What made you cry last?

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 8:55 am

I'm not usually given to tears but last night saw me spontaniously cry twice.

First the re-run of the film Ghost and later i went out to feed my foxes to be presented for the first time with two new tiny fox cubs by their mum. They had no fear and followed their dad right to my feet. :-4:-4

Post by **Sunshine** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 8:58 am

oscar;1198343 wrote: I'm not usually given to tears but last night saw me spontaniously cry twice.

First the re-run of the film Ghost and later i went out to feed my foxes to be presented for the first time with two new tiny fox cubs by their mum. They had no fear and followed their dad right to my feet. :-4:-4

I cry when I watch that film too. Every time as I have seen it more times than I have fingers.

Awwwwwww, two babies. :-4 Is it possible for you to touch any of your foxes or is that considered an invasion of space for them?

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 10:41 am

Sunshine;1198344 wrote: I cry when I watch that film too. Every time as I have seen it more times than I have fingers.

Awwwwwww, two babies. :-4 Is it possible for you to touch any of your foxes or is that considered an invasion of space for them? Mr O watched Ghost with me for the first time last night and i've been rumbled. He now knows why i say 'Ditto' :wah:

I have a large pack of foxes come very night and there is around 15 of them. The pack leader is there every night with his Mrs but the others come and go. I havent seen Mrs for a while and the pack leader was running off with food lately rather than eat it in front of me so i guessed there were babies. Foxes by nature are extremely timid so i am honoured that she trusted me to bring them out. I guess they are only approx 8 weeks old. :-4

The pack leader over the years has become very tame and i'm in no doubt that i could pet him if i wanted to. It's something i have never done as i respect that they are wild animals and need to keep their instincts. My dogs can even be going hell for leather at them and they will just sit there taking no notice, I always put their food on the ground and have never hand fed unless they are injured badly and need help. When i'm out there, many of them will come very close and scratch, yawn, play and even curl up outside the door waiting which tells me they trust me. :-6:-6

Post by **Betty Boop** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 10:48 am

I saw bits of Ghost off and on last night too, it didn't reduce me to tears last night though, it used to

:wah:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 10:53 am

Betty Boop;1198395 wrote: I saw bits of Ghost off and on last night too, it didn't reduce me to tears last night though, it used to

:wah: Whoopi Goldberg was just fabulous in that film.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 10:59 am

bout ten minutes ago ,, the beachy head family:-1

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:22 am

kazalala;1198414 wrote: bout ten minutes ago ,, the beachy head family:-1 How sad that was. They must have been so grief stricken. How awful as well for the police to find that little body in the rucksack. I think what upset me most was that they had put his toys in there as well :-1

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:25 am

oscar;1198436 wrote: How sad that was. They must have been so grief stricken. How awful as well for the police to find that little body in the rucksack. I think what upset me most was that they had put his toys in there as well :-1

they showed them on telly ,,, he was so cute,, and the family together looked so happy,,, they doted on him:( they must have been in total despair

-1:-1

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:29 am

kazalala;1198437 wrote: they showed them on telly ,,, he was so cute,, and the family together looked so happy,,, they doted on him:( they must have been in total despair

-1:-1 I can't help but think also..... what a horrible way to die. I grew up in Sussex and Beachy head is an infamous suicide spot. There has been many over the years. Their thoughts must have been all over the place. At least the child got to die at home peacefully.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:32 am

oscar;1198443 wrote: I can't help but think also..... what a horrible way to die. I grew up in Sussex and Beachy head is an infamous suicide spot. There has been many over the years. Their thoughts must have been all over the place. At least the child got to die at home peacefully.

god yes ,,, its so ,,, violent

and to do that i think they must feel i dunno just so desperate ,,, hopeless.. its beyond words really:(

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:35 am

kazalala;1198448 wrote: god yes ,,, its so ,,, violent

and to do that i think they must feel i dunno just so desperate ,,, hopeless.. its beyond words really:(
I have stood on the edge of those cliffs many times and my god, i could not jump.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:36 am

oscar;1198452 wrote: I have stood on the edge of those cliffs many times and my god, i could not jump.

