginning or you ask for everything you get.

As the Mail pointed out..... Every moment of her last months were covered by the Sun newspaper. Do you think all the hacks were just hanging around a hospital car park in the hope she may turn up one day? They were constantly tipped off and who tipped them off?

I did not buy my husbands paper today as every tacky tabloid except the broadsheets has her kids splashed across the front page. There is one who even has her coffin on the front page fgs.

She has left a legacy for those boys were every moment, every tear will be scrutinised by ruthless Fleet Street hacks and plastered across tabloids for sensationalist reading. The legacy she has left them, she invited in. They can not say to Fleet Street after all this time that they don't want the attention. It just does not work like that. They don't need anyone's permission. She has used them to make money and now they will use her. You can not lay the blame at the feet of Fleet Street that she welcomed in with open arms when it suited her.

As i have said many times, I feel very sorry for her and her boys. Any young mum dying is tragic, I know, my sister died from cancer leaving young children. I am not heartless..... just realistic.
Im not just being nice cos she is dead ,, im not a hypocrite,,, im just being me ,,, this is the way i am:)

Of course they were tipped off,,, she wanted them there,,, she got what she wanted ,,, im happy she was happy and spent her last days the way she wanted to:)

I still say the ,media is the bloody pits:-5 seems only in England we build people up to stand high on a pedestal..Actors, reality stars, sportsmen... only so we can knock em off there as viciously as possible:mad:

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 11:31 am

kazalala;1162699 wrote: Im not just being nice cos she is dead ,, im not a hypocrite,,, im just being me ,,, this is the way i am:)

Of course they were tipped off,,, she wanted them there,,, she got what she wanted ,,, im happy she was happy and spent her last days the way she wanted to:)

I still say the ,media is the bloody pits:-5 seems only in England we build people up to stand high on a pedestal..Actors, reality stars, sportsmen... only so we can knock em off there as viciously as possible:mad:

They do the same thing here Kaz. The media is just as horrible. Glad I'm not a star, celebrity, etc. Who needs that cr*p?

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 11:48 am

kazalala;1162699 wrote: Im not just being nice cos she is dead ,, im not a hypocrite,,, im just being me ,,, this is the way i am:)

Of course they were tipped off,,, she wanted them there,,, she got what she wanted ,,, im happy she was happy and spent her last days the way she wanted to:)

I still say the ,media is the bloody pits:-5 seems only in England we build people up to stand high on a pedestal..Actors, reality stars, sportsmen... only so we can knock em off there as viciously as possible:mad: No, I know your not being nice just because she's dead..... Your always nice about everyone

I watched BB with Jade and Shilpa shetty and i made up my own mind then about her. Frankly, I was disgusted at her vile behaviour. I was also of the opinion that she sobbed her way through the interview about BB because she was losing everything she had. No tv or newspaper would touch her and that's why she had to go to India to earn money. She gave an interview to the Sun that no celebrities had contacted her when she announced she had cancer. Now, we see the likes of Simon Cowell, Elton John, Stephen fry, Carole Malone, The Beckhams, Jordon the list is endless, queuing up to paint her as the saint. The lot of them make me sick. Where were they when she needed some friends?

Jade may have forgiven her mother publicly for beating the shyte out of her throughout her childhood but i find it an amazing co-incidence that relations between the two only started again when Jade found fame and money. I will never change my mind on that thing.

I not only find it tragic that Jade has died leaving two young children, I find it shamefull the way these 'celebs' are now lining up to get their name in the tabloids.

These people are using her and the press will use her now as well and however nasty the press get, she did invite them in.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:20 pm

well you know what,,, we all have issues with people,, and then forgive them at some point,,, if that point happens to be a life and death situation,, well sometimes thats what it takes to make people realise how silly their issues were in the first place.

I dont care at all who jumps on the bandwagon now ,,, because i aint bothered about them and thats all.

Im not in fact devastated about Jade Goody, she wasnt my freind or relation, but i did quite like her, and i just think its sad that she has had to die so young and leave her boys when she wanted so much to bring them up differently to her. Its just so sad IMO and i dont care about the other stuff, and TBH i dont think many other people care about the other stuff either

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:42 pm

kazalala;1162731 wrote: well you know what,,, we all have issues with people,, and then forgive them at some point,,, if that point happens to be a life and death situation,, well sometimes thats what it takes to make people realise how silly their issues were in the first place.

