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spot wrote: Actually, I strongly hope you're mistaken in saying that. Jives is a friend, not merely a passing acquaintance to be shrugged off if the going gets tough.I'm really getting to like you Spot x
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I hope if this all proves to be a hoax some of you will go away, and others will take your witch hunting urges elsewhere. Until Jives comes in and proves this true or false why don't you all just stop bashing him and Far.
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Far Rider wrote: I've been thinking about this all night:

A newbie named Creswell from the other forum that Kev is from started this thread there linking forum garden and made the connection with Jives from the two posts he may have made.

Another Newbie called Nameless joined the gin blossom forum shortly after (both with in the past four days)

These two have done and end around trying to bring this to light, and as of yet have not come forward to even openly accuse Jives, instead, like the cowards they are, they hide under assumed names there, and out of fear wont even come here and register or post. (or they are here already and we know them as different folks)

I posted there at the ginblossomnet forum asking them to identify themsleves and they still have not.

If I were Jives... I'd not say a damn word in my defense publicly. I'd not give these two cowards the satisfaction of a response. Instead I'd quietly PM my friends an answer .

This is an attack plain and simple. Not necessarily by the fellas at Gin blossom net, but by the two known as Creswell and Nameless.


hmmm seems kinda hinky to me.
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OK, guys, I have stayed out of this thread just to see what was going to happen. But nothing's happened. Jives has not been here to refute any of the claims made by the people from the Gin Blossoms forum.

The odd thing to me about all this is, Jives started the thread saying, "None of you will believe this, and I don't really care," which to me, if a person is being honest, there is no need to point out that you're being honest.

People are calling out the GB fans and saying it's a "witch hunt" and they are "bashing" etc., etc., when all I see is a few people who seem to know what they are talking about and are in fact in touch with the band itself, trying to shed some fact on the subject.

Further, if I were to go to the site myself to post what I thought, I would not hide behind a false name or remain hidden from those here, but I can fully understand why someone else would. Me, I don't care if people know I disagree with them, others here do not like confrontations and prefer to state their views anonymously. I don't call that cowardly, I call it keeping the peace here.

It always sucks when drama from two different forums overlaps, but in this case, when it involves a memeber of our own, who (it seems to ME) may have stretched the truth a little, I'd be coming in roaring my honesty and proving it.
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maybe he's busy. Everyone of course will have their own opinion. Me!? I wait for all the parties to show and give testimony before judging. :)

Once upon a time, long ago, on a forum far away, I had someone do this to me... come into MY arena and bad mouth me and tell stories and had 80% of my friends freaked out that I was a bald faced liar... there were very many not-niceties from PMs, to hate mail... and it all came from someone who saw my profile, didn't know me from adam and decided to play with people... and the reason I wasn't there to defend myself... I fractured my ankle and was AFK! All the friends except for one understood and returned... one was damaged beyond repair. Nothing I could do. And for that I hope my accuser rots in hell.

POINT!? wait to judge if you must judge at all.
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BabyRider wrote: OK, guys, I have stayed out of this thread just to see what was going to happen. But nothing's happened. Jives has not been here to refute any of the claims made by the people from the Gin Blossoms forum.

The odd thing to me about all this is, Jives started the thread saying, "None of you will believe this, and I don't really care," which to me, if a person is being honest, there is no need to point out that you're being honest.

People are calling out the GB fans and saying it's a "witch hunt" and they are "bashing" etc., etc., when all I see is a few people who seem to know what they are talking about and are in fact in touch with the band itself, trying to shed some fact on the subject.

Further, if I were to go to the site myself to post what I thought, I would not hide behind a false name or remain hidden from those here, but I can fully understand why someone else would. Me, I don't care if people know I disagree with them, others here do not like confrontations and prefer to state their views anonymously. I don't call that cowardly, I call it keeping the peace here.

It always sucks when drama from two different forums overlaps, but in this case, when it involves a memeber of our own, who (it seems to ME) may have stretched the truth a little, I'd be coming in roaring my honesty and proving it.


you failed to see the word IF And no I didn't call this a witch hunt, I said if it turns into one then I hope it is stopped. And Jives is on spring break not at school, I suspect he has better things on his agenda at the moment.
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minks wrote: you failed to see the word IF And no I didn't call this a witch hunt, I said if it turns into one then I hope it is stopped. And Jives is on spring break not at school, I suspect he has better things on his agenda at the moment.


so to back up a tad....

If in my post was bolded so it would be recognized as just that if, and my point now after that is ....

here is how threads are mis-read, and or mis-interpreted, as well it is a grand base for rumor starting. BR I am not pointing fingers at you, I am back at my usual stand, it is so easy to mis-understand anything on here and next thing you know we have raised Mass Hysteria.

Things that result in misread posts, ... we now have to be over nice, we now have to post in detail what we mean, we now have to say sorry if I offended, we now have to be forum PC.