I just cant comprehend it

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 12:18 pm

Chopped onions:-1

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 2:12 pm

What made you cry last?

About 10 minutes ago actually when I realised yet again I had been wrong about someone who I thought was a friend....will I ever learn fgs.

I also need to add at this point that this was a friend in the RW who let me down me down badly.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 2:14 pm

Carolly;1198571 wrote: What made you cry last?

About 10 minutes ago actually when I realised yet again I had been wrong about someone who I thought was a friend....will I ever learn fgs.I also need to add at this point that this was a friend in the RW that let me down badly. Some people are not worthy of tears posh woman. Don't let them get to you.......... you are a lovely lady and deserve better :-4

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 2:30 pm

oscar;1198577 wrote: Some people are not worthy of tears posh woman. Don't let them get to you.......... you are a lovely lady and deserve better :-4Yes Oscar I do deserve better as many of us do at times but theres always those waiting in the wings ready to pounce and make you once again give up trusting people.....I wish I could be like others I see around me with their hard manner and hard skin to match and dont give a toss in hurting peoples feelings but the truth is at times im just to soft and I have only myself to blame in letting my feelings for some take over my common sense.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 2:41 pm

Carolly;1198585 wrote: Yes Oscar I do deserve better as many of us do at times but theres always those waiting in the wings ready to pounce and make you once again give up trusting people.....I wish I could be like others I see around me with their hard manner and hard skin to match and dont give a toss in hurting peoples feelings but the truth is at times im just to soft and I have only myself to blame in letting my feelings for some take over my common sense. People come and go in life Carolly...... some leave pleasent memories others leave a nasty pong. Get your air freshner out and spray that person away. Tomorrow is a new day full of wonderful people you have yet to meet. :-6:-6

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 2:43 pm

Thinking about it....... i suppose i did shed some tears when my nephew told me the truth in prison of what he did that night. I knew then that i had to turn my back on him. I have strong beliefs and standards and i'd be a hypocrite to change those to suit now.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 2:53 pm

oscar;1198591 wrote: People come and go in life Carolly...... some leave pleasent memories others leave a nasty pong. Get your air freshner out and spray that person away. Tomorrow is a new day full of wonderful people you have yet to meet. :-6:-6Very true Oscar....very true.

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 2:54 pm

kazalala;1198414 wrote: bout ten minutes ago ,, the beachy head family:-1

So very sad, stirs up a lot of emotions for me.

You just never know when or who you will lose loved ones to suicide

-1

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue Jun 02, 2009 8:54 pm

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 4:45 am

Nomad;1198753 wrote: You. Was that a typing error? Should that have been 'yew'? Only they can make you cry if one falls on you.

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 6:02 am

Reading a very comforting post to me from a lovely person on FG, the other day. That person will know who I mean :-4

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 6:22 am

G#Gill;1198852 wrote: Reading a very comforting post to me from a lovely person on FG, the other day. That person will know who I mean :-4 It's lovely isn't it Gill? I had one two days ago from a person who will know who she is, and she picked up my vibes and knew something was wrong with me. That meant a lot to me.

Are you looking forward to the election results tomorrow? :sneaky:

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 6:38 am

oscar;1198874 wrote: It's lovely isn't it Gill? I had one two days ago from a person who will know who she is, and she picked up my vibes and knew something was wrong with me. That meant a lot to me.

Are you looking forward to the election results tomorrow? :sneaky:

It will be very interesting ! I was offered to attend the count in our constituency, but having been to one before, many years ago, I declined (couldn't survive hours without me fags !:yh_rotfl). Also once you're in the hall, you're there for the duration, unless you need to leave for any reason - then you ain't let back in !! I can of course understand the reasons for that :sneaky:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 6:42 am

G#Gill;1198888 wrote: It will be very interesting ! I was offered to attend the count in our constituency, but having been to one before, many years ago, I declined (couldn't survive hours without me fags !:yh_rotfl). Also once you're in the hall, you're there for the duration, unless you need to leave for any reason - then you ain't let back in !! I can of course understand the reasons for that :sneaky:
No, i can't go that long without me fags either :wah: I'm not going to the count this time but i shall listen with glee to the results on the radio or TV. :sneaky:

