Sometimes it's just the way....

Post by **Chloe_88** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 1:23 pm

Sometimes it's just the way... you feel.

Or should I say, the way I feel.

I haven't been comfortable posting on FG for a very long time. As much as I love talking to some of you guys, 99% of the time I end up feeling negative, stressed and punched down after posting on FG by some members.

Therefore i have decided I am leaving FG for good this time.

I have decided after seeing my dad have a heart attack, my brother dying (who is doing much better now, beating the odds), almost ending up with my brothers kids, saying goodbye to my grandma and even being quite ill myself in 2014, that I should focus on positive things. Things which i believe I will not be able to find during my stay on FG.

Why even bother with this thread? Because I want to thank the few people who are positive on FG. The ones who try and help others without putting people down. I will not name names, you know who you are. Thank you :-6

In a couple of days I will ask for my account to be deleted.

Thanks again to the positive people on FG and I wish you all the best in 2015. :-6

Post by **LarsMac** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 2:11 pm

We will miss you, but, yes, surround yourself with the things that make you feel better about yourself.

Seek happiness.

theia · Post by **theia** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 2:42 pm

Chloe, it's really sad that you don't find it positive to post here but I can understand that you don't and can understand you wanting to leave. I truly wish you would reconsider :-4

Post by **Chloe_88** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 3:29 pm

Thank you Lars and Theia.

I have been thinking about this for a long while now, and I believe its my time to go and surround myself with positive things and people. As my OCD had become seriously bad over the past year I have decided to focus on working out ut stuff like that instead of making it worse with stressful situations.

Theia you have seriously been one of the most positive people I have talked to on any forum. Thank you! :-6

FourPart · Post by **FourPart** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 3:32 pm

You already know my feelings, but I would reiterate by suggesting that at least you keep your account open. At least in that way you can always pop in as & when you feel like it.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 3:34 pm

That's a shame, sorry to hear it and I second fourpart with his request that you leave the account... just in case :-6:-4

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 3:40 pm

Chloe... for one so young, you've been through so much and I know myself that you can feel everything and everyone Is against you at times.

You have friends here so keep your account open and just use FG as a place to come when It all gets a bit much and you can sound off.

Closing doors Is not the answer. You need support and at least your friends here can help In some small way.

Fuzzy · Post by **Fuzzy** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 6:59 pm

I believe I know how you feel Chloe. I have left one or two forum sites myself when I felt I didn't fit in. Sometimes it's best to simply move on.

Post by **Chloe_88** » Sun Jan 04, 2015 4:00 am

Fuzzy;1470742 wrote: I believe I know how you feel Chloe. I have left one or two forum sites myself when I felt I didn't fit in. Sometimes it's best to simply move on.

Good way to put it. That's exactly how I feel.

Although I'll be closing the door on FG another has opened on a different forum where I feel I fit in just that little bit better.

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Sun Jan 04, 2015 5:41 am

Chloe_88;1470757 wrote: Good way to put it. That's exactly how I feel.

Although I'll be closing the door on FG another has opened on a different forum where I feel I fit in just that little bit better.

A closed door can always be reopened at a later date - you'll always be welcome in the Garden but, in the mean time, may you find peace and happiness in your life :-6