Aura;1352075 wrote: I live in the UK and I have curvature of the spine. I have been having meetings with a job searching company who want me to find paid work and get off the benefits. I am on income support and DLA (lower rate). I don't mind loosing the income support if I find the right job, but I don't want to lose my DLA.
I tried discussing this with my mum, but we ended up arguing, because she says all the job searching company want is to get me off the benefits and into work to save the government money. She also says that after I have paid my bills I will be stumped and worse off then before.
I'm confused, I want to get off the Income support because my life is going nowhere, and I want to move on and progress. I feel pulled in two different directions. Can anyone advise me please?
The job searching company only get paid by the employer if you are suitable and stay in the job. The good ones will give you a lot of help and suggest what qualifications might heklp you. Speak to more than one recruiting company. You can't get a better job until you've got a job so I would ignore your mother and keep looking, she might also be worried about you leaving home because you might not cope. Parents aren't always rational when it comes to their kids. I've got a teenaged nephew whose mother is convinced he is unhappy and wants to move back home. Teenage nephew is quite happy but is fed up being asked if he is happy by his mum so is always bad tempered and miserable when on the phone to her.