What the heck do you say ?

[Oscar Namechange]

So last night ( late ) up pops live chat on Facebook with ' Can I ring you now, urgent'.

One of my girlfriends caught her husband cheating and Is absolutely devastated.

Here's the thing... hearing the gory details, It's not physical cheating. He says he's never met her and It's a phone thing.

Last night he went to bed early and going to bed later, she walked Into the bedroom to find him ahem, In a state of arousal with pictures of some woman's bits on his mobile phone.

He's Insisting It's not cheating because he's not actually met her ( yet) and Insists It's only been happening for around a week.

She see's It as a total betrayal and Insists the trust Is gone and has thrown him out.

I see that as an over re-action and not enough to deprive two babies of their Father.

What can you say? I suppose different people react differently but In this world of easy access Internet flashing of bits on line, Is It an over-reaction ?

[Chloe_88]

I would have castrated him.

It's sexual interaction with a person..

Watching porn on tv is different (i think), because he would just be watching a stranger not actually interacting with her.

But yes different people react differently ..

Just to add in there, I don't have kids to worry about. Especially when kids are involved, it is difficult.

Hubby just also said he would see it as cheating..