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Victoria
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Well really I suppose the person thought they were doing me a favour but it just winds me up.

Theres a woman with a GSD which barks at almost everything I avoid her because Oscar having been bitten by a GSD does not take kindly to one barking madly at him.

I have only ever spoken to her once. I said good morning, her dog barked Oscar barked back she said Oscar was attacking I said get a life.

End of...

Now this morning I was walking and was joined by a woman with her dog she has various training issues and the dog is very bouncy but gets on ok with mine.

We were chatting when the GSD owner came into the park.

The lady I was with said 'oh Im not talking to her anymore she has nothing good to say about anyone and I have to wonder what she says about me when Im not around' then she added 'you should hear the things she says about you, shes told me I shouldnt hang around with you cos you're a right cow'

Flippently I said, 'As if I care, if it keeps her happy good luck to her'

But you know it annoys me not because someone doen't like me thats thier loss but Id rather not be told about it by someone else like that.

I mean whats the point? I cant change anything and it doesnt do me any good to know.

I cant just go and duff her up behind the bike shed..and Im not going to 'be friends' just to placate anyone and fit in.

Im not going to get into the business of slagging someone off just because the dont like me either.

Id just rather the bearer of this news had kept it to herself or left it at the 'I dont like her because shes a gossip' stage.

Bum .. monday morning and Im ranting already!

:mad:
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That's just Oscar's way, she's like it with everyone. So long as you avoid mentioning Gordon Brown things generally stay calm. Perhaps getting it off your chest will have an effect, we'll have to see.
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Victoria;1190449 wrote: Well really I suppose the person thought they were doing me a favour but it just winds me up.

Theres a woman with a GSD which barks at almost everything I avoid her because Oscar having been bitten by a GSD does not take kindly to one barking madly at him.

I have only ever spoken to her once. I said good morning, her dog barked Oscar barked back she said Oscar was attacking I said get a life.

End of...

Now this morning I was walking and was joined by a woman with her dog she has various training issues and the dog is very bouncy but gets on ok with mine.

We were chatting when the GSD owner came into the park.

The lady I was with said 'oh Im not talking to her anymore she has nothing good to say about anyone and I have to wonder what she says about me when Im not around' then she added 'you should hear the things she says about you, shes told me I shouldnt hang around with you cos you're a right cow'

Flippently I said, 'As if I care, if it keeps her happy good luck to her'

But you know it annoys me not because someone doen't like me thats thier loss but Id rather not be told about it by someone else like that.

I mean whats the point? I cant change anything and it doesnt do me any good to know.

I cant just go and duff her up behind the bike shed..and Im not going to 'be friends' just to placate anyone and fit in.

Im not going to get into the business of slagging someone off just because the dont like me either.

Id just rather the bearer of this news had kept it to herself or left it at the 'I dont like her because shes a gossip' stage.

Bum .. monday morning and Im ranting already!

:mad:
why not?:sneaky::yh_rotfl:yh_rotflserioulsy though ,, some people just havent got a good word to say about anyone who knows why:confused: unless you agree with everything they say then they dont like you ,,, people like this usually get found out and end up quite lonely, as the woman you met proves,, she obviously used to talk to her and realised she is just a nasty minded gossip:thinking:




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spot;1190462 wrote: That's just Oscar's way, she's like it with everyone. So long as you avoid mentioning Gordon Brown things generally stay calm. Perhaps getting it off your chest will have an effect, we'll have to see.


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could someone explain what a GSD is please? cause it sounds kind of serious:-2

If you know what I mean .:-3
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fuzzywuzzy;1190605 wrote: could someone explain what a GSD is please? cause it sounds kind of serious:-2

If you know what I mean .:-3


Think its a german shepherd dog fuzz:D




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kazalala;1190616 wrote: Think its a german shepherd dog fuzz:D


Ah. An Alsatian.
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spot;1190462 wrote: That's just Oscar's way, she's like it with everyone. So long as you avoid mentioning Gordon Brown things generally stay calm. Perhaps getting it off your chest will have an effect, we'll have to see.:yh_rotfl



Victoria;1190449 wrote:





Id just rather the bearer of this news had kept it to herself or left it at the 'I dont like her because shes a gossip' stage.

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I hate it when people do this, Let's face it, if she can break a confidence to you then she can do the same to her.
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I am just so thrilled that you have had a good laugh while i've been away.

Nomad.... you missed your chance as i was in another county last night and Peter Lake was alone all night at home.

I must say that when i first glanced at victoria's opening post, i wondered what i had done now :wah:

Victoria........ You just tell people like that 'Excuse me but i think your mistaking me for some-one who actually gives a *uc* :yh_rotfl
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Victoria;1190449 wrote: Well really I suppose the person thought they were doing me a favour but it just winds me up.

Theres a woman with a GSD which barks at almost everything I avoid her because Oscar having been bitten by a GSD does not take kindly to one barking madly at him.

I have only ever spoken to her once. I said good morning, her dog barked Oscar barked back she said Oscar was attacking I said get a life.

End of...

Now this morning I was walking and was joined by a woman with her dog she has various training issues and the dog is very bouncy but gets on ok with mine.

We were chatting when the GSD owner came into the park.

The lady I was with said 'oh Im not talking to her anymore she has nothing good to say about anyone and I have to wonder what she says about me when Im not around' then she added 'you should hear the things she says about you, shes told me I shouldnt hang around with you cos you're a right cow'

Flippently I said, 'As if I care, if it keeps her happy good luck to her'

But you know it annoys me not because someone doen't like me thats thier loss but Id rather not be told about it by someone else like that.

I mean whats the point? I cant change anything and it doesnt do me any good to know.

I cant just go and duff her up behind the bike shed..and Im not going to 'be friends' just to placate anyone and fit in.

Im not going to get into the business of slagging someone off just because the dont like me either.

Id just rather the bearer of this news had kept it to herself or left it at the 'I dont like her because shes a gossip' stage.

Bum .. monday morning and Im ranting already!

:mad:


Forums are usually pretty good places to find examples of this. If person "A" tells person "B" that they don't like you, and person "B" tells you, it is not out of the kindness of their heart, it's because they want to stir sh!t.
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Some people would explode
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