Why are you stalking me???

Valerie100 · Post by **Valerie100** » Wed Sep 28, 2005 5:18 pm

In 1996, I had the worse -- although, I thought he was a good man at the time -- boss ever. To this day, nothing and I mean nothing has gone right for me on the job front. As a matter of fact, my life has gone seriously downhill since I've known the man. I curse the day I met him. To top it off, he has produced TV programs, and things that have happened to me and in my life have popped up on the tube in one way, shape or form, believe it or not. This has been going on for years, and I don't know how to get him to stop. It's subtle, you know. He has found a grey area to take advantage of me. I think this guy thinks he's like Sherwood Schwartz (the Brady Bunch guy); Sherwood Schwartz used to do something similar by taking events from his own kids lives and weaving them into his shows. I can't prove that this ex-boss is doing this, but I know he is. It seems like the man is trying to drive me literally insane with it, him and his oh-so-powerful connections and ability to produce shows and hurt me like this; or he's just a deranged stalker who won't leave me alone. I seriously think he's a sociopath. I don't know what his problem is. I knew him when I lived in Philadelphia, PA. Why then am I shopping in a Walmart and see him sneaking around the aisles in Jacksonville, FL, carrying a big trash can in front of himself; like, it's a good camouflage or something? Then I see him walking in the parking lot. He walked right passed me and completely empty-handed. I hope he realizes that in the end when he has to stand before God, his oh-so-powerful connections aren't going to mean a thing. I hope he can justify to God why he is doing this to me. (No, you don't have me pegged. You're just a weak spineless coward, by the way, picking on a single divorced woman!) If you visit this website, what the heck is wrong with you, you seriously sick SOB? Why are you stalking me???

CountryDweller · Post by **CountryDweller** » Wed Sep 28, 2005 5:25 pm

Sorry to hear that you are going through all the B.S. with this man. Stalking is a seroius crime! It's very scary, I've been through it once. I'm sure Florida has stalking laws like PA. Why can't you call the cops and report what he is doing?

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Sep 28, 2005 5:43 pm

wow........... thats all I can muster right now

actionfigurestepho · Post by **actionfigurestepho** » Wed Sep 28, 2005 8:30 pm

I agree with Flop, cameras are your friend when you're being stalked! I'd also install an alarm on your house if you don't have one. Are you keeping a record of all the times this guy's bugged you? Can you get him for harassment or menacing? Want me to slash his tires?

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Wed Sep 28, 2005 8:47 pm

he followed you from PA? we have stalking laws down here. call JSO. write an affidavit and get before a judge for an emergency restraining/no contact order. this is elementary and my BS detector is going nuts. 9 years with no resolution? and why would he visit this website? what are the odds of that? and sorry, i call them like i see them. there are huge gaping holes in this story.

K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Thu Sep 29, 2005 12:22 am

lady cop wrote: he followed you from PA? we have stalking laws down here. call JSO. write an affidavit and get before a judge for an emergency restraining/no contact order. this is elementary and my BS detector is going nuts. 9 years with no resolution? and why would he visit this website? what are the odds of that? and sorry, i call them like i see them. there are huge gaping holes in this story.

It's nice to know there are cops out there like you L.C........

Thats pretty good.

Say, have you ever seen that movie with Robin Williams in it??

Where he was supposedly the good guy, but In the end it was him all along........???

minks · Post by **minks** » Thu Sep 29, 2005 10:37 am

Yep I too agree with the camera thing, and heck what is the harm in letting him know you see him, don't let him see you weak. What a bastard. I wish I had more to offer but here in Canada, laws differ.

Valerie100 · Post by **Valerie100** » Thu Sep 29, 2005 6:08 pm

Thanks to all. Actually, this nut owns two companies, one being in Philadelphia and one being in Florida. He has his name on both doors. Or should I say it's one company, but in both places.

Yes, the camera idea sounds great. I should start to carry one. I do carry a cell phone.

After nine years of this BS, the thing is -- as I know and so does everybody else -- you need proof. You have to be able to prove something. If you can't prove it, well, then it's a lost cause. It doesn't mean it's not happening, though. My father was a police officer, and he told me, "If you think you saw something, but you're not sure that you actually saw it -- you probably did." That's where my thinking is right now, following Dad's wisdom. I'm at this point just trying to be careful and giving it to God. That's about all I can do.

Flops, I'm glad Philly was great and welcome back! (How was the weather there? What part of Philly did you stay in?)