Sex

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:13 am

I have a question for the men on this board, if you mate isnt feeling well,or isnt in the mood, how long (days) will you go before you say something? It seems that is all my boyfriend thinks about, he makes me feel bad if I am not in the mood

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:44 am

princessladedah;1177570 wrote: I have a question for the men on this board, if you mate isnt feeling well,or isnt in the mood, how long (days) will you go before you say something? It seems that is all my boyfriend thinks about, he makes me feel bad if I am not in the mood

Men are horny period!:sneaky:

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:47 am

And crabby:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:48 am

princessladedah;1177599 wrote: And crabby:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

If they don't "get it" then yes, they are crabby:wah:

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:58 am

Yes,they are, however do you become crabby when your mate is ill? Mine could care less if your ill, just fork it over girl

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:59 am

princessladedah;1177614 wrote: Yes,they are, however do you become crabby when your mate is ill? Mine could care less if your ill, just fork it over girl

:rolleyes: yes!

G-man · Post by **G-man** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 4:05 pm

princessladedah;1177570 wrote: I have a question for the men on this board, if you mate isnt feeling well,or isnt in the mood, how long (days) will you go before you say something? It seems that is all my boyfriend thinks about, he makes me feel bad if I am not in the mood

That's pretty much what ALL men think about! :yh_rotfl

Anyway, don't worry about it, you won't feel bad about yourself anymore, after you kick him out.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 4:24 pm

princessladedah;1177570 wrote: I have a question for the men on this board, if you mate isnt feeling well,or isnt in the mood, how long (days) will you go before you say something? It seems that is all my boyfriend thinks about, he makes me feel bad if I am not in the mood

Doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend. Are you his girlfriend or his hoar? What's your role in this relationship? Only you can answer that.

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 4:56 pm

you mean whore, not hoar.

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 6:17 pm

Do you have any other interests other than the status of your current relationship? A fufilling career, an intriguing new interest, or a thrilling hobby, would quickly help to put this situation into perspective for you.

It would rapidly slide into the background if you were fufilled in other areas of life. And that is a good and healthy thing.

laneybug · Post by **laneybug** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 6:41 pm

Oh, girls. :-1

Why do women bash men for wanting to have sex with them??? This seems so counter-productive to me, because let's face it, unless you're asexual, we all enjoy being intimate. It's the best way to connect physically, emotionally, mentally, and.... it's fun!

Men are attracted to us and this is a very good thing. If they weren't, then god, how would they ever put up with such sniveling, moody, irrational (and, yes, insanely beautiful and amazing) women?

The real question here is..... are you ever in the mood? When you shut him down, do you ever come on to him when you are in the mood? A relationship takes maintenance, and part of that maintenance is, yes, to be intimate.

So get on with your sexy self and enjoy!

G-man · Post by **G-man** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:32 pm

Some good points made here... but when a woman isn't in the mood, she isn't in the mood... it's never a good idea for her to have sex when she doesn't feel like it. I suspect there's another reason behind her not "being in the mood", here.

laneybug · Post by **laneybug** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:48 pm

I agree G-man.

I certainly don't like having sex when I'm not in the mood, because then the whole thing seems like a fraud.

But, a relationship, no matter how strong, can certainly be damaged by perpetual not-in-the-mood-ness.

Not saying I agree with a sex-craved boyfriend. I don't. But, we all tend to get more obsessive about having something when it is constantly forbidden. Who knows why.

G-man · Post by **G-man** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:53 pm

laneybug;1178080 wrote: I agree G-man.

I certainly don't like having sex when I'm not in the mood, because then the whole thing seems like a fraud.

But, a relationship, no matter how strong, can certainly be damaged by perpetual not-in-the-mood-ness.

Not saying I agree with a sex-craved boyfriend. I don't. But, we all tend to get more obsessive about having something when it is constantly forbidden. Who knows why.

True. However, I know plenty of husbands in sexless marriages and they still remain and usually because they're gettin' some from somewhere else.

...and I know why! :p

laneybug · Post by **laneybug** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 8:00 pm

G-man;1178084 wrote: True. However, I know plenty of husbands in sexless marriages and they still remain and usually because they're gettin' some from somewhere else.

...and I know why! :p

True that.

As my husband says, "Why do women act as though they're sitting on a gold mine? They're cutting off their nose despite their face!"

farmer giles · Post by **farmer giles** » Tue Apr 21, 2009 12:21 am

laneybug;1178080 wrote: I agree G-man.

I certainly don't like having sex when I'm not in the mood, because then the whole thing seems like a fraud.

But, a relationship, no matter how strong, can certainly be damaged by perpetual not-in-the-mood-ness.

Not saying I agree with a sex-craved boyfriend. I don't. But, we all tend to get more obsessive about having something when it is constantly forbidden. Who knows why.

how come if a lady says no ,we just have to pretend we dont mind but if i'm tired and she wants to get jiggy with it .....i get a two hour whining rant over is there some one else ,dont you fancy me any more ,do you need to see a doctor as there must be something wrong down there etc ...girls just think of how you react when he says no ....its just not nice not to be wanted full stop is it

Bill Sikes · Post by **Bill Sikes** » Tue Apr 21, 2009 6:15 am

Depends on the previous frequency as well as the term of abstinence, I guess... if the previous frequencey was a reasonable average (say twice daily) then one might start to wonder after a few days - however, if "it" was only rather infrequent, a couple of times weekly, then it'd take longer to wonder.

If someone's unwell, it's a different thing altogether.

You can do other things, you know, apart from "full sex" in the accepted meaning. Those sorts of thing might be handy.