The quality of life

[binbag]

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Despite several health issues, I've discovered that, all things considered, the quality of life for me has increased as I get older, my wife feels exactly the same.



Whatever your age, I was wondering if you had thought about such a thing before, and if so, what does the quality of life, as you understand it, mean to you as you grow older?



bb just a teenager nearly 66.

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[Snowfire]

Quality of life is very important to me and something I think of more as I get older. Now I'm in my mid 50's - yeah I know I barely look forty - I refuse to have any stress in my life if I can possibly help it. I refuse to work at the weekend, they are very special to me, its when I spend my time with my kids and grandkids. I've stopped chasing a pound note and If I could afford it - which I most certainly cant - I would love to give up work and get under my wife's feet full time.

I've seen too many people unable to enjoy their later years, my dad included, who interestingly enough was exactly the same age as I am now, when he died of cancer. I'm convinced stress played a big part in his illness

[K.Snyder]

It's a matter of preference and relativity. A person that enjoys art and makes art a fundamental virtue in their lives wouldn't see a decline in the quality of their life until much much later than the person that molds their life around playing sports. Until "age" can be an agreed upon definition this will always be relative. This means asking about ones quality of life is a direct question that asks how many times they've been able to move out of bed, it's rude

[binbag]

I know exactly what your saying Snowfire.



Like millions of others I suffered attack and I’m convinced that stress, over a very long period during my working life, was the root cause. It only joined other health issues I have but it certainly focuses the mind.

I’m 67 in a couple of months but as far as I’m concerned I’ve another 25 years ahead of me.

I truly do mean that.

I believe much of anyone’s quality of life is in the mind.

If we can be happy and content with what we have, whatever the situation, rather than on what we don’t have, we’re 99% there.

bb

[Lon]

binbag;1338909 wrote: .

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Despite several health issues, I've discovered that, all things considered, the quality of life for me has increased as I get older, my wife feels exactly the same.



Whatever your age, I was wondering if you had thought about such a thing before, and if so, what does the quality of life, as you understand it, mean to you as you grow older?



bb just a teenager nearly 67.

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Being of sound mind and age 76 I can certainly relate to your post. I feel most fortunate indeed to enjoy the quality of life that both my wife and I presently enjoy.

She, being a Breast Cancer Survivor of 5 years and me a Prostate Cancer Survivor of 18 years and then diagnosed with a rare form of Lymphoma (Waldenstrom's Disease) two years ago. Despite these medical inconveniences we are active with sports on a daily basis and are still able to travel extensively and enjoy life.

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[along-for-the-ride]

I think it's very simple....really. When you are young you see your whole life ahead of you, so you go about your life trying to do what's right, what's best, what's expected of you and stress about it sometimes. When you are around 60 years of age, you know that most of your life is behind you, so you tend to appreciate and enjoy it more. Every day, you count your blessings. Simple things can bring so much pleasure. I am speaking for myself, ofcourse.

[binbag]

Your words are very encouraging, it gives everyone a boost to read such positive replies.



You are an inspiration to all who read this post.:-6

I hope many more post in their thoughts for us all to read and enjoy.

[Oscar Namechange]

Snowfire;1338916 wrote: - yeah I know I barely look forty - Pardon ??? !!!!

[Bryn Mawr]

Snowfire;1338916 wrote: Quality of life is very important to me and something I think of more as I get older. Now I'm in my mid 50's - yeah I know I barely look forty - I refuse to have any stress in my life if I can possibly help it. I refuse to work at the weekend, they are very special to me, its when I spend my time with my kids and grandkids. I've stopped chasing a pound note and If I could afford it - which I most certainly cant - I would love to give up work and get under my wife's feet full time.

I've seen too many people unable to enjoy their later years, my dad included, who interestingly enough was exactly the same age as I am now, when he died of cancer. I'm convinced stress played a big part in his illness


Having just worked twenty two hours in the last thirty I'm beginning to think you're right - the stress of work is something I can do without.

When I was in my twenties I seriously did not expect to reach forty - a fairly serious accident each year was the norm and accepted as such.