I dont care at all who jumps on the bandwagon now ,,, because i aint bothered about them and thats all.

Im not in fact devastated about Jade Goody, she wasnt my freind or relation, but i did quite like her, and i just think its sad that she has had to die so young and leave her boys when she wanted so much to bring them up differently to her. Its just so sad IMO and i dont care about the other stuff, and TBH i dont think many other people care about the other stuff either

As i said earlier, I did warm to Jade in the end. I'm still in no doubt that she called the press in because she never believed in the beginning that she'd actually die. It was reported for a long time that the Chemo would save her. In the final weeks, she really did suffer and as much as i loathed the way she treated Shilpa, I couldn't help but warm to her.

I just don't want to find that my cynisism about the people around her is correct. I'd love to be proved wrong as then those two little boys will have privacy in their lives. I have a horrible feeling they won't and the odious mother will be parading them for a long time yet to the press.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Mar 25, 2009 11:03 am

Jade Goody's mum Jackiey Budden visits daughter's body in chapel of rest | The Sun |News

One link of many. Nice to see that she's only been gone 48 hours and the obnoxious mother and new husband are selling details to the papers. I'm not putting the link of of 'Poor' Jack Tweeds interview to the Sun.

Let's see what happens tomorrow when he's setenced.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 4:32 am

kazalala;1162731 wrote: well you know what,,, we all have issues with people,, and then forgive them at some point,,, if that point happens to be a life and death situation,, well sometimes thats what it takes to make people realise how silly their issues were in the first place.

I dont care at all who jumps on the bandwagon now ,,, because i aint bothered about them and thats all.

Im not in fact devastated about Jade Goody, she wasnt my freind or relation, but i did quite like her, and i just think its sad that she has had to die so young and leave her boys when she wanted so much to bring them up differently to her. Its just so sad IMO and i dont care about the other stuff, and TBH i dont think many other people care about the other stuff either

You may not care who jumps on the band wagon but i find this sickening.

Jade's message tattooed on Jack | The Sun |News

She has been gone 36 hours and mother and new husband have predictably given interviews without even waiting until she's buried. This is not the press being the pits. They can not print intimate details of what dress she is being buried in or what tattoo the thug is getting without THEM going to the press. What other intimate secrets of her last hours are they going to churn out in the excuse of 'It's Jade's dying wish'. The dying wishes are becoming one heck of a long list now and I very much doubt that even Jade would want her death certificate shown in full glory in a tabloid. Her sons are going to enjoy looking back on today's edition. (not).

I could post my husbands little boys death certificate on here but then that would be nasty, cheap and tacky...... Just like this mob.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 5:09 am

I have no idea who she was....accept she was to young.

R.I.P.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:43 am

oscar;1163714 wrote: She is a victem Odie and a victem in more ways than her dying at 27 yrs old. She is a victem of this society that fails young people and watch them leave school without two brain cells to rub together. She got herself on a reality tv programme about 5 yrs ago and since then she has been used by tv shows who have nothing more on their minds than ratings. She was beaten by her mother, a self confessed drug and drink addict throughout her childhood and her father, a heroin addict died of an over-dose in the toilet of a take-away shop. She then went back into another same reality tv prog where she opened her mouth a little too far and was accussed by the whole media of being racist. I saw the prog and she was pretty nasty to be fair. She has a new husband who was jailed for a vicious beating on a 15 yr old kid with a golf club. He came out of prison and they married however, as she was dying, he was back in court and found guilty of attacking a taxi driver. He was due to be sentenced tomorrow but the court has given him another month before sentencing. Now she has only been gone 36 hours, not even buried, and either the mother or the thug husband has given a newspaper her death certificate which they have printed. They have all used her and even now she's died they are selling her last moments to the press. Sickening.

thanks Oscar

thing is with reality shows......everything is made up for that person to say..........I hate reality shows.............they are so fake.

poor woman had an unbelievable short life.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:56 am

Odie;1163763 wrote: thanks Oscar

thing is with reality shows......everything is made up for that person to say..........I hate reality shows.............they are so fake.