May be off topic but it again points out the ease of how the mood can go "sour" so easily on FG.
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Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2005 7:47 pm Post subject: Ghost from the Past

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Hi everyone. My name is Jon Ives. I was a good friend of Jesse, Phillip, Doug, and Robin back when they played at Long Wongs in Tempe. As a matter of fact I lived right across the street from them when they lived on 13th street.

I'd like to drop them a line, just to check in and say hi. (I still remember my last conversation with Doug, just before he passed away and I think of him often as I'm sure they all do)

Things have changed quite a bit for me. I used to be a cook for Long Wongs when Scott and Dave owned it, before Scott edged Dave out. (I hooked Robin up with free food a lot) and I hung out with a big funny Native American guy named Elmer Reeves.(He lived with Scott Guess and Clay kelly, if you're reading this Robin, remember him?)

here's a picture of me to refresh yor memory:

http://fc.fms.k12.nm.us/~jives/Mr_Ives_at_his_Desk

So anyway, after Doug died, I moved back to New Mexico and went back to college. I got my teaching degree and went on to be the Math department head for Mesa View Middle School.

Now I'm the principal for a school for alternative kids called the Transition Academy:

http://fc.fms.k12.nm.us/~jives/

If any of the band members read this board, and I hope they do, give me a buzz and let's talk about the old days. (Oh, and I just found that original demo tape that Scott gave me the other day, the one with Doug still on it.) and Robin, I like you articles in OPM, although I must say that I didn't recognize you at first.

To the other fans on the board, pleased to meet you! I have my own forum too.

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Can we please stop attacking each other??

All we need is for the above post to be explained.

People have been known to embellish the truth about themselves in an effort to make themselves more likeable or whatever their particular insecurity is, it's not the end of the world! I'm hoping that's all it is if there is not a better explanation!

Jives, if you are the "you" that you present here at the garden then you need to know that we all love you for you and not what you have or have not done with your life! So get your butt back in the garden so we can laugh at...ahem...I mean with you!:D

And that shall conclude Sunny's once in a blue moon contribution to a controversial thread thankyouverymuch! :)
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JAB wrote: At the risk of this turning into a nationwide report of when people have spring break, I live in Chonsi's neck of the woods and my boss' kids are on spring break this week so it is possible.

And now, like you Snooze, I am out of this as well.


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so many people getting all upset over rumors... just wait.



about spring break... mine, my sons, and my nephews.... do NOt overlap... all separate.. it sucks. :thinking:
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Maybe this should help you all.

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This is a little odd:

So anyway, after Doug died, I moved back to New Mexico and went back to college. I got my teaching degree and went on to be the Math department head for Mesa View Middle School.

Now I'm the principal for a school for alternative kids called the Transition Academy:

http://fc.fms.k12.nm.us/~jives/




From that site:

The Transition Academy is located at Rocinante High School. Information on students attending the Academy can be obtained by contacting Jon Ives. Jon Ives is the Transition Academy Lead Teacher and can assist any parent seeking information. He can be reached at ***-****, ext. **** or e-mail him at:




It appears that there are only two teachers at the Academy: Jonathan St. Ives and Donna Bottoms. I guess it could be said that he is the "principle" teacher.
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Sheesh,

Give the guy a break!
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seriously saddened by this thread.

and moreover ashamed that i actually clicked a link.



goes back to jives' corner and awaits news... :-2
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JAB wrote: And maybe as a teacher, he's out on Spring Break like a lot of other people are at this time of year.
I think that is probably it, and I hope he has a nice break!

*not like Lil's*
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minks wrote: I hope if this all proves to be a hoax some of you will go away, and others will take your witch hunting urges elsewhere. Until Jives comes in and proves this true or false why don't you all just stop bashing him and Far.
Minks, my whole point is that there is no bashing going on anywhere. There's questions that have been raised as to the validity of Jives story and I for one would like to see the answers. Just out of pure curiosity's sake. I could not care less if Jives was in the GB pre-Doug, post-Doug, sometime in the ice age or in another dimension. It just doesn't matter all that much to me. But people here who are loyal to Jives *no matter what* are not looking at what the GB posters are trying to say with unveiled eyes. They can't see past their loyalty to Jives, all they see is someone saying, "He's not being truthful" and calling it an attack.

"Jives is my friend therefore he must not be a liar" is not a good enough reason. I'm having a hard time finding anything to refute what the posters from the other site are saying.

But, all in all, this story just doesn't matter all that much. If it's an embellished tale, well, it was a good one and I enjoyed reading it, Jives is a very creative writer and tells a good story. If it's the truth I'll be the first one to jump all over the GB group and give them a piece of my mind.

