today we laid pat to rest

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:41 am

havent been her over the week end we had my cousin funeral

ive had no sleep for 30 hours we sat up all last night as a mark of respect

pat was 54 god bless sleep well rest in peace

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:45 am

el guapo;1166132 wrote: havent been her over the week end we had my cousin funeral

ive had no sleep for 30 hours we sat up all last night as a mark of respect

pat was 54 god bless sleep well rest in peace I'll be thinking of you my little Hamster.

Wish i could give you a hug. :-4:-4:-4:-4

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:45 am

Ahh, sorry about your Pat. You stayed up for 30 hrs? Jeez, what were you doing...drinking?:rolleyes:

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:46 am

qsducks;1166136 wrote: Ahh, sorry about your Pat. You stayed up for 30 hrs? Jeez, what were you doing...drinking?:rolleyes:

he said it was a mark of respect.

so sorry about Pat.

farmer giles · Post by **farmer giles** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:49 am

you need a jimbo sized man hug

:(

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:53 am

peace brother

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:00 am

qsducks;1166136 wrote: Ahh, sorry about your Pat. You stayed up for 30 hrs? Jeez, what were you doing...drinking?:rolleyes:

no was just sat with the fam talking about pat no booze

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:08 am

el guapo;1166149 wrote: no was just sat with the fam talking about pat no booze
It's good. All the funerals in my family, we have stayed up talking. It's therepy. :-4

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:26 am

Odie;1166138 wrote: he said it was a mark of respect.

so sorry about Pat.

Everytime one of my relly's died, we did the same thing. You stay awake for hours reminiscing about the good old time,etc. and just drink. It is a way of honoring the passing of the relly.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:28 am

oscar;1166156 wrote: It's good. All the funerals in my family, we have stayed up talking. It's therepy. :-4

Yes, Thankyou!:) And it makes you feel good and you can laugh about funny things that affected you while your rellie was alive and things that you did together.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:29 am

qsducks;1166178 wrote: Yes, Thankyou!:) And it makes you feel good and you can laugh about funny things that affected you while your rellie was alive and things that you did together.

Memories are so very precious..be thnakful you have them:-4:-4:-4

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:37 am

kazalala;1166180 wrote: Memories are so very precious..be thnakful you have them:-4:-4:-4

Yes, I agree. When my grandmom passed on they had a huge party that lasted for hours....they even played a video of her and the stories were really cool. I will never forget it. She was born in 1900 and remembered when the Titantic sunk, went to the movies every Saturday for 5 cents and watched them all day. She once told us grandkids that cars were a rare site on the roads back then.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:43 am

qsducks;1166190 wrote: Yes, I agree. When my grandmom passed on they had a huge party that lasted for hours....they even played a video of her and the stories were really cool. I will never forget it. She was born in 1900 and remembered when the Titantic sunk, went to the movies every Saturday for 5 cents and watched them all day. She once told us grandkids that cars were a rare site on the roads back then.

thats cool ... i think that even though you are devastated of losing a loved one,,, if after a while you can think of them and smile ,,, you are so very lucky:)

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:48 am

kazalala;1166199 wrote: thats cool ... i think that even though you are devastated of losing a loved one,,, if after a while you can think of them and smile ,,, you are so very lucky:)

The latest rage over here is to have a Celebration of Life party, which is what everyone has been doing for ages:rolleyes:. I love it! When my other grandma passed it was another huge party. I also remember my dad telling us that when his grandparents passed on (they were Irish), they had a huge bash with big party, etc., story telling, etc. and most of all laughter.:wah:

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:57 am

Huggs Taco.

May Pat be at Peace.

scholle-kid · Post by **scholle-kid** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:19 am

I have always felt that memories are blessings. And I feel blessed to have how ever many I have of each loved one that has passed on.

my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your cousin.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:23 am

scholle-kid;1166242 wrote: I have always felt that memories are blessings. And I feel blessed to have how ever many I have of each loved one that has passed on.

my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your cousin.

Plus it's things you can pass down to your children. The memories, etc. I was telling my kids that cars weren't on the roads back in the 1910's years, that there were no Wawa's or fast food places, etc. Not even tv's, etc.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 12:01 pm

:-4 (((((((Jesse))))))) :-4

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:35 am

:-4 cherish the memories

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:55 am

thanks all was a tough day on here kids 3 all grow tho

she had a white n silver horse draw hurse pulled by 4 white horses

there where white cars

most of the flowers were pale pink n white pats fav colours

pat would have loved the flowers it was i good last trip

sleep well pat

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:27 am

el guapo;1166670 wrote: thanks all was a tough day on here kids 3 all grow tho

she had a white n silver horse draw hurse pulled by 4 white horses

there where white cars

most of the flowers were pale pink n white pats fav colours

pat would have loved the flowers it was i good last trip

sleep well pat

That'll be another memory to cherish - the last journey done in style.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:41 am

Imladris;1166753 wrote: That'll be another memory to cherish - the last journey done in style.

First class is right. sorry about your loss EG.

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:44 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss Jess. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,

Remember the happy times. I hope there were many. :-4:-4:yh_hugs

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 5:22 pm

I am sorry to hear about the passing of your loved one. :-4

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:41 pm

so sorry to hear about the passing of your loved one it is never easy.

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 1:48 am

I am so sorry Jesse:-4