Now that I'm several decades older I think that I might have a future and I wouldn't mind enjoying it.

Plans will have to be made - I've worked long enough and it's payback time. There have been three weeks of my adult life when I've not been in work, my family are no longer my dependants and I'm due some me time!

There must be more to life than this?

[cars]

The quality of life can vary depending on its' definition! However, IMO, first & foremost S/B good health, followed by the right complement of money to time. Because with good health & tiime but without money can be frustrating, And money without good health & or time, can be just as frustrating. Therefore, a happy accord (complement) of all 3 needs to be present for a comfortable (even happy) life.

[Snowfire]

oscar;1339006 wrote: Pardon ??? !!!!


OK. Late 30's

[Snowfire]

Bryn Mawr;1339072 wrote: Having just worked twenty two hours in the last thirty I'm beginning to think you're right - the stress of work is something I can do without.

When I was in my twenties I seriously did not expect to reach forty - a fairly serious accident each year was the norm and accepted as such.



Now that I'm several decades older I think that I might have a future and I wouldn't mind enjoying it.

Plans will have to be made - I've worked long enough and it's payback time. There have been three weeks of my adult life when I've not been in work, my family are no longer my dependants and I'm due some me time!

There must be more to life than this?


God ! what did you do for a living ? bomb disposal ?

[Bryn Mawr]

Snowfire;1339145 wrote: God ! what did you do for a living ? bomb disposal ?


Mostly motorcycle accidents of one form or another but I managed spells in hospital even without the bike :wah:

[Bez]

I'm 64 and a few life changing things have happened in the last 4 yrs.....health problems, retirement, divorce, being alone etc etc. However, I think I am the happiest that i have been for years. I don't get stressed about the 'little ' things anymore, I'm more tolerant, my life is my own to live as nobody is dependant on me anymore and I am not dependant on anyone.

10 years ago I couldn't imagine NOT working because I loved my job....now I cherish the time that is 'my own'. Greet each day as a huge bonus and yes I'm really happy and content. :-6:-6

The only downside to being a 'senior' citizen is that the time flies by like a jet engine.....or is that just the times we live in.....

[Lon]

Bez;1339229 wrote: I'm 64 and a few life changing things have happened in the last 4 yrs.....health problems, retirement, divorce, being alone etc etc. However, I think I am the happiest that i have been for years. I don't get stressed about the 'little ' things anymore, I'm more tolerant, my life is my own to live as nobody is dependant on me anymore and I am not dependant on anyone.

10 years ago I couldn't imagine NOT working because I loved my job....now I cherish the time that is 'my own'. Greet each day as a huge bonus and yes I'm really happy and content. :-6:-6

The only downside to being a 'senior' citizen is that the time flies by like a jet engine.....or is that just the times we live in.....


"Tempus Fugit" (time flies)----------how right you are----some things I did 10 years ago seem like it was yesterday. We put out the garbage on Thursday for pick up and it seems like Thursday comes every other day. :wah:

[M.A.S]

umm the quality of life is depending in the way we live, talk and deal with people and situations. However, sometimes I think: why should I live? am I doing something good to the world?

btw, I'm 20.

[binbag]

M.A.S;1339499 wrote: umm the quality of life is depending in the way we live, talk and deal with people and situations. However, sometimes I think: why should I live? am I doing something good to the world? btw, I'm 20.M.A.S, the fact you think that way and actually mention it in your reply, suggests you are a person who wants to "do good", so you will be "doing good" without realizing it.

At the very least, think of the good posts you have sent in, people will have discovered "good" in some of those.

You are studying Jet engine and machine Engineering so your family will be proud of you.

When you complete your course you're family will be even proud of you, so there you are, you are "doing good".

You will have "done good" to people without realizing it.

A sympathetic word in response to someone telling you a worry they have on their mind.

Opening a door for someone allowing them pass through before you.

Offering a smile to someone.

Just three very simple actions that do "good" for someone.

So think positive my friend, "think good" of yourself, you are worth it.

"You are doing good".

bb