To call a group of people who really do seem to know what they are talking about as attacking Jives in unfair. Period. They were not name-calling, they were not obnoxious, they simply stated the facts they have.
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That is exactly why I decided to stop posting about this , Baby Rider. This is not a situation where any of us are attacking the guy--do you think if he thought WAS actually in the band at one time we would be doing this? A guy saw the post in your forum and thought it was odd--he went to us for answers at the official forum

All I did was point out facts:

1. Guy told two different sets of stories

2. Guy said he was in a band from 82-88 when that band didn't exist UNTIL the end of 87

3. There are no pictures, bios, articles, recordings ANYWHERE that supports his claim he was ever in the band.

4. The Gin Blossoms had a LONG road to success and those of us familiar with the band KNOW that story very well

5. The founder/guitarist and his self-described "best friend" HIMSELF said he never heard of Ives

6. The guys he said he played for that entire 6 year run--TWO of them weren't even original members

So, those are just a few of the FACTS that we have on our said. Your friend has this: "I was in the band from 82-88". If that is good enough for you, then there is NOTHING we can say to convince you otherwise. Points #1 and #2 are CANNOT be argued---it si RIGHT THERE in front of you! I invite Mr. Ives to answer all this points I just brought up. Either he is lying---or this is the most elaborate cover up in music history. The band LIED about when they formed, erased the memory of all press members and people who saw them play, erased the voice and guitar and any reference to Ives from all early live recordings from that 6 year period....yeah.
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kevaxe2k2 wrote: A guy saw the post in your forum and thought it was odd--he went to us for answers at the official forum


This right here is where it all began. Not some trollers out looking to bash someone's good name. It was someone looking for clarification. Seems to me, they are getting that clarification.
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Far Rider wrote:

Creswell and Nameless are trolls who live here in another AV/name. They dug into Jives past and found an inconsistancy and through some well thought out inside knowledge of band sites and fan forums, turned loose the hounds on Jives.



All these things have bearing on wether I accept the evidence, motive makes a huge difference to me... Why is as important as what.

With somebody as important as Jives reputation hangin on the line I want to be sure.




Motives? Trolls? SERIOUSLY, wake up. This person was familiar with the Gin BLossoms and saw Jives tellign EVERYONE he was IN the band. They have NO HISTORY with Jives---all they did was SEE HIS POST. Just pretend I saw the post, ok. Nobody dug into his past--he put it out there. This person didn't know the history as well as others so came to our forum and basically asked "Hey, is this guy for real?" That makes him a troll? If you liked a certain band and saw someone saying they were in the band wouldn't you do the same? THAT is the motive. Nobody at the GB KNOWS Ives (which is odd--considering he was supposedly in our fave band for 6 years) and we have NO axe to grind. I can't believe what I am reading from you. Ok, say Jesse really DIDN't e-mail me. The band still didn't exist when he was in it--and the guys he said were in the band weren't in the band at the time--and there is no EVIDENCE ANYWHERE to support his claim---and there is one HUGE chunk of info I have witheld and will spring upon him when he comes to back this up---if he does.
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Start your investigation now rather than OVER and OVER trying to discredit my facts. Please let me know if you find anything diffferent than what I posted. I am done until Mr. Ives. comes back to clear this up.
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FarRider wrote: Questioning your facts, should be welcomed if your facts are true.


Far, I do believe that Kevin has invited you to do just that.



I've read the stuff here, and I've read the stuff at the Gin Blossoms site. I'm having a hard time merging the two very different stories that Jives himself tells.

Disagreeing with you does not mean anything more than we disagree. That changes nothing between us, in my mind. We can agree to disagree until Jives is back and tells his side. I'm not here to bash anyone, INCLUDING the people from GB who are trying to set the record straight. Your loyalty is admirable, I appreciate it. As I'm sure Jives will when he reads this. One way or another the whole story will come out, and I will still consider you and Jives my friends, regardless of the outcome of this. This type of thing does not matter enough in the grand scheme of things to lose friends, but I do want to know the whole story, again, for pure curiosity's sake.
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the sign said "Breakfast Any Time" so i ordered bacon and eggs during the Renaissance.



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flopstock wrote: okay now, don't you start messin with my head you alien world conquering fruitloop!:thinking:


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spot wrote: Actually, I strongly hope you're mistaken in saying that. Jives is a friend, not merely a passing acquaintance to be shrugged off if the going gets tough.
Adjusting is hardly shrugging off.
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Man, I gotta give Jives credit. Dude was logged in yesterday morning and today:

Last Activity: Today 06:06 AM

He is showing remarkable restraint by not even dignifying this thread with a response. I know if it was ME, I would NOT allow my name to be dragged through the mud like this--let alone let Far Rider take the verbal bullets for me. But, I just don't have the restraint of one Jon Ives, sadly.
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kevaxe2k2 wrote: Man, I gotta give Jives credit. Dude was logged in yesterday morning and today:



Last Activity: Today 06:06 AM



He is showing remarkable restraint by not even dignifying this thread with a response. I know if it was ME, I would NOT allow my name to be dragged through the mud like this--let alone let Far Rider take the verbal bullets for me. But, I just don't have the restraint of one Jon Ives, sadly.


okay, that's enough baiting. if you have something substantive to say, fine. but don't come here and just ****-disturb.
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