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 9:59 am

Last Thursday landing on my bum & wrist while mopping the living room floor...didn't realize that after everytime I was washing out the mop in the sink I was leaving a little puddle on the kitchen floor...wow it did hurt:-5

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:33 am

qsducks;1199070 wrote: Last Thursday landing on my bum & wrist while mopping the living room floor...didn't realize that after everytime I was washing out the mop in the sink I was leaving a little puddle on the kitchen floor...wow it did hurt:-5
I know the feeling...... a couple of weeks ago i was trying to prove to the Turkish guys in the take-away that at my age, i could still get a leg over my shoulder. I brought my leg up and bashed my knee under the metal sink counter. They fell about laughing and i was in serious pain. Two days later, i had a lovely bruise for my troubles :wah:

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:36 am

oscar;1199092 wrote: I know the feeling...... a couple of weeks ago i was trying to prove to the Turkish guys in the take-away that at my age, i could still get a leg over my shoulder. I brought my leg up and bashed my knee under the metal sink counter. They fell about laughing and i was in serious pain. Two days later, i had a lovely bruise for my troubles :wah:

My grandad could get both of his legs over his shoulders at a very old age:D

Omni_Skittles · Post by **Omni_Skittles** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 11:06 am

a commercial... lol i'm just very emotional lately okay!!!

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 11:48 am

Omni_Skittles;1199119 wrote: a commercial... lol i'm just very emotional lately okay!!!

commercials can make you cry.

((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 2:35 pm

Omni_Skittles;1199119 wrote: a commercial... lol i'm just very emotional lately okay!!! Great to see you back OS....... how's UNI going?

Post by **Sunshine** » Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:19 pm

A song on the radio that brought back some wonderful memories of days gone by. :-4

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 4:07 am

Odie;1199153 wrote: commercials can make you cry.

((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))

This used to get me choked up. It really is the real thing.

YouTube - Coke Coca Cola Original I'd Like To Teach The World To Sing

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 5:40 am

I've been ignoring this thread but decided to respond. When I learned my X wife had to have surgery for breast cancer then suffered a stroke shortly after, I come unwrapped. Normally I'm not an emotional guy.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 5:41 am

Nomad;1199468 wrote: This used to get me choked up. It really is the real thing.

YouTube - Coke Coca Cola Original I'd Like To Teach The World To Sing That used to meke me cry........ it was so bleedin horrible. (Sorry)

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 5:42 am

hoppy;1199506 wrote: I've been ignoring this thread but decided to respond. When I learned my X wife had to have surgery for breast cancer then suffered a stroke shortly after, I come unwrapped. Normally I'm not an emotional guy. So sorry Hoppy....... :-4

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 6:09 am

hoppy;1199506 wrote: I've been ignoring this thread but decided to respond. When I learned my X wife had to have surgery for breast cancer then suffered a stroke shortly after, I come unwrapped. Normally I'm not an emotional guy.

I've ignored the thread also, as many times are personal.

I'm sorry for your wife and how you must have felt.:-4

ZAP · Post by **ZAP** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 7:57 am

Yesterday I went to visit a friend whom I hadn't seen since before an accident 3 weeks ago, that killed the husband of her granddaughter and 2 little great-grandsons. They were going fishing, early on a Saturday morning when a truck hit them. It left behind my friend's granddaughter, ( his wife) and a small daughter and an entire extended family torn apart.

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 8:47 am

Zapata;1199558 wrote: Yesterday I went to visit a friend whom I hadn't seen since before an accident 3 weeks ago, that killed the husband of her granddaughter and 2 little great-grandsons. They were going fishing, early on a Saturday morning when a truck hit them. It left behind my friend's granddaughter, ( his wife) and a small daughter and an entire extended family torn apart.

That's really sad. I always worry about one of my sons, who is on the road a lot for a painting contractor. He already demolished one of their trucks in an accident that was not his fault. Another time, going home for the weekend, he came over the top of a hill at night and center punched a big black cow standing in the middle of a two lane blacktop. Truck-badly damaged. Son- bruised. Cow- dead.