please tell me what to do!

Fibonacci · Post by **Fibonacci** » Sun Jul 26, 2009 11:14 pm

ok heres the deal.

i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.

T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.

R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.

heres the problem.

Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.

i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!

help me!

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:11 am

What do you want help with exactly?

Deciding which girl to date? Sounds to me reading between the lines that you prefer 'T' so date 'T'

Problem solved, next.

OpenMind · Post by **OpenMind** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:46 am

You don't remember being kissed by the little sister of the bar owner. That says it all.

You remember T's kiss though.

Bill Sikes · Post by **Bill Sikes** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 3:03 am

Drunken kisses with R aren't definitive, unless they mean that your relationship with T isn't meaningful. Doesn't sound as though either relationship has progressed far. Now's the time to make up your mind.

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:33 am

Hi,

Have fun because it all ends up like this:

YouTube - Chris Rock- Married Life

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:37 am

Pursue your relationship with T. :-6

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:44 am

Fibonacci;1221755 wrote: ok heres the deal.

i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.

T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.

R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.

heres the problem.

Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.

i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!

help me!

Are you complaining or bragging? Maybe you just need a cold shower.:-5

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 5:50 am

:wah:

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 6:48 am

Fibonacci;1221755 wrote: ok heres the deal.

i'm caught up between two girls. lets call them T and R.

T was a waitress at a bar i hang out at. i asked her out and she said yes. weve gone out a few times, and i feel like things are starting to develop. i like her.

R is the little sister of the owner of the bar. we were just friends until about 3 weeks ago. i got out of control at the bar and drank a little too much. she offered to drive me home. i accepted. Now, according to her older sister, the bars owner, we kissed that night. i honestly don't remember.

heres the problem.

Last wednesday T started working at another bar and i went to hang out with her. when i let her know i'm leaving, she kisses me.

i've never been so confused in my life. I can't focus on anything. work, pool, NOTHING!

help me!

Give up drinking. :wah:

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 6:53 am

Find another bar to hang out in.

Relationships based on booze never work give it some thought.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:30 pm

The age-old question.............

YouTube - The Lovin' Spoonful---Did You Ever Have To Make Up Your Mind

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:19 pm

Ummm................ Stay out of Bars?

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 8:21 pm

mikeinie;1221779 wrote: Hi,

Have fun because it all ends up like this:

YouTube - Chris Rock- Married Life

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 8:59 pm

Sounds like the two girls are competing

Remember - " T" you asked out .....

"R" took advantage of you - I'd say something she initiated.

Only see the one you enjoy spending time with.

the fun one - the one who has fun without having to be drunk.

good luck

Patsy

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Jul 27, 2009 10:45 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1222108 wrote: Ummm................ Stay out of Bars?

Hes gettin hooked up. If it aint broke dont fix it.

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue Jul 28, 2009 3:48 am

For goodness sake...you're young, have fun, play the field...just don't let them find out about each other! :wah::wah::wah:

nok · Post by **nok** » Sun Oct 04, 2009 5:13 am

Sounds like you're more interested in "T" so continue dating her.

As for "R', you were drunk at the time of the kiss and you don't remember it, so it's not a real relationship. Do you like "R" ? If so, there's nothing wrong with dating her, so long as you're not serious about "T" yet.

Go with your heart.