How does Lonely happen?

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:26 pm

boris wrote: i apologize, yes i have only posted after being here for 37 seconds but have spent time looking around, following threads etc.

you speak of having zero knowledge of others yet you do not know yourself

once you truly know yourself then you will know everyone around you,

i do not refer only to you please dont take as personal attack.

You lyin' dude. It took me at least 37 seconds to figure out which page I was on?

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:28 pm

BabyRider wrote: I do not know myself? Where is everyone getting off tonight, assuming to know EVERYONE else so well??? I'm totally floored here!! Did I somehow get warped back to the bolt forum I so recently escaped??? And Boris, keep your psychoanalyzing of me to yourself. If I want your opinion, you'll know, 'cause I'll ask for it.

You're floored?

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:32 pm

lady cop wrote: uh boris...just out of curiousity...aside from being the author of "how to win friends and influence people", why did you bother signing on here? how about trying an introduction, and tell us a little about yourself? it's a friendly welcoming group. you must have had some reason for joining up.

I was going to comment on this last night but, wow, do I feel protected or what? Yes I do. Yes I do!

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:34 pm

kensloft wrote: You're floored?
Amazed, flabbergasted, astounded....Is that what you were looking for? :yh_bigsmi

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:35 pm

boris wrote: i dont need to get to know personalities as i already know exactly who you are and what you are about!

if you now want to know yourself then review your replies to what i have said on this thread and maybe take some of your own "advice" onboard.

it seems to me that the things which you find disagreable in others are the things which are clearly in your "personality"

i am only passing through here but i do see a lot of lonely people with little understanding, a lot of aggresion too.

stop pretending to be what you clearly are not!

Whoa! Can you spell cliche city.

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:37 pm

boris wrote: i dont need to get to know personalities as i already know exactly who you are and what you are about!

if you now want to know yourself then review your replies to what i have said on this thread and maybe take some of your own "advice" onboard.

it seems to me that the things which you find disagreable in others are the things which are clearly in your "personality"

i am only passing through here but i do see a lot of lonely people with little understanding, a lot of aggresion too.

stop pretending to be what you clearly are not!

Lonely? You think we're lonely? Wow! Have you looked in the mirror recently?

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:43 pm

boris wrote: and arnt you just the cleverest thing in the universe!

you must really believe that if you maintain your air of mystery then no one will see whats inside,

i can see right through you

i will say to you what i said to your friend

review your replies and take your own advice.

THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE

I would correct your spelling but I am a Canadian.

I can see right through you? Aren't they the words from a beatles(sic) song.

Whatever you do don't pass through. Hang out and help us get to where you are at?

You telling me I can't remember what I am saying? Hic.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:44 pm

kensloft wrote: Lonely? You think we're lonely? Wow! Have you looked in the mirror recently?
Now Kensloft...What makes you think Boris is lonely? Is it the fact that he has ESP and can discover a person's personality after one reply? Or is it that he is so very much better than everyone and therefore must not waste any time conversing with us useless bi-peds? No no, I know...It's that he has posted 10 times here in the Garden, the friendliest place on the net, and managed to alienate so many people!! AM I right??

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:50 pm

weeder wrote: My dear friends(you know who you are......Id like to suggest that you all spend a few minutes today,reading the posts on the Do You Believe in the Devil topic.

Arm yourselves with the proper protective gear, put on the eyes that you need to see clearly......engage a little self preservation.. and walk away.. Than it will go away, and find more fertile ground.. where discord flourishes.

Yah. But if we don't kick its butt then it'll think that it has free rein to come around and remind us that it has free rein?

Discord? They don't know the meaning of the word.

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 4:57 pm

BabyRider wrote: Amazed, flabbergasted, astounded....Is that what you were looking for? :yh_bigsmi

There aren't words that boris has invented, yet, that can describe how I feel!

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 5:01 pm

BabyRider wrote: Now Kensloft...What makes you think Boris is lonely? Is it the fact that he has ESP and can discover a person's personality after one reply? Or is it that he is so very much better than everyone and therefore must not waste any time conversing with us useless bi-peds? No no, I know...It's that he has posted 10 times here in the Garden, the friendliest place on the net, and managed to alienate so many people!! AM I right??

You call that alienation? Wow. (Canadian expression) He duh dude.

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 6:30 pm

kensloft wrote: Yah. But if we don't kick its butt then it'll think that it has free rein to come around and remind us that it has free rein?

Discord? They don't know the meaning of the word.
You cant kick his butt.. His butt is between his shoulder blades.. The stuff that was originally in his skull.. left through his butt a long time ago. So.. you wouldnt be able to find his butt. You would get your feet stuck in grey mush slip and fall.. wet your pants laughing.. have to leave your

computer to change your pants..

And then we would miss you..And we would be left with this blob who doesnt have a bottom anymore. It would just be a big butt with a face.. trying to talk.But then his fingers wouldnt work right anymore.. and then what? where would we all be? what would we do? how would we ever get to know anything.. or get to know ourselves? or be able to continue the love circle we have going amongst us

with it gone? HaHaHaHaHaHa Ill bet your thinking.. She really DOES smoke pot

That slippery, sneaky,virtuous,tough as nails,soft as putty.. weeder... Tricky little vixen..hey,Kensloft.

Post by **kensloft** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 7:21 pm

weeder wrote: You cant kick his butt.. His butt is between his shoulder blades.. The stuff that was originally in his skull.. left through his butt a long time ago. So.. you wouldnt be able to find his butt. You would get your feet stuck in grey mush slip and fall.. wet your pants laughing.. have to leave your

computer to change your pants..

And then we would miss you..And we would be left with this blob who doesnt have a bottom anymore. It would just be a big butt with a face.. trying to talk.But then his fingers wouldnt work right anymore.. and then what? where would we all be? what would we do? how would we ever get to know anything.. or get to know ourselves? or be able to continue the love circle we have going amongst us

with it gone? HaHaHaHaHaHa Ill bet your thinking.. She really DOES smoke pot

That slippery, sneaky,virtuous,tough as nails,soft as putty.. weeder... Tricky little vixen..hey,Kensloft.

As they say in French... Qu'est que c'est French? You'se guys don't know nuttin'. I love you sweet lady. Dey don't know how to spell the woid but. You think that they know the meaning of grey stuff? You honkies is all de same! You, not being of the honky variety, are just too sweet. (too cool in the words of LC)

koan · Post by **koan** » Tue Feb 01, 2005 4:05 pm

iyaikone,

There are some very good thoughts here.

I do often find myself surrounded by people with very different ambitions (or none)

When I spend time with those of like mind the loneliness is abated. I think you nailed it.

Thanks for bringing this back on topic :-6

Post by **kensloft** » Tue Feb 01, 2005 5:17 pm

iyaikone wrote: I believe the loneliness will vaporize when you gather more with those with whom you share only "common things in common with". More like hanging out with a body whom would only listening to music whereas you always dance to music.

What happens when the body gets tired of listening to music and the dancer gets tired of dancing?

capt_buzzard · Post by **capt_buzzard** » Tue Feb 01, 2005 5:35 pm

You have got to reach out. Reach out to others around you. The world is not such a bad place. There are some good folk about waiting....just for you.

In the quiet time, I reestablish peace within and find the spirit of my fellow men and women on a similar path.