Backstabbed at FG......

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:09 pm

I was so very sad to see my PM's to certain members at FG appear as a list on a PM to BTS. I only meant these PERSONAL MESSAGES as a way to say that even though we are married I don't always agree with his opinions. I am sick and sad. I can only say now that BTS's attacks on these people must have been correct from the beginning - how sad. :driving:

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:11 pm

*big hug*

Oh NV, that is sad someone betrayed your confidence. We all love you.

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:13 pm

chonsigirl wrote: *big hug*

Oh NV, that is sad someone betrayed your confidence. We all love you.

Thanks Chonsi - I still at the tear level

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:14 pm

Far Rider wrote: PMs should be private... I'd use the report post option NV!

I can't report PM's Far.......especially when they were not sent to me.........

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:14 pm

Good advice Far...................

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:16 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: Oh my... I hope BTS isn't mad at you for any of this.

No he is not and that is one of the many reasons I love him dearly.... He didn't even mention it for over a day because he loves me so and respects the fact I have different opinions.

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:22 pm

Far Rider wrote: oh Im sorry NV I misunderstood, I thought you meant they were posted publicly! My apologies!

*bows down and shuts up*

No bowing...............:wah: Just get up and go to the Pub. Now why isn't there a whip Smiley......I could get into that........LMFAO

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:35 pm

tmbsgrl wrote: Oh Nv, I am sorry. Now you know that you can't trust that person. It is really sad.

Thanks...........and my sympathy to the Bear loss yesterday. I was sad about that.....BUT my Skins won.

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 8:16 pm

tmbsgrl wrote: Yeah that sucked... damit!!!!!!!:-5

The Bears still have a better chance at the playoffs....

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 8:18 pm

JAB wrote: Well that just bites, NV. I'm so sorry.

Thanks Jab.......... I am finding I have more friends here than I thought. The heck with the Others.

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 8:30 pm

JAB wrote: AMEN! Grab onto those on your side and forget the others.

I think betraying a person's confidence is about the worst thing someone can do to a friend. It happened to me once (in a public forum no less!) and I was humiliated. This person is no longer in my life and it's their loss as far as I'm concerned.

:-4 I was trying to be middle of the road with poeple......didn't work.....thanks

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:40 pm

tmbsgrl wrote: I know but i was hoping their winning streak wouldn't end so soon!!!! At least they won 8 games in a row.. Something they haven't been able to do since '85

WOOHOO!!

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:42 pm

that terrible person would be ME. while BTS was flaming me nv apologized for him. so i sent him the pm. big damn deal. this did not need to be a thread. boo hoo. whine whine

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:53 pm

lady cop wrote: that terrible person would be ME. while BTS was flaming me nv apologized for him. so i sent him the pm. big damn deal. this did not need to be a thread. boo hoo.

No comment.........

BTS · Post by **BTS** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 10:06 pm

nvalleyvee wrote: No comment.........

No comment.........

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 1:00 am

No disrespect to anyone here, but why is all of this being brought to the boards?

In the time i have been part of this family i have used the ignore post button once,

why on earth dont you all do the same? it would save people getting hurt and alliances being forged.

It makes me very sad to see all this nit-picking, and yes, i know i could do the same,

but why on earth should i have to? there are some very strong characters on FG, big and strong enough to agree to disagree.

Sorry for sticking my hooter in, but it just makes me so sad.

TenneseeGirl · Post by **TenneseeGirl** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 3:45 am

lady cop wrote: that terrible person would be ME. while BTS was flaming me nv apologized for him. so i sent him the pm. big damn deal. this did not need to be a thread. boo hoo. whine whine

Defencive? Sounds like it.

Well your lack of consideration makes me angry. If you did not understand the concept of PRIVATE atleast you do now. The least you could do is appologise. If you do something that upsets someone it is the propper thing to do. But i suppose you dont know anything about that now do you?

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 3:55 am

TenneseeGirl wrote: Defencive? Sounds like it.