poor woman had an unbelievable short life.
The funny thing was, when she first became famous, I liked her a great deal, but she seemed to change. I dis-liked her immensly when there was the big tv row with the Indian girl 'Shilpa Shetty' but i did warm to her when she was dying. I just think there are certain things that need to be keep private and her death certificate being given to a newspaper to print is just sick.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 9:16 am

oscar;1163771 wrote: The funny thing was, when she first became famous, I liked her a great deal, but she seemed to change. I dis-liked her immensly when there was the big tv row with the Indian girl 'Shilpa Shetty' but i did warm to her when she was dying. I just think there are certain things that need to be keep private and her death certificate being given to a newspaper to print is just sick.

she probably changed for the realty shows.....no one on those shows appear as who they really are.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 9:37 am

Odie;1163788 wrote: she probably changed for the realty shows.....no one on those shows appear as who they really are. Highly likely yes.

Odie..... I can't keep up with your avie's :wah:

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 9:38 am

oscar;1163813 wrote: Highly likely yes.

Odie..... I can't keep up with your avie's :wah:

no one can!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

She was just acting out a part, that's all.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 9:42 am

Odie;1163814 wrote: no one can!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

She was just acting out a part, that's all. Stop it :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Yes, but it's the way her life and her last days are being sold to the press by the people who profess to care about her most that sickens me. :-5

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Mar 26, 2009 10:42 am

oscar;1163821 wrote: Stop it :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Yes, but it's the way her life and her last days are being sold to the press by the people who profess to care about her most that sickens me. :-5

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

isn't that always the way..........the press should be interviewing the ones that loved her for who she was.

Post by **spot** » Sun Mar 29, 2009 8:42 am

Russell Brand has written an impressive eulogy about Jade on his website.One of the charges often levelled at Jade was that she was just a normal girl with no trade or practiced skills. Well people didn't care and our heroes are not prescribed to us, we have the right to choose them and the people chose Jade. Fame has long been bequeathed by virtue of wealth and birth and this was the first generation where it was democratically distributed by that most lowbrow of modern phenomena - Reality Television. She was a person who, I think due to her class always had the propensity to irk people. When Big Brother 3 made her famous she was vilified in the paper and bullied in the house but through her spirit she won people back round and became a kind of Primark Princess with perfumes and fitness videos and endless media coverage - because people were interested in her. They remain interested. One of my best friends, a woman in her mid twenties is genuinely heartbroken at the death of Jade, herself a Mother from a working Class background she obviously connects with this sad narrative in a way that she doesn't seem to with J-Lo or Jennifer Aniston or Posh Spice most likely because of Jade's authenticity and accessibility.

I was working on a Celebrity Big Brother spin off show when Jade returned to the house and through unschooled social clumsiness blundered into a whooped up race row. As I said at the time, the incident where Shilpa Shetti was poorly treated by a group of young women was not an example of the sickening scourge of racism but simply a daft lack of education. Jade was a tough girl but utterly lacking in the malice upon which true prejudice depends. The slick of spilled newspaper ink and the cathode conveyed H-bomb that followed this innocuous event was the real crime. Jade was made the focus of a debilitating wave of righteous loathing and condemnation, a gleefully indignant storm of trumped up wrath that served the cause of racial harmony not one iota; but that was never it's intention. The intention was sacrifice. Well now Jade Goody is no more. Claimed by cancer, a disease often brought on by extreme stress. When my mother was sick someone unkindly informed me that her illness was my fault, induced by my bad behaviour and for a long time I believed it.

I'm glad that Jade's death has been handled with saccharine mittens by the papers, she lived and died in the glare of their interest and doubtless benefited from it hugely at times. I recall her tearstained face pegged across some rag as she endlessly sought to be forgiven by the media her misconstrued conduct had so incensed and it made me a little angry. She wanted to be accepted, loved, redeemed, and now through her early death, she is. I hope some of the lessons of this modern Fairy Tale are learned, that the people who aspired to be like Jade observe the price she paid. I hope her sons are ok and that on some imperceptible level contrition is felt by the media that gave Jade Goody everything.

For Jade « Russell Brand

linked from http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/entertainment/7969658.stm

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Sun Mar 29, 2009 9:49 am

I like the way Russell Brand talks:)

Post by **spot** » Sun Mar 29, 2009 10:00 am

kazalala;1165598 wrote: I like the way Russell Brand talks:)

It's just a shame he's such a despicable yahoo.