Well your lack of consideration makes me angry. If you did not understand the concept of PRIVATE atleast you do now. The least you could do is appologise. If you do something that upsets someone it is the propper thing to do. But i suppose you dont know anything about that now do you?
Well this is just what the fvck I needed today. You'll forgive me, I'm not exactly in my right mind at the moment, but one thing is VERY clear to me. If you want to learn about lack of consideration, you might take a quick gander at how LC held your mother's hand all through the sh!t with your step dad without a single word of thanks or even a thought to the toll it was taking on LC. And the subsequent bashing she has taken at the hands of both your mother and BTS. I guess LC figured that she got as good as she gave when no apology was forthcoming from others who owed one to her. Your ignorance makes ME angry.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 5:44 am

I love you all, NV, BTS, sweet LC, and I really don't want anyone else to be upset. The loss of Floppy this week is devastating enough to some, and Abbey's comments about PM-ing about the problem is great. Please do not fight anymore, and keep our FG family together and happy.

theia · Post by **theia** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 5:47 am

chonsigirl wrote: I love you all, NV, BTS, sweet LC, and I really don't want anyone else to be upset. The loss of Floppy this week is devastating enough to some, and Abbey's comments about PM-ing about the problem is great. Please do not fight anymore, and keep our FG family together and happy.

I second that, Chonsi, with all my heart...:-4

TenneseeGirl · Post by **TenneseeGirl** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 7:22 am

lady cop wrote: did she mean DEFENSIVE? :wah: or APOLOGIZE?:wah: or PROPER? :wah:

You know your internet etiquette is astonishingly despicable. Not only do you skirt the issue at hand by making fun of someone who is spelling challenged, but you also throw the whole concept of confidence out the window. Each time I meet someone like you online it makes me happy that I will never have the displeasure of coming into contact with you in real life. People like you who have no respect for the things said in private are the same reason so many people fear public forums. Go ahead and mock me as if we were children on a playground. Make fun of my spelling and grammatical errors. This does not bother me as much as having to fend off people like you.

TenneseeGirl · Post by **TenneseeGirl** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 7:37 am

BabyRider wrote: Well this is just what the fvck I needed today. You'll forgive me, I'm not exactly in my right mind at the moment, but one thing is VERY clear to me. If you want to learn about lack of consideration, you might take a quick gander at how LC held your mother's hand all through the sh!t with your step dad without a single word of thanks or even a thought to the toll it was taking on LC. And the subsequent bashing she has taken at the hands of both your mother and BTS. I guess LC figured that she got as good as she gave when no apology was forthcoming from others who owed one to her. Your ignorance makes ME angry.

I do apologize if you think I am ignorant. That is something you may choose to think if it suites your moral bankruptcy. Here you go with that whole confidence thing again. This was a thread about a PM being shown to a third party. So what did you do? Bring up more personal issues. I salute your power to divert the gaze of the public from LC and onto me. I do hope that you did not expect me to try to defend myself from the moronic opinions of Ã¢â‚¬Å“biker trashÃ¢â‚¬ like yourself. I accept the newfound knowledge that I am ignorant of support given to NV by LC. But there we go again with the whole personal and private issues thing. I am not going to beat a dead horse any longer.

Once again I would like to thank you for your insight into my intelligence. I will surely note that upon further posting.

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 8:35 am

OK folks this is out of control... I see 7 year olds behave better that you all do. None of this has any business being on a forum period...:-5

Everyone makes to much of NOTHING.... You go on, and on, and on and frankly it makes me laugh how utterly imature of you all.

Exactly what do you want to happen NV everyone is suppose to hate LC??? Because your husband has bad manners... Sorry ain't going to happen. LC didn't break you, or your husbands trust, or confidence. She just sent you want BTS said in a PM period.. If he hadn't been so rude to her in the first place none of this would have happened.

NV your the one who brought this to FORUM.. its your responsibility to stop it now.

PEOPLE IT'S A FORUM QUIT BARING YOUR SOULS DAILY, YOU WILL GET HURT, AND YOU BETTER BE TOUGH ENOUGH TO TAKE IT..!! AND STOP THIS CHILDISH FIGHTING.. YOU ALL MAKE YOURSELF LOOK BAD.

Find something else to do like go outside and smell the fresh air.. your over reacting period..

ELF · Post by **ELF** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 10:53 am

Snooze :-4

anastrophe · Post by **anastrophe** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 11:05 am

this thread ends HERE, and it ends NOW.

i'm not going to close the thread. i'm going to ask that nobody else post to it any more.

okay? okay.

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 12:19 pm

I agree with Carla here....I know who my sympathies are with, but I think there has been too much airing of emotions and anger in public. This is upsetting to the other members as we come here for help, support, discussion and friendship....this will tear the friendships apart which will be a tragedy....people are already taking sides .... Please can we move on and remember it's Christmas....'goodwill to all men' !!!

Sorry if this sounds like a lecture, but I care so much about you all....Bez

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 12:20 pm

Sorry Anastophe....our posts